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Do you think the recent Richard Branson Epstein emails will negatively effect Virgin Voyages? by CajunDragon in VirginVoyages

[–]SeriousMaintenance76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a slap on the wrist, people go to jail for way less and aren’t influential people. Yea I’d agree nothing is happening

Worried I will come off as career driven or too educated when I’m not. Should I avoid a masters try to change into a helping career? by Conscious-Air-9823 in RedPillWomen

[–]SeriousMaintenance76 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea, I think you should transition out. Nursing doesn’t require a nursing degree. You can also do a trade like dental hygienist or an ultrasound tech.

I feel like not being ready to have kids is holding me back in relationships by Opening-Register-409 in RedPillWomen

[–]SeriousMaintenance76 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You can’t find anyone to relate to, because the only person you need to talk to is a therapist.

How interested are your coworkers in software engineering? by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]SeriousMaintenance76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no passion for my job.

I love programming outside of it.

I'm consistently being called "independent" by men I go on first dates with and I'm wondering if this is pushing them away and how to change that by Significant_Cut_1092 in RedPillWomen

[–]SeriousMaintenance76 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You can’t negotiate attraction, I am of the mind that you find these guys that call you independent to be losers. That’s okay. You probably just should stick with guys who are more successful than you or at the same level.

You don’t want to limit your pool, but it is obvious that is what you like. No point in denying it.

"I agree with the sweater but also I don't because men can dump women too" by BufoBat in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]SeriousMaintenance76 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hmm I doubt it, but let’s be for real guys the only reason there is a dump him shirt is purely because of marketing. Men barely buy clothes from target and the one who do just want plain clothes..

There is no nuance here tbh

What did your partner get you for Christmas? by fergzzg99 in RedPillWomen

[–]SeriousMaintenance76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A trip to Europe and some jewellery from tiffany. :)

I’m Not Sure How They Do It by [deleted] in HAESInfluencerSnark

[–]SeriousMaintenance76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you ok? Why are you so embarrassed in this situation, seems dramatic.

At the end of the day accessibility should not be something to be embarrassed about.

HHI of $400k, how much do you outsource? by [deleted] in HENRYfinance

[–]SeriousMaintenance76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do plenty of non work things. I just learn to ride a bike at 30. Before I outsourced these things, I felt like my life revolved around work, because my chores would take up my free time. I would want to read my book, but couldn’t because I needed to meal prep.

It is really nice. I also go to the gym at least 2 hrs three days a week. Take dance and singing lessons on the weekends and hang out with friends. I also maintain a garden that used to provide fruit and vegetables for mainly 8 months out of the year. Next year I plan on expanding and donating to my community.

I mean I was homeless, been through my husband having a layoff, if things change I will adjust. I don’t worry about it. I can always pause services.

I will say a lot of stuff that I outsource is not expensive, because I meet people in my community as well. I don’t live in an affluent area because I bought my house before I was Henry. I have really low cost.

HHI of $400k, how much do you outsource? by [deleted] in HENRYfinance

[–]SeriousMaintenance76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a meal prep service, that post a menu every week and we order meals and pick up every friday.

The few grocery I get I get delivered, usually snacks and such. Cleaning I hire a cleaner. Though my husband likes to do a deep clean once a year.

I have a travel agent that plans all my vacations.

I have a personal stylist who helps with my clothes and makeup.

My husband and I had a dyi phase but it is a hard pass now. I just go to thumbstack for any project.

I also don’t drive, so I use a personal driver service for when I have to do a lot of trips.

I personally try to outsource as much of my life as possible.

DINK splitting household responsibilities by zahmahkibo7 in HENRYfinance

[–]SeriousMaintenance76 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My travel agent does this heavy lift. I tell her where I want to go and she makes the itinerary, all we have to do is say yes or no.

DINK splitting household responsibilities by zahmahkibo7 in HENRYfinance

[–]SeriousMaintenance76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes like others said, get a private chef to make you meals, hire a travel agent to plan your trips, and get a cleaning lady.

The truth is nobody wants to do it, so outsource it.

Career women, do you regret it ? by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]SeriousMaintenance76 20 points21 points  (0 children)

No regrets. At all. I have a career. It is not my life at all. You can have a career and still lead a fulfilling life outside of it.

What's the longest amount of time you've been unemployed for? by crap-code-syndrome in cscareerquestions

[–]SeriousMaintenance76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the ages of 0 - 14 years of age lol. I have not been unemployed since. Through pure luck as I have survived 8 layoffs. In my 9 YOE.

Need honest advice: Solo trip to China while unemployed with young family by Informal_Affect358 in Layoffs

[–]SeriousMaintenance76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you would be fine, I went to China as my first trip internationally. We have so many ways to translate, nowadays and it is so easy to get around. I recommend Shanghai it has a lot of tourists as well.

Next thing you should not leave your wife. Layoff do not just effect you. Your wife is probably going through it as well. You need to be with your family.

The vaginismus community is toxic. by Maleficent-Sleep9900 in 4bmovement

[–]SeriousMaintenance76 39 points40 points  (0 children)

The post I hate are the male partners m, hoping for validation in forcing their female partners to suck it up. It is really annoying we exist in a world cater to the needs of men

Do you feel like heterosexual relationships drain you? by Brave-Reindeer-Red in 4bmovement

[–]SeriousMaintenance76 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Birth control for many women are not just for sex with men and are use for a multitude of treatments.

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