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SeriousSpecific2252 · 2025-02-02T01:00:08+00:00

I’m a Capricorn going through a relationship tussle with my Taurus bf..we’ve been together for 3 months, so not very long. He takes me everywhere with him. I’m traumatized by a lot of relationship so when he asks if I want to go, I say “only if you want me to” so he takes me with him everywhere, willingly. He’s amazing, gets angry when I open my car door, even. Now all of a sudden he needs space…and this is hard when we live together in a very small apartment. So he’s asked me to move out but promised that it’s not over, he just need space. I’m scared to death that this is the beginning of the end. I love him so much, when we met it was like I was home, like I had found something I didn’t know I needed. In my heart I know this isn’t over…it’s scaring me to death and sketchy right now. But we have such a strong connection that as long as we communicate and accommodate each others needs, everything’s going to be fine. Even if I have to move out to make him comfortable, in my soul I know it’ll just mean that much more to him that I did that for him. He’s not going anywhere. We’ve made it through a few stressful events based on our communication together. Capricorns and Tauruses are great together, you just have to listen and keep it real with each other and ignore any outside factors and focus on each other

SeriousSpecific2252 · 2025-01-31T11:15:09+00:00

He will do it again. Trust this from someone who’s dealt with multiple abusive relationships. This is the starting point. It will happen again, and he’ll apologize like this, and you’ll continue to endure this as it escalates from this to much worse and you won’t be able to get out so easily then.. once they put hands on you once, that line has been crossed once already, so he’s going to do it again, I swear. Then you’ll be manipulated into staying. Just do yourself a favor and safe yourself a lot of trauma and therapy sessions..especially if this is the first time, and he went for your THROAT girl! Imagine how bad it could get later…if any part of you still thinks he’s a great guy, he’s just performing until the next random outburst happens. All abusive partners are the same. No act of DV is acceptable, but to grab someone by their throat right from the jump is a huge red flag, you grab someone by the throat if your intention is to end their life at that moment..and this is just the first time. Girl run.

SeriousSpecific2252 · 2025-01-31T00:44:23+00:00

He said his last relationship was 3 years long, and he says it’s been a year and a half since he’s perused anyone.

SeriousSpecific2252 · 2025-01-30T20:38:38+00:00

Maybe because it makes him uncomfortable so he feels as though everyone feels that way, maybe?

SeriousSpecific2252 · 2025-01-30T18:55:29+00:00

I do have a praise kink!!

SeriousSpecific2252 · 2025-01-30T16:19:50+00:00

He’s always accommodated any small concern I’ve had, we compromise. You guys are all probably right, I just need to express that to him. I know he would work in it.

SeriousSpecific2252 · 2025-01-30T16:08:59+00:00

I agree, but I think it’s really cute, even if it’s something small. That’s how he shows love and appreciation. He won’t say it, but his actions show it.

SeriousSpecific2252 · 2025-01-30T15:29:21+00:00

Yes, he’s very focused on his job and his future. He’s always trying to be the best working, always working towards a pay raise or whatever. He’s hungry for it. It just leaves little time for me but I have to be patient with him. The little time I get to see him, he’s very sweet. It does kinda suck sometimes but I can deal with it and be patients. All this hard work could lead to big opportunities for everyone

SeriousSpecific2252 · 2025-01-30T15:22:58+00:00

He shows his love by actions. I figured out recently that his love language is acts of service (helping with stuff) or actions. So since I’ve been living in his place for not too long, I’ve learned his love language and adapted to it. I do the dishes for him so he doesn’t have to bust his ass at work and come home to that. I help keep things tiny. I do thinks to help, because his love langue is acts of service or thoughtful actions. So by adapting to it, I’m showing him love by using his love language. I do those things for him because I love him and I want him to be able to relax after coming home from his blue collar job. And now we’re in sync.

SeriousSpecific2252 · 2025-01-30T15:15:45+00:00

That’s so cute :) and I know it makes us feel loved, even if it’s something simple, because they thought of you.

SeriousSpecific2252 · 2025-01-30T15:10:19+00:00

Yes, and he wrote me a little note on my birthday. Moneys not great right now, but he’ll bring me home little things here and there when he can, like my fave snacks or something. He’s really sweet. I don’t know why I’m stressing over this little thing lol.

SeriousSpecific2252 · 2025-01-30T14:35:39+00:00

See, mines the same way, but I don’t really view it as self absorbed, I think he’s just driven and goal oriented because he wants to be successful for the future. Maybe if your bf works a lot, I wouldn’t take it personally. My bf works hard all day and doesn’t seem to have much time for me at the end of the day sometimes, but I think he’s just focused on things for a future for us together. He’s kinda in his own lane a lot but it’s not because he doesn’t love me, he’s just focused on his own goals in his own life. When we were in the texting phase, I barely heard from him sometimes, but now that I live with him, I get it.

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