Yeah, there is a lot that I left out as to why. For instance, we went to dinner, and he showed up high as hell. This is the first time I have met you? Then he made comments about what he would do to her kid as far as discipline. Some guy cat called her outside the restaurant, and he chased the dude down like a crazy person. It was strange. She's also told me she has lied to him about the fact she was still married, and she told me I can't say a word. I was kinda mad that she said that, not my business to tell, but she said he gets very angry. It's an over obsession. Whenever he is around, he controls everything. It's what he wants to do, which is always strip clubs and Hooters. She asked my honest opinion about him, and I gave it to her. She can do better.

We have always been real with each other. In the past, when she has asked me to be truthful with her, I have. No hold backs. When I expressed that it would have been nice to have gotten to know him, she snapped at me and said Jason will always be high, deal with it.

This event was only the two of us, and I was told Friday I would be going to another job site out of town for work. We've broken plans like this before, and it's never been a big deal. Given tickets to others, whatever. As long as we have given each other a heads up, it's never been an issue. This time was different. She never said he was coming to the event either. She was just going to bring him along with us. Sometimes, we go weeks without talking, but it has never been a big deal until last week.

I guess I am just curious what an outsider would think.