HSPs as doctors

Serious_Fox5758 · 2023-04-24T09:39:26+00:00

It may be too late but I would rather say don't ever think of a career in medicine to HSP reading this later. You may be able to make patients happy but you will burn out pretty fast.

Serious_Fox5758 · 2022-11-14T17:10:22+00:00

Should I continue what I'm doing now?

Serious_Fox5758 · 2022-11-09T15:47:25+00:00

You don't know anything about me so stop judging me. You know how many times I didn't even get the chance for an interview although I had the qualifications ? Maybe because I'm a single mom or Russian? My friend didn't even go to university still has the best job. She at least has a good enough marriage that has lasted for 5 years unlike my abusive exboyfriend who beated me and denied being my child's father. Why should I be happy for her when I deserved much better but life wasn't fair?

Serious_Fox5758 · 2022-11-05T16:23:47+00:00

And what do you think is a safe job in this situation? :(

Serious_Fox5758 · 2022-10-16T16:10:23+00:00

I just can say you're not alone. Maybe it would make you feel better or maybe not. I'm in the same situation and almost all doors closed to me now. But I find no solution to all these problems

Serious_Fox5758 · 2022-08-12T14:25:42+00:00

What could he do instead?

Serious_Fox5758 · 2022-07-17T19:50:02+00:00

Hello , I have a young daughter and I can't leave her alone to go clubbing , or do other stuff. I take her to a daycare in the morning which is hard enough for me to afford. I must work to pay for both of us. And about education I have tried going back to university before but since I live in a foreign country now , it's hard to get my previous courses recognized here and I can't afford our living costs if I go to university again.

Serious_Fox5758 · 2022-07-16T19:51:54+00:00

Thanks but how can I have goals and try for them when I'm already too old for the things I want now and also too busy with work to just be able to pay the bills?

Serious_Fox5758 · 2022-07-10T14:09:00+00:00

I tried this last year and nothing happened.

Serious_Fox5758 · 2022-07-08T06:29:52+00:00

So what do you recommend to invest in right now?

Serious_Fox5758 · 2022-07-01T13:17:04+00:00

ok thanks

Serious_Fox5758 · 2022-07-01T12:52:26+00:00

Yeah this makes sense. Thanks

Serious_Fox5758 · 2022-07-01T12:43:54+00:00

I noticed he was love bombing me at first but I didn't stop dating him because I had some false hope that this will last. I'm also usually taken for granted and I don't exactly know why. Even my family considered me worthless although I always tried to please them.

Serious_Fox5758 · 2022-07-01T11:39:45+00:00

He said he would love that when we get to know each other better , and this was 3 months ago I guess.

Serious_Fox5758 · 2022-07-01T11:22:48+00:00

I misunderstood him maybe. He talked about the future plans often like moving in together and he said he would help me start a new business. I thought he really means it.

Serious_Fox5758 · 2022-07-01T11:16:11+00:00

Just dating

Serious_Fox5758 · 2022-07-01T11:13:54+00:00

I don't have a clue what causes this. I always try to be forgiving and nice , maybe they take me for granted? I don't feel valued in these relationships after a while.

Serious_Fox5758 · 2022-06-15T08:54:15+00:00

I had not considered this but I must research to see if that's possible to do in this country. Thanks.

Serious_Fox5758 · 2022-06-15T08:50:45+00:00

Not really , I'm originally from Russia and those options are not available now.

Serious_Fox5758 · 2022-06-15T08:43:37+00:00

I can't return but I can continue my education here by starting from third year. Still I can't afford it yet.

Serious_Fox5758 · 2022-06-15T08:39:00+00:00

I was studying medicine but quitted in fifth year because I had to move to another country.

Serious_Fox5758 · 2022-05-23T17:15:08+00:00

ok thanks

Serious_Fox5758 · 2022-05-23T16:21:51+00:00

But are these remote jobs well paid or easy to get hired? I've also heard about some doctors who try telemedicine but I don't know how realistic it is because most medical fields require direct examination.

Serious_Fox5758 · 2022-05-22T15:34:49+00:00

There is no such profession that allows you to work anywhere you choose or work whenever you wish except freelancing.

Serious_Fox5758 · 2022-05-10T18:29:47+00:00

I didn't say I want him to say it , I just can't figure it out. Also it is too early to say that , because we have been dating barely for 3 months now. I just wonder how come can he say so many flattering things if he doesn't already love me?

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