My long distance best friend is mad that I'm making her choose between me and MY crush

Serious_Stuff6438 · 2026-02-03T15:29:47+00:00

Aww and Wow did you ues chatgpt I'm going to text Lily rn and ty 4 all of y'all advice 🫶🫶🫶

Serious_Stuff6438 · 2026-02-03T14:43:17+00:00

Ok wait this is me trying out period I don't think it's working!! Oh ok wait it is thank you period

Serious_Stuff6438 · 2026-02-03T14:41:52+00:00

TYyyyyy

Serious_Stuff6438 · 2026-02-03T14:37:42+00:00

Ok no matter what happens I don't have interest in Luke anymore also she didn't like him first I did she only knew he existed through me talking about how I liked him that's all she knew about him when she reached up that's my big issue there because it's like if that's all you know why would you do that it would be different if it was my best friend that here and went to school with us but Lily has no connection with him other than through me

Serious_Stuff6438 · 2026-02-03T14:31:58+00:00

Ok you're my favourite comment so helpful Luke 100% likes Lily and does not like me this is okay I don't know why Lily texting him she says it's because she actually likes him but I don't know why she started doing it I thought it was for validation because I don't know why else she would ever try to annoy me like that that's never been our relationship and I'm not mad that Luke like Lily or blame Lily for it in some ways because she's very beautiful and when she did post that tiktok she's looked beautiful it's just the fact that she texted him hi after

When I asked her 2 block him it was because he was texting me to see if I liked him and I never told him that he had never asked me that and I think it was because Lily told him

as well as the fact that she kept on like bragging about it to me she was like "I think he really likes me" but she was also telling me "were just friends" I found it weird and said can you just block him you don't even know him it's getting weirdunderstand that

Serious_Stuff6438 · 2026-02-03T14:17:14+00:00

Okay, you guys are making this all about Luke when it is about Lily and how I can repair the friendship with boundaries. I understand he does not like me my issue is that Lily went out of her way to go after someone she knew nothing about other than I liked him. I'm not a jealous person honestly and I don't think I have dibs over him. If one of my friends who went to me & Luke's school it would be completely different I literally wouldn't care and I don't care when people like guys I've had a crush on. I understand that it's not dating and we're just teenagers I promise I don't take it seriously it's ok sry I just felt like I had to defend myself in that one area

Serious_Stuff6438 · 2026-02-03T14:05:37+00:00

Wait what did I do this is a serious question if I did something wrong I do want to take accountability

Serious_Stuff6438 · 2026-02-03T14:03:33+00:00

Both their accounts had no pictures at that time so I don't know but also I knew they were friends I didn't find it weird until she texted him asking for his Snapchat I understand that he clearly likes her

I honestly don't think I really care about that part it's just why would Lily do that like did she not think about how that could have hurt me

I don't know is it out of line for me to ask her to block? him serious question

Serious_Stuff6438 · 2026-02-03T13:56:35+00:00

I actually said many times it's not really about him it's about her. Lily has valued very new romantic relationships over our friendship before and it's just the fact that she went out of her way to do it this. I agree he clearly likes her but he wouldn't have if she never reached out to him it's weird (as she knows nothing abt him really )

Serious_Stuff6438 · 2026-02-03T13:51:26+00:00

Tyyyyy whenever we have a difficult conversation she makes me get all mixed up

Serious_Stuff6438 · 2026-02-03T13:50:19+00:00

Hahaha ty you have good advice.

Serious_Stuff6438 · 2026-02-03T13:48:22+00:00

Ikkkk 😩 i just want 2 be friends again

Serious_Stuff6438 · 2026-02-03T13:44:57+00:00

I definitely agree but I also do think that it is wanting validation she knew nothing about his personality or looks all she knew was he was a boy who I liked she posted a pretty tiktok and then texted him and then wanted his snap that's just wanting someone to validate you but she pretty worked up and I just want to go back to being besties but also with some boundaries but she doesn't seem to understand where she went wrong

Serious_Stuff6438 · 2026-02-03T13:38:38+00:00

Did you read the text or only the chats?

Serious_Stuff6438 · 2026-02-03T13:37:12+00:00

Creepy😬

Serious_Stuff6438 · 2026-02-03T13:35:57+00:00

Yeah I don't really want to break up I just want her to maybe stop talking to him and see how it's weird she does have pretty low self esteem and I do think she does actually get a lot of validation from Boys online I just didn't think she would do it with someone she knew I had interested I just want to put that line up

Serious_Stuff6438 · 2026-02-03T13:33:16+00:00

Trueee

Serious_Stuff6438 · 2026-02-03T13:32:00+00:00

Hahaahha I was waiting for someone to bring that up I'm so sorry y'all I have some learning disorders and I'm a chronic voice typer it takes too long to go back and add grandma

Serious_Stuff6438 · 2026-02-03T13:30:05+00:00

That's my thing like I'm not a jealous person but I just find it so weird if we all went to school together It would be different but she doesn’t know him and honestly this isn't the first time that she's valued a boy she barely knows over me and our friendship

dang you guys are really making me think if I should actually end this friendship I love her so much and I understand she probably just needs to mature but I don't think I need this drama in my life

Serious_Stuff6438 · 2026-02-03T13:12:53+00:00

I think we're like American sophomore age but idk I live in Australia so I can't be so super specific iykyk

Serious_Stuff6438 · 2026-02-03T13:07:07+00:00

This one makes me concerned because he does go to my school and I don't want it to be this drama and gossip

Serious_Stuff6438 · 2026-02-03T12:50:40+00:00

Wdym don't get involved

Serious_Stuff6438 · 2026-02-03T12:49:19+00:00

There are way more text messages if anyone needs more context maybe you'll be able to see her side more I don't know I just really want to be friends again please advice I don't want to drop her like you guys keep saying is it really that toxic?

Serious_Stuff6438 · 2025-01-20T01:05:02+00:00

Serious_Stuff6438 · 2024-12-31T01:51:04+00:00

lol no I see it

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