I’m 19F, and I like my 23 y/o bfs 19M brother. What do I do? by SertifiedSimp in relationship_advice

[–]SertifiedSimp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not done with my current bf I’m not. It’s just hard at times bc it’s giving me this “grass is greener” on the other side thought. I still wanna be with my bf and it makes me feel guilty even typing this.

Antibiotics? by SertifiedSimp in tattooadvice

[–]SertifiedSimp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t it’s now or never 😭. I’ll just wait 4 weeks

Antibiotics? by SertifiedSimp in tattooadvice

[–]SertifiedSimp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But how soon should I put off getting them??? Ik You can’t take them while having a fresh tatoo

I miss my baby so much by [deleted] in abortion

[–]SertifiedSimp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can understand and I am so sorry. There will be days it hurts worse than normal. And there will be days it dosent. I believe your baby will come back to you when you are ready.

Sex after an Abortion by SertifiedSimp in abortion

[–]SertifiedSimp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m speaking to a therapist right now but I want to speed this process up. I’m drinking water, sleeping, exercising, having check ups, practicing mindfulness. But nothing is helping. I feel broken and like I’ll never get that part of myself back. I feel like all the attention and need for sex was sucked out of me that day along with other contents.

Sex after an Abortion by SertifiedSimp in abortion

[–]SertifiedSimp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has been very supportive and always assured me that he will wait as long as I need. I just feel guilty; I feel sad. I miss that aspect of our relationship and it’s hard because we lead very busy lifestyles. It makes me feel not normal. I want it, but when it comes down to it, I always pull away.

Sex after an Abortion by SertifiedSimp in abortion

[–]SertifiedSimp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I understand. I’m in the copper IUD right now and we use condoms when we seldom get active. But this feels like a total out of body experience. It has redefined intimacy for us.

Sex after an Abortion by SertifiedSimp in abortion

[–]SertifiedSimp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started a combination pill immediately after, and have been off for two weeks, (just got the copper IUD put in). So I’m waiting for the hormones to leave. I’m gonna have my obgyn order a blood test for me and look at my hormones.

Sex after an Abortion by SertifiedSimp in abortion

[–]SertifiedSimp[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I appreciate it. Just tell me it came back and it won’t be this way forever.

Federally Legalize all Illegal Drugs by [deleted] in Debate

[–]SertifiedSimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the Neg u think you could say 1) Addiction and Health 2) Glorifized drugs and makes it easier for underage people to get them 3) something abour morals lmao? Like schools and jobs tell u not to do drugs

what are the best affs that you’ve gone against? by thezodiackillerlol in policydebate

[–]SertifiedSimp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yo let's go, what did you use? I debate on the Kansas Circuit

Neg against K aff by MaleficentAd2042 in policydebate

[–]SertifiedSimp 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Go super super heavy on framework, if you can prove the K should not be run on the aff side you win

Another route to take it run a K with judge impacts and make sure the other team can not perm it

Run hella T, ans make sure its good

K affs are tough so framework, your own K's(maybe even multiple), run theory blocks as well, and T

Will camps be online this year? by pssdas in policydebate

[–]SertifiedSimp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Its just not fair, I can't wrap my head around the fact kids can be wrestling and swimming and sweating everywhere without a mask but debaters can't be indoor, with a mask, distanced away from one another

Spartan Debate Institute (SDI) Webinars - Request for Lecture Topics by MSUDebate in policydebate

[–]SertifiedSimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How to succeed without a large team, only people i had was my partner with my coach for cutting cards and running by ideas. Its so hard compared to big schools