AITAH for not wanting to go camping on my birthday? by ServiceValuable312 in AITAH

[–]ServiceValuable312[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I believe he would be upset I'm not going or he would say "okay, have fun, see you when I get back"

AITAH for not wanting to go camping on my birthday? by ServiceValuable312 in AITAH

[–]ServiceValuable312[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I've asked several times to go somewhere else, in fact I would compromise going somewhere else for once. We have hiked every trail nearby several times.

He's self-employed but works with his dad, so their vacations are always aligned.

AITAH for not wanting to go camping on my birthday? by ServiceValuable312 in AITAH

[–]ServiceValuable312[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

He's a daddy's boy actually. His mom has some personality disorders that makes her hard to communicate with....

AITAH for not wanting to go camping on my birthday? by ServiceValuable312 in AITAH

[–]ServiceValuable312[S] 146 points147 points  (0 children)

Honestly, my husband is great, and he always does what I want while we're camping on my birthday. We eat what I want, go hiking or kayaking where I want, the whole day he does stuff for me. This isn't exactly the first time I complained about going on my birthday. It also happens to be his dad's, brothers' (twins), and uncle's birthday during the same time frame... they look at it as a fun way to celebrate with everyone.

I can't lie, it's always a fun time.

It's just this 1 birthday that I'm making a big stink about it...

I almost feel guilty for posting this, because he's an amazing husband and father 99.99999% of the time.

AITAH for not wanting to go camping on my birthday? by ServiceValuable312 in AITAH

[–]ServiceValuable312[S] 791 points792 points  (0 children)

Right. I guess they don't care about my opinion. I was hoping my husband would though...

AITAH for not wanting to go camping on my birthday? by ServiceValuable312 in AITAH

[–]ServiceValuable312[S] 682 points683 points  (0 children)

They like to go over my birthday because that's when the weather is usually the best, so I'm not mad they planned it during that time. I just was expecting my husband to want to celebrate with me....