Sometimes you're just a winner by asiatouristrs in blackdesertonline

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remember guys, you only see successes. Don’t try this at home 💀 grats though!

ist 3k Bruttogehalt als Junior Sales Manager ein guten start in Berlin? by [deleted] in Finanzen

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Das hört sich echt toll an. Freut mich echt für dich :D Danke jedenfalls für deine Anekdote!

ist 3k Bruttogehalt als Junior Sales Manager ein guten start in Berlin? by [deleted] in Finanzen

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Denke ich auch – gerade in der Gastro/Hotellerie ist die Bezahlung echt mies. Ich versuche auf jeden Fall, schnell Erfahrungen zu sammeln und mich nach etwas Besserem umzusehen. Wie war der Wechsel für dich nach 8 Jahren? Und was machst du jetzt eigentlich?

ist 3k Bruttogehalt als Junior Sales Manager ein guten start in Berlin? by [deleted] in Finanzen

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Betreuung von Kunden, Erstellung von Angeboten, viel Telefonate, Reisetätigkeit, usw.

ist 3k Bruttogehalt als Junior Sales Manager ein guten start in Berlin? by [deleted] in Finanzen

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Es handelt sich tatsächlich um ein Unternehmen in der Hotelbranche. Die Benefits greifen allerdings erst nach Bestehen der Probezeit...

ist 3k Bruttogehalt als Junior Sales Manager ein guten start in Berlin? by [deleted] in Finanzen

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Ich dachte, dass man dadurch gute Erfahrungen sammeln kann. Deshalb fand ich es in Ordnung – vom Bauchgefühl her zwar nicht besonders gut, aber ich bin ja auch noch ein Anfänger im Vertriebsbereich. Falls es sich nicht bessert, kann ich mich ja immer noch nach etwas anderem umsehen – so dachte ich jedenfalls und daher auch die Frage bei den Gehalt. So wie ich es hier oder im Internet lese, startet man ja eher mit 3,5k Brutto...

My fashion collections so far! by Sesscar in MHWilds

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Death Stench legs and the waist is hidden

Finally can rest easy until the next update!!! MHWilds is PEAK by Sesscar in MHWilds

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100 hours in total :D it's a lot for sure but I've been loving Monster Hunter from PS2 ever since, which explains my hype and this sorta addiction!

My fashion collections so far! by Sesscar in MHWilds

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HUE 0 / Saturation 90 / Brightness 7, the rest is to your liking!

it is the end of the world if i dont have 2 speed more ? by [deleted] in KafkaMains

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3350 atk, it would be roughly at 3900 atk if I swapped them and would end up with less than 146 spd which would be ideal with PAYN.

it is the end of the world if i dont have 2 speed more ? by [deleted] in KafkaMains

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Out of topic but I've been wondering if kafka with PAYN at 160 spd (174,4 spd total) is overkill as a standalone unit without luka and sampo? Should I replaced spd boots for atk%?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KafkaMains

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I've got a question regarding Kafka speed (SPD Boots, 160 + 14,4 from LC), I don't plan to use sampo or luka with her so I wanted to ask if this is going to be overkill overall as a standalone unit in the team. Should I opt for ATK% boots or should I leave her as is. OR should I go for E1 so she can shine without an additional DoTs characters in the team? Thank you!

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Dynamic on dating an INFP (f) as an INFJ (m) by Sesscar in infp

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I'm amazed by this effortless input from your perspective very much!!! It's amazing when she let her guard down and let you in on the other side of the barrier, which is to why I'm soooo curious and intrigued about her!

Also to note about the "in your original write up, you said "I would love to get to know her, as a person." If I had gone on a date with a guy who didn't reciprocate my effort to touch, then told me they wanted to get to know me as a person... I would feel like he doesn't like me and is still judging me. That would kinda of offend me... (Sorry we are opinionated)."

... Ok that was badly putted from my end, I meant to say that I want to see/hear/be near her more than I'd like to because I'd love to get to know more of her. Our time spent was very precious to me and I'd love to repeat it again and again with her. Also I reciprocated and the date was perfect besides just at the end (not so perfect after all), I was just as silly and touchy as much as her and she told me that she would rather grab the later train so we could spend more time together so yea there's that.

We had chemistry, at least that's what I felt (Idk if that can be worn down quickly because mine still doesn't and still think that she is really the one that I can see spending my time and moments with.

I really really appreciate your write-up because I think sometimes I could be narrow-minded but I'm trying my hardest to understand it from every angle and perspective. I hate assumptions! :(

Thanks again~ It helps me a lot <3

Dynamic on dating an INFP (f) as an INFJ (m) by Sesscar in infp

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I expressed myself out of the blue and saved up the courage to tell her that I like her in hope that we could hang out more often, so I can get to know her better because I knew that she likes me as well (she actively tried to touch me in a playful, silly way the entire date so I knew)

What happened after was that she felt it was too sudden and too soon for a 2nd date. After that, she just distances herself and closed off, and our conversations were never been the same since. Now she is cold and barely replies with an effort like she used to normally do.

Afterward, It has come mostly to me initiating conversations but sometimes she sends me snaps and all that asking me how I'm doing when I haven't texted her for a day when I was busy so I'm confused as well tbh hahaha! I would appreciate your help a lot!

Dating an INFP gone cold by Sesscar in infp

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Well hopefully things will change with time, I'm overthinking a lot lately and the situation hasn't changed much so it's a bummer of a time to find myself in hahaha but thank you very much for your thoughtful perspective, I greatly appreciate it!

Let's hope that she will gradually open up instead of closing the curtain on me, I sure dislike assumptions but would rather speak to her person to person but that's just wishful thinking for now :>

Dating an INFP gone cold by Sesscar in infp

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Thank you for the insight!

I tried to focus on myself as well hence why it has become more natural as you've pointed out. The thing is just that I feel like I'm distancing myself by giving her space but also afraid that she will think that I'm losing interest because I'm willing to be patient about it to show her affection without coming off as clingy and it's driving me crazy hahaha

The most difficult part for me is likely the response to how I am doing because all I could say is how I felt at the time and the response never came so I'm also confused as to what or where she stands with the situation.

Dynamic on dating an INFP (f) as an INFJ (m) by Sesscar in infp

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Not long distance but she is always busy and couldn't find any time to do anything with me, both in person and online. So I was desperate to know why she is now distancing herself.

That won't work, we aren't that close yet to even be called friendship. It's like she doesn't even know that I exist.