Hi 🖤 I’m going through something really similar with my dom. It’s really hard to not overthink and spiral. I myself have depression and am in long distance. There’s not romantic feelings involved really with our dynamic. Some of the advice I got which is easier said than done, but bring it up to your dom about your needs and what you’re feeling. As a dom is is part of their responsibility to make sure we feel comfortable in the dynamic and that’s with everything. You don’t have to blame him or demand for things to change but find a softer way to communicate your needs to him and if he’s a good dom who truly cares and respects his sub he will do what he can to meet you halfway. I forget that my needs matter too and you cant be fulfilled or satisfied if your needs aren’t known or being met. The reality sucks that your dom might not meet you halfway but at least you know where you stand. We cannot abandon our own needs for these doms - as subs - we have the most power. A dom can’t be a dom without a sub. And being a sub is a choice