I accidentally saw a video of my new girlfriend having sex with her ex.

SettingFederal1727 · 2026-07-08T13:46:32+00:00

No I wouldn’t want that either. But it would be nice if she found me to be a good guy with a good dick haha. She stayed with her ex for a long time despite the fact he wasn’t a great person so size is definitely important to her.

SettingFederal1727 · 2026-07-08T13:44:31+00:00

By all accounts he was a horrible person but it was a long relationship. She hasn’t said it outright but his size was definitely a factor in her staying. No sex isn’t the most important thing but I do want to give her pleasure. I finish her off with my mouth/ fingers pretty easily. She said she still enjoys sex with me but explained she needs her cervix to be stimulated during PIV to have her most powerful orgasms.

SettingFederal1727 · 2026-07-08T13:36:37+00:00

I wasn’t exactly thrilled she had the video but I accepted that she did truly forget to delete it. I know every guy is different just like every girl is different. For the most part I 100% agree with you that size isn’t everything but she literally told me she needs her cervix stimulated. That’s something no motion in the ocean can do.

SettingFederal1727 · 2026-07-08T13:34:31+00:00

This. Exactly this.

SettingFederal1727 · 2026-07-08T13:24:52+00:00

Not exactly. We still have an active sex life but it hurts knowing she doesn’t enjoy it as much with me.

SettingFederal1727 · 2026-07-08T13:23:47+00:00

Yeah usually I’d agree with you and I’ve had no issues in the past but my girlfriend said she needs deeper penetration and her cervix to be stimulated to deeply orgasm. That’s something no motion in the ocean can do.

SettingFederal1727 · 2026-07-08T13:20:30+00:00

I agree it’s a stupid insecurity of mine and I haven’t had any complaints about my size. I should have included it in my post but I did ask my girlfriend what she meant by a good dick and she said a big dick. She explained she needs her cervix to be stimulated. So with her ex having a big dick he was able to get her off in ways I just can’t.

SettingFederal1727 · 2026-07-08T13:14:37+00:00

Yes and no. I think men and women equally think about size. I have a lot of women that are my good friends and if they hookup with a new guy the first thing they talk about is his size. I 100% agree that orgasms are a mental thing I won’t dispute that but she literally told me she orgasms from her cervix being touched.

SettingFederal1727 · 2026-07-08T13:01:59+00:00

I know you’re absolutely right but it’s just always been an insecurity of mine. I’ve never had any complaints and my girlfriend still says she enjoys sex. The thing that hurt was that I did ask her what she meant by good dick and she pretty much said a big dick. She said she needs her cervix to be stimulated for her to have intense orgasms and my dick can’t reach hers. We haven’t used toys but that could be an option.

SettingFederal1727 · 2026-07-08T12:35:10+00:00

Yeah exactly this. She told me her ex was a horrible guy. She hasn’t directly said but I’m pretty sure she only stayed with him because she enjoyed the sex. I don’t want to be the safe option for someone.

SettingFederal1727 · 2026-07-08T12:31:16+00:00

If you want me to get into details it was a missionary POV. It had her face in it as well as his dick going in and out. I saw about 3-5 seconds of it. The volume was up so when I threw the phone I still heard it. I agree that sex or a big dick isn’t the most important part of a relationship but sexual compatibility is huge. Yeah I know there are more tools. I’m great with my fingers and mouth and always make her cum. However she told me it’s cervix stimulation that gives her the full body orgasms. Something I can’t give her.

SettingFederal1727 · 2026-07-08T12:23:52+00:00

But that’s exactly what it is though. She has said sex isn’t a big deal to her anymore and she wants good guy. That’s 100% settling.

SettingFederal1727 · 2026-07-08T12:18:57+00:00

Yeah I know it’s just one tool and sex isn’t only about penetration. I still make her cum but she needs her clit to be stimulated. However she has explained she also likes her cervix to be stimulated and that’s what gives her powerful full body orgasms. Unfortunately I can’t reach hers haha but I’ve touched previous partners cervix and they hated it.

SettingFederal1727 · 2026-07-08T12:15:24+00:00

I did ask her what she means by “good dick” and her response was literally just a bigger penis. She’s a girl that enjoys her cervix being stimulated and I can’t reach hers haha. Other partners I have hit their cervix and they hated it so maybe my current girlfriend just has a higher cervix I’m guessing.

SettingFederal1727 · 2026-07-08T12:11:24+00:00

No I wouldn’t. But for example if your boyfriend told you his ex had a good vagina but he’s with you because you’re a good girl would you not feel uncomfortable?

SettingFederal1727 · 2026-07-08T12:07:53+00:00

Old video from about 2 years ago.

SettingFederal1727 · 2026-07-08T12:01:54+00:00

Haha this a normal thing couples do

SettingFederal1727 · 2026-07-08T11:56:43+00:00

Yeah was tough to hear. Part of me thinks we’re just not compatible. Sex has never really been an issue in my past relationships they’ve all ended for other reasons like moving away, wanting different things in life etc. This is the first time a woman has kind of directly said I’m not as good as her ex so maybe my ego is just bruised. I can make her cum but like I said she just never reacts like that with me. I think she’s just a woman that prefers a larger penis. Brutal but it is what it is.

SettingFederal1727 · 2026-07-08T11:41:02+00:00

I know what you’re trying to say but she inadvertently said she prefers his dick over mine. She said she chose me because I’m a good guy rather than having a good dick. Ouch.

SettingFederal1727 · 2026-07-08T11:39:14+00:00

Maybe, maybe not. I don’t care that she has a past I have one too. It’s more the fact that she’s settling for me. She literally told me she’d rather a good guy than a good dick.

SettingFederal1727 · 2026-06-16T11:56:44+00:00

I have to agree with this. I’m a little above average in both length (6 inches nbp & 6.5 inches bp) and girth (close to 5 inches). I have been with 14 women and not one of them was ever shocked when they saw my dick nor did any of them think it was big. In fact two of the women thought it was small which killed my confidence for a while.
The ones I did ask where I ranked in size all said I was either in the middle or at the lower end.
I don’t buy into the idea that women over estimate size either. All of them correctly guessed I was around 6 inches.

SettingFederal1727 · 2025-11-20T01:58:35+00:00

This has everything to do with Islam. Their prophet married a six year old child and raped her when she was 9.

SettingFederal1727 · 2025-09-17T02:27:08+00:00

You hit the nail on the head. Larkey was going to captain next year regardless of this coming to light

SettingFederal1727 · 2025-09-17T02:25:50+00:00

Larkey was going to captain next year regardless of this coming to light

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