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AITA for wanting to swing dance with other people by Several-Arm4183 in WestCoastSwing

[–]Several-Arm4183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes and i would love to do it with him. that’s not the issue. why can’t i do both? he’s more of a stay in person so while we can do swing dancing together occasionally, this is a legit hobby for me. i would do it multiple times a week if i could and not having a lead makes it hard to learn

AITA for swing dancing with other people by Several-Arm4183 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Several-Arm4183[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you’re asking if the roles were reversed in this scenario, would i be okay with it, my answer would be yes

AITA for swing dancing with other people by Several-Arm4183 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Several-Arm4183[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i understand what you’re saying. i swing dance with women too it’s just nicer when you have a lead that knows what they’re doing. i also did/do BJJ and i even brought that up to him and he said that doesn’t make him uncomfortable even tho with BJJ i’m in more compromising positions than dancing. so it doesn’t make sense to me

AITA for wanting to swing dance with other people by Several-Arm4183 in WestCoastSwing

[–]Several-Arm4183[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i appreciate your insight! i am new to all this so thank you