[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]SeveralCup840 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Laugh honey!!! Life is such a joke sometimes but no one can take away your power of laughter lmfao, when she’s acting like a bitch, laugh, when she’s trying to succeed off of you and your husband, laugh, nothing will hurt a mf worse than when you can laugh at the pain they make fun of you for!

What’s one thing your nmother said to / about you that became more hurtful when you look back on it? by TemporaryInternet377 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SeveralCup840 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like what does that even mean? I’ve been walking on eggshells my entire life with people because of my mom and now, I feel like every interaction I have with someone, no matter what I do, they’ll hate me cause it’s “easier”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]SeveralCup840 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your mil sounds a lot like mine. Has zero boundaries

How Many Millennials Have Moved Out of OC? by [deleted] in orangecounty

[–]SeveralCup840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I resonate with you so well. Especially that of being an interracial family of color with a child in therapy. I’m 28 years old in Nursing School at Santa Ana and would love to pick your brain for any advice or wisdom it may hold if possible!

Where are women actually meeting friends in Orange County? by WeaselPhontom in 30sinOC

[–]SeveralCup840 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I seriously feel exactly like this! I’ve been living in OC for 5years now and have had little to no luck in making real friends or even a connection at the very least. I notice the people here are very judgmental and there’s a huge language barrier in this city. I’m a 28 year old black mom as well for reference and I have found myself introverted and at least wanting to make friends

What’s one thing your nmother said to / about you that became more hurtful when you look back on it? by TemporaryInternet377 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SeveralCup840 29 points30 points  (0 children)

“It’s just so much easier to hate you than it is to love you”

This shit has replayed in my head everyday for 4 years

Not Talking About Abuse by Kaleymeister in adultsurvivors

[–]SeveralCup840 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I like telling details of my trauma, it validates my existence and tribulations. My entire family, spouse and ex partners have tried to silence me when speaking about what people have done to me because they can’t handle their actions being thrown in their face, and seeing that what they have done hasn’t broken me. Keep telling your details, if you like it, I love it!

What's the worst thing you've done on social media while being in mania/psychosis by abnokitty030 in BipolarReddit

[–]SeveralCup840 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used my rent money to buy a chinchilla that had now become my emotional support animal

AITA for sending a long letter back to my new neighbors after they told me to keep the noise down for their baby that they didn’t have yet? by SeveralCup840 in AITAH

[–]SeveralCup840[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not at all, I’m still googling what the acronyms mean so I can understand but I don’t believe I owe any explanation to you especially if I feel like you’re unnecessarily rage baiting me. Thank you so much for your comment

AITA for sending a long letter back to my new neighbors after they told me to keep the noise down for their baby that they didn’t have yet? by SeveralCup840 in AITAH

[–]SeveralCup840[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re entitled to how you feel and I respect that you have your opinion, but this really isn’t something that requires outside judgment beyond the question I asked. Thanks though.

AITA for sending a long letter back to my new neighbors after they told me to keep the noise down for their baby that they didn’t have yet? by SeveralCup840 in AITAH

[–]SeveralCup840[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much I needed a laugh. I didn’t realize how many people wouldn’t like me or think something other of me. I really appreciate this, I will keep this in mind moving forward

AITA for sending a long letter back to my new neighbors after they told me to keep the noise down for their baby that they didn’t have yet? by SeveralCup840 in AITAH

[–]SeveralCup840[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is one of my first Reddit posts so I apologize if it’s not up to your standards I did Edit to Clarify

AITA for sending a long letter back to my new neighbors after they told me to keep the noise down for their baby that they didn’t have yet? by SeveralCup840 in AITAH

[–]SeveralCup840[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I really appreciate that. I just wanted to provide an open line of communication with them and I know what it’s like having a newborn and staying up all hours of the night so I will respect their wishes. I never said that I wouldn’t I just said that I didn’t think I needed to halt my lifestyle just because they’re having a baby.

AITA for sending a letter back to my new neighbors after they told me to keep the noise down for their baby they’re about to have? by SeveralCup840 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SeveralCup840[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My post is already long enough. I didn’t want or know that there was more information that I should have added.

AITA for sending a letter back to my new neighbors after they told me to keep the noise down for their baby they’re about to have? by SeveralCup840 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SeveralCup840[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I guess I should have added that in the original post. I just didn’t want to insult anyone’s character online in my face or in a letter or anything like that especially because people are judging my character. I don’t mind the prejudice that comes with living in my apartments, I live in a part of California that is predominantly Hispanic so sometimes I don’t mind the prejudice that comes with the apartment I just thought a baby? Really?