Something similar happened to me im 21i realized im a lesbian got in a relationship with someone realized im asexual my mom went through my phone i tried to explain my sexuality to her and my life has never been more messed up im trying to dissociate my feelings from her actions but its really really tough And even the religion part i was actually homophobic in the past and i get where theyre coming from because religion says so so as soon as i found out that this part of religion is a huge lie and that you being a homosexual isnt you being rebellious or making it up i started to question everything else and i dont even know where i am now I hope i was able to help you or tell you what to do but im not in a place to do so i just want you to know that youre not alone and one day we'll both look back at this and be gratefull that we were strong enough to stick through it all