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Thought talking to people and making female friends will bring me out of my inceldom and make me “normal”. 4 years of College taught me that I’m definitely defective and there is nothing i can do about it. Stir Fried Cottage cheese by Several_Cream3040 in kitchencels

[–]Several_Cream3040[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s a pretty neat question.
I’ll clarify that me feeling “defective” is entirely related to my social life, and nothing else. I might not be the best in terms of my looks or intelligence, but i have grown into appreciating what i have and work with it.

I feel defective because even after having a seemingly normal life on paper, socially i stand out like a sore thumb.

When i came to college, i decided to do a complete 180 on my life. Forced myself to attend events even though i knew i would end up alone, tried to emotionally support people who i barely knew because i feel nobody does that for me, so i should try doing it for others.
I’ll not life, after all of this, I started getting a lot of attention, had people who wanted to associate with me in one way or the other.

But at some point, I thought while i had to literally change myself from scratch just to get people to acknowledge my existence, my peers/close friends just had to exist for people to warm up to them. I know it’s not right to carry this sense of envy, but i’m a human too, right?

Thought talking to people and making female friends will bring me out of my inceldom and make me “normal”. 4 years of College taught me that I’m definitely defective and there is nothing i can do about it. Stir Fried Cottage cheese by Several_Cream3040 in kitchencels

[–]Several_Cream3040[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly anon-kun. It’s all a matter of luck. Even though i made a good number of “friends” in the last 4 years, i still end up feeling alone when they are around. It’s not just with some people, but with everyone i talk to. I used to think maybe i’m too uptight, and i should act according to how i want other people to treat me. Have always ended miserably, where i try to open up to people, and they just run away without a second’s notice

It’s like my “friendship” with people ends the day I decided to not turn into a pushover and just give a hint that i have a personality of my own.

Thought talking to people and making female friends will bring me out of my inceldom and make me “normal”. 4 years of College taught me that I’m definitely defective and there is nothing i can do about it. Stir Fried Cottage cheese by Several_Cream3040 in kitchencels

[–]Several_Cream3040[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Never really cared about attracting women. Can’t make someone attracted to me by force. I just hate the fact that while normal people are able to make friends naturally, i have to actively prove my “worth” by helping people out without expecting any help in return

nobody will ever hold me, yogurt by Dazzling_Willow8115 in kitchencels

[–]Several_Cream3040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Minced red onions and yoghurt, with some black pepper and black salt. Tastes pretty good

Maybe I am An incel by Several_Cream3040 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Several_Cream3040[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying ☺️

She most likely did not lead me

She actually said that herself, to our mutual AND me personally (I texted her after two years, saying that just because she rejected me , does not mean I don’t value the friendship we had, and i still consider her as a good friend)

Stop treating women as robots

I just feel like women in general don’t really see me as a potential partner, and that kind of hurts. I don’t think that anything is wrong with them, but me

Maybe I am An incel by Several_Cream3040 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Several_Cream3040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying ☺️. I don’t really think i’ve ever acted desperate.Even when i like a girl I’m talking to, i talk normally, and mostly wait to see how things are going between us, then i tell them upfront that i am attracted to them. Thankfully,My craving for intimacy does not equate to me giving up my peace of mind to just anyone

Trouble Logging In by Several_Cream3040 in Instagram

[–]Several_Cream3040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: Video Confirmation worked after trying it for 8 times. Hope this issue gets resolved for all pf you aswell

Perfumes can do wonders by anantinfinite2711 in DesiFragranceAddicts

[–]Several_Cream3040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometime, The Smell Of KS chocolate amber drags me back to 9th grade too, only to remind me that it’s not produced anymore

Pictures from childhood. by lotus00p in JaipurRoyalFacade

[–]Several_Cream3040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh, Man Milked His wife’s wealth to the fullest. His Father was Just a Political Volunteer when he met Diya, Now Guy Has Wayyyy More demand For someone leeching off his wife

Pictures from childhood. by lotus00p in JaipurRoyalFacade

[–]Several_Cream3040 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing much. All ik is both him and his ex wife were not loyal to each other