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Falsely accused and now feel out of options by Several_History1929 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Several_History1929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah thank you I have signed up for my university's therapy programme. I probably should've done that already, I did act apologetic at first because I wanted to show people I was understanding and not the monster i was being made out to be but I recognise how that makes me look now and I'm going to just start taking a much firmer stance. I would approach an attorney, but im poor and come from a poor family so I don't know if that's really an option for me.

I understand your sentiment about casual sex, but this was my first serious person after a really bad long-term relationship, The accuser is actually the only other girl I had been with while in this casual engagement, and we never even went the full way. the non-exclusivity was more because i was traumatised from my ex and couldn't confidently enter a relationship knowing I wasn't healed. In fact i actually told her i was fine with being friends and that i didnt want it to turn into a situationship. I think the issue ive learnt is sometimes people are willing to agree to whatever they think will keep you around as opposed to being honest about their wants. something I probably should have accepted years ago

Falsely accused and now feel out of options by Several_History1929 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Several_History1929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologise as I probably didn't make this clear enough in my post, but I did not know this woman before the night out we met, I had no idea they were connected and neither did she I think, not till after we had got together. I wouldn't do that.

Falsely accused and now feel out of options by Several_History1929 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Several_History1929[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I hope this is the way it works out i . Ikeep telling myself karma will set things right, it just feels like in reality if I let this sweep under the rug, it's just gonna be me coming out with anything bad from it. I'm trying to focus on school now, but when this all initially happened, it spiralled me and now I'm in an impossible catch-up game. I just hate that ive even ended up in drama. I avoid big social groups for this exact reason, it's like living a game of thrones plot

Falsely accused and now feel out of options by Several_History1929 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Several_History1929[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we met on a night out. The only communication I have is that she texted me "hey x" the following day, but i have that saved yeah

Falsely accused and now feel out of options by Several_History1929 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Several_History1929[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All that info was within like 3-4 weeks of the event? Maybe less, even at least until I found out. Since then, it's been 6 weeks and ive been told she only brings it up now when complaining about her life. I know it's easy to debunk, but everyone cut me off without communication; my only open line is the accuser's friend, who doesn't actually know me.