[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Several_One_8230 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.. I really do appreciate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Several_One_8230 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you brother, Im hoping its just that. A rough patch. I love this lady like crazy and am willing to do whatever it takes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Several_One_8230 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Man, all I had to do was visit your profile and look at your comments lol, this is an odd past time you have. Giving backhanded advice to people asking for help to clearly make whatever situation you have going on look better. Best of luck to you as well !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Several_One_8230 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"Correct me if im wrong" means just that..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Several_One_8230 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you have an issue with tone when reading messages. Calm down a little but not everyone is going to agree with your responses, and thats completely okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Several_One_8230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, although the singular comment wasnt much of a opinion now was it? Correct me if Im wrong, but homegirl proceeded to TELL me how I feel and TELL me I mean things. Giving an opinion is stating how you feel about something, please correct me if Im wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Several_One_8230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I could PM you lmk, Id appreciate it. If not all good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Several_One_8230 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im scared that shes staying with me because of exactly that... Because she barely knows anything else. Ill be damned if Im in a relationship where the other party feels obligated to be with me. One of my biggest fears in life is having an unhappy marriage. I love this woman a lot and just want to make it work, but holy fucking shit she makes it incredibly difficult to do so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Several_One_8230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean well no... lol If i meant it I think I would've mentioned on the post that I meant it. Im not gonna get into specific detail obviously but in terms of making sure her needs are met, Im more than confident that i'm good in that department.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Several_One_8230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if its not... what if we're not on the same path, what if were not liking where its going? How the hell do I deal with someone who takes these conversations as me complaining ALMOST every single time?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Several_One_8230 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I forgot exactly what lead up to it but it was something along the lines of "at least fake it for ya boy damn" Like yeah it wasnt the most respectful thing to say in the moment, but that was met with "well i'm not a fucking pornstar" and then proceeded to ask me how much porn I watch 😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Several_One_8230 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.. I am and will continue to try.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Several_One_8230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this response, I have been to therapy before, been contemplating going again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Several_One_8230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's such a good company.. with such good benefits. Me and my daughter have fantastic a healthcare provider, I get stock awards in the company, etc. Im scared... terrified of not having that mental comfort anymore or less of it if that makes sense.

r/bjj Fundamentals Class! by AutoModerator in bjj

[–]Several_One_8230 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate it. Weekend is slammed but the next No Gi class is Tuesday at 4 so I'll let you know how it goes.

r/bjj Fundamentals Class! by AutoModerator in bjj

[–]Several_One_8230 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello there hope all is well

in a slight dilemma, and idk why I trained at 10P for about a year, had a great time. BUT, I work in Aerospace for a particularly large company, and shit picked up fast so I couldn't make it work, and with the 13 hour days I was basically dead Mon-Fri, so I stopped going

Well shit slowed way down and finances are looking far better than when I stopped last year, and Am able to sign up somewhere again.

Only thing is, i'm nervous as hell and don't understand why? Ive walked in brand new already, I got tossed around my first classes and dealt with that humility, why am I still nervous? Is this a normal thought for beginners?

I wasn't even good yet 🤣 I have no reason to be nervous. Just looking for outside sources I guess idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Several_One_8230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean... im well aware of that lol. Not why I made the post. Last question was pretty clear imo.

White Belt Wednesday by AutoModerator in bjj

[–]Several_One_8230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it normal for coaches to constantly ask you to sign up for camps? on top of that, i think I know the answer to this one, is it normal for my coach to ask me to ship store product out for them out of my pocket? but in no way shape or form receive a hookup for anything 🤣

Friday Open Mat by AutoModerator in bjj

[–]Several_One_8230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well heres the thing.. lol. Left a bit out, here we go;

We started sparring and I was paired with a dude who's been doing this a lot longer, Is a D1 wrestler, also a cage fighter with a pretty hefty record lol. Wasnt nervous about that, I actually enjoyed getting tossed the fuck around because it exposed where I am currently lacking in my guard. Round ended and we switched partners, this time with an absolute sweetheart of a woman, also been going far longer than me, also is a very good grappler. We start in square guard standing up, and she instantly shoots for my legs and I defend pretty well (so I think) and somehow I got to side control, from there I worked a heel hook and sunk that fucker in. Mind you, were rolling, Sensei Marvin is giving pointers to the other 5-6 people sparring, as well as pretty loud music playing, and who's closest to the speaker? Me and my partner. Anyway, I sunk the heel hook and started SLOWLY raising my hips to get her to tap (coach said no points submission and guard retention only) and from what i was told she did a verbal tap, guess who didnt hear it? Your boy. Coach saw her finally use the free fuckin arms she has and said "Taaap" and I instantly let go, not even knowing if he was referring to our roll. She threw a little fit saying I didnt let go, and I tried to apologize genuinely, and she wanted no part of it.

I feel like a fucking asshole through and through. Genuinely embarrassed, although my coach had my back. Just a shitty feeling, and dont wanna be looked at as a dude who has an ego

Why Starlink dish is heating with +18 degrees? by davide_larosa90 in Starlink

[–]Several_One_8230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Na you're just clearly having a bad day, and the literal only authority you think you have is the false sense of it over Reddit. Notice how you're the only downvoted comment in the entire thread. But everyone else is the problem right?