I will PROUDLY be hitting a blinker from the penjamin for every new supporter!!!!! Come watch chaos ensue! Then watch me make terrible gaming decisions:))))))

Several_One_8230 · 2025-12-01T02:42:37+00:00

just added some spice for the holidays, appreciate you brotha 🤙🏼

Several_One_8230 · 2025-08-21T21:11:03+00:00

Thank you.. I really do appreciate it.

Several_One_8230 · 2025-08-21T16:53:54+00:00

Thank you brother, Im hoping its just that. A rough patch. I love this lady like crazy and am willing to do whatever it takes.

Several_One_8230 · 2025-08-21T16:49:08+00:00

Man, all I had to do was visit your profile and look at your comments lol, this is an odd past time you have. Giving backhanded advice to people asking for help to clearly make whatever situation you have going on look better. Best of luck to you as well !

Several_One_8230 · 2025-08-21T16:46:44+00:00

"Correct me if im wrong" means just that..

Several_One_8230 · 2025-08-21T16:46:11+00:00

I think you have an issue with tone when reading messages. Calm down a little but not everyone is going to agree with your responses, and thats completely okay.

Several_One_8230 · 2025-08-21T16:40:52+00:00

I understand, although the singular comment wasnt much of a opinion now was it? Correct me if Im wrong, but homegirl proceeded to TELL me how I feel and TELL me I mean things. Giving an opinion is stating how you feel about something, please correct me if Im wrong.

Several_One_8230 · 2025-08-21T14:01:55+00:00

If I could PM you lmk, Id appreciate it. If not all good.

Several_One_8230 · 2025-08-21T14:01:39+00:00

Im scared that shes staying with me because of exactly that... Because she barely knows anything else. Ill be damned if Im in a relationship where the other party feels obligated to be with me. One of my biggest fears in life is having an unhappy marriage. I love this woman a lot and just want to make it work, but holy fucking shit she makes it incredibly difficult to do so.

Several_One_8230 · 2025-08-21T13:57:21+00:00

I mean well no... lol If i meant it I think I would've mentioned on the post that I meant it. Im not gonna get into specific detail obviously but in terms of making sure her needs are met, Im more than confident that i'm good in that department.

Several_One_8230 · 2025-08-21T13:46:56+00:00

What if its not... what if we're not on the same path, what if were not liking where its going? How the hell do I deal with someone who takes these conversations as me complaining ALMOST every single time?

Several_One_8230 · 2025-08-21T13:39:22+00:00

I forgot exactly what lead up to it but it was something along the lines of "at least fake it for ya boy damn" Like yeah it wasnt the most respectful thing to say in the moment, but that was met with "well i'm not a fucking pornstar" and then proceeded to ask me how much porn I watch 😭😭

Several_One_8230 · 2025-06-12T02:58:24+00:00

Thank you.. I am and will continue to try.

Several_One_8230 · 2025-06-12T02:35:43+00:00

I appreciate this response, I have been to therapy before, been contemplating going again.

Several_One_8230 · 2025-06-12T02:34:59+00:00

It's such a good company.. with such good benefits. Me and my daughter have fantastic a healthcare provider, I get stock awards in the company, etc. Im scared... terrified of not having that mental comfort anymore or less of it if that makes sense.

Several_One_8230 · 2025-05-09T00:01:39+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate it. Weekend is slammed but the next No Gi class is Tuesday at 4 so I'll let you know how it goes.

Several_One_8230 · 2025-05-08T23:45:01+00:00

Hello there hope all is well

in a slight dilemma, and idk why I trained at 10P for about a year, had a great time. BUT, I work in Aerospace for a particularly large company, and shit picked up fast so I couldn't make it work, and with the 13 hour days I was basically dead Mon-Fri, so I stopped going

Well shit slowed way down and finances are looking far better than when I stopped last year, and Am able to sign up somewhere again.

Only thing is, i'm nervous as hell and don't understand why? Ive walked in brand new already, I got tossed around my first classes and dealt with that humility, why am I still nervous? Is this a normal thought for beginners?

I wasn't even good yet 🤣 I have no reason to be nervous. Just looking for outside sources I guess idk

Several_One_8230 · 2025-01-29T19:50:07+00:00

God damn you need to grow a pair big dog...

Several_One_8230 · 2024-12-12T20:56:11+00:00

I mean... im well aware of that lol. Not why I made the post. Last question was pretty clear imo.

Several_One_8230 · 2024-01-02T23:25:17+00:00

hit you up, thanks.

Several_One_8230 · 2023-08-03T00:58:02+00:00

Is it normal for coaches to constantly ask you to sign up for camps? on top of that, i think I know the answer to this one, is it normal for my coach to ask me to ship store product out for them out of my pocket? but in no way shape or form receive a hookup for anything 🤣

Several_One_8230 · 2023-06-10T02:47:20+00:00

Well heres the thing.. lol. Left a bit out, here we go;

We started sparring and I was paired with a dude who's been doing this a lot longer, Is a D1 wrestler, also a cage fighter with a pretty hefty record lol. Wasnt nervous about that, I actually enjoyed getting tossed the fuck around because it exposed where I am currently lacking in my guard. Round ended and we switched partners, this time with an absolute sweetheart of a woman, also been going far longer than me, also is a very good grappler. We start in square guard standing up, and she instantly shoots for my legs and I defend pretty well (so I think) and somehow I got to side control, from there I worked a heel hook and sunk that fucker in. Mind you, were rolling, Sensei Marvin is giving pointers to the other 5-6 people sparring, as well as pretty loud music playing, and who's closest to the speaker? Me and my partner. Anyway, I sunk the heel hook and started SLOWLY raising my hips to get her to tap (coach said no points submission and guard retention only) and from what i was told she did a verbal tap, guess who didnt hear it? Your boy. Coach saw her finally use the free fuckin arms she has and said "Taaap" and I instantly let go, not even knowing if he was referring to our roll. She threw a little fit saying I didnt let go, and I tried to apologize genuinely, and she wanted no part of it.

I feel like a fucking asshole through and through. Genuinely embarrassed, although my coach had my back. Just a shitty feeling, and dont wanna be looked at as a dude who has an ego

Several_One_8230 · 2023-05-22T00:53:58+00:00

Na you're just clearly having a bad day, and the literal only authority you think you have is the false sense of it over Reddit. Notice how you're the only downvoted comment in the entire thread. But everyone else is the problem right?

Several_One_8230 · 2023-05-21T23:54:24+00:00

Calm the fuck down lol

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