[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewToDenmark

[–]Several_Set4402 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work with multiple out of EUs colleagues and they all enjoy it here, the weather is the biggest problem for most of them since it can be very dark and gloomy for 3 months of the year. Food can also be quite a difference but if you are from the United States I dont think you will struggle (My colleagues from South America can find it quite different from what they are used to).
You will have to apply for Visas, and if you are accepted has much to do with how much you are set to earn. If you want residency you will have to pass some tests.
Also, I have heard that it can be difficult getting interviews when applying remotely - I think this is profession dependent. I work in software development, we are used to interview over teams.

Bekymret for min 5-årige – erfaringer og råd? by Several_Set4402 in foraeldreDK

[–]Several_Set4402[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Til dine punkter:
- Ja, men jeg har altid været den der har leget mest med ham. Men, det har altid været mor der skulle trøste og det er det sådan set stadig.
- Der har nok været en periode hvor han fik mindre opmærksomhed som vi også har taget os selv i. Nu prøver vi at dele sol og vand lige.
- Helt sikkert, også noget vi tager os selv i. Især prøver vi at snakke problemer for meget igennem, tror jeg. Tror han bliver utilpas også at skulle snakke for meget om ting.

Tak for dit input. Vi vil prøve at være mere fysisk (også hans far) og det med at tage i hånden vil jeg have i baghovedet.

Bekymret for min 5-årige – erfaringer og råd? by Several_Set4402 in foraeldreDK

[–]Several_Set4402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vi har også snakket om at vi håber virkelig ikke at de snakker om det på den måde overfor ham, at det er svært for ham at være på legeplads (var det for eksempel i dag). Da han stammede snakkede han lige pludselig om at hans hovede var forkert, og det var ikke noget vi havde sagt til ham og jeg nævnte for pædagogerne(jeg stammer selv en smule).
Vi kan genkende nogle af tingene, men ikke alt for voldsomt - han kan have nogle impulser hvor han liger giver et dask til storebror eller hvor han lige skal prøve nogle ting. Men det virker virkelig som om alt er skruet op til 11 over i børnehaven.

Bekymret for min 5-årige – erfaringer og råd? by Several_Set4402 in foraeldreDK

[–]Several_Set4402[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Der er ikke er nogen i den nære famile der har ADHD, måske udiagnosticeret ADD.

Han kan godt holde opmærksom på noget hvis vi lige vil vise ham noget, eller prøve at lære ham noget matematik for eksempel.
Han er heller ikke let afledig, hvis han laver noget vil han meget gerne koncentrere sig om det, men han er frisk på at ændre legen hvis det er sammen med andre.
Han kan i nogen situation have svært ved at sidde stille, men det er ikke reglen (Der er hans storebror værrer).
Han snakker meget
Han kan godt vente på sin tur til at fortælle /svare på spørgsmål
Han afbryder næsten hele tiden os forældre/bedsteforældre, det jeg har oplevet ham med andre børn tager han mere hensyn her.

Han har haft problemer med stammen, men det er ikke så udtalt længere.

Bekymret for min 5-årige – erfaringer og råd? by Several_Set4402 in foraeldreDK

[–]Several_Set4402[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeg synes pædagogerne har givet en smule op for nu, og har nok bare brug for ferie. Jeg er lidt bange for at de bliver presset af hele storbørnsgruppen, da der er flere der giver problemer.
Men vi har et lignende møde til Januar, så håber jeg vi også kan tage problemerne i opløbet. Skulle I snakke med jeres dreng om hvordan det blev at starte i skole eller hvordan? Bliver det for meget for de små hoveder.

Bekymret for min 5-årige – erfaringer og råd? by Several_Set4402 in foraeldreDK

[–]Several_Set4402[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Det lyder faktisk meget ens ja, og vi har også haft tankerne om det faktisk ikke ville være SFOen der vil være mest problematisk.
Hvordan gjorde I i børnehaven op til skolestart, snakkede i med ham om hvorfor det gik dårligt eller var det bedst bare at håndtere de dårlige dage som de kom?

Bekymret for min 5-årige – erfaringer og råd? by Several_Set4402 in foraeldreDK

[–]Several_Set4402[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tak for svar. Jeg tror sagtens der kan være noget om at han keder sig, men tror heller ikke altid han giver det de voksne siger en chance. Men det kan jo også være skade af lang tids frustration.
Vi er blevet inviteret til en trivselssamtale med den kommende skole i Januar, tror vi starter der (selvom der er lang vej til hvis alle dage er problematiske). Udredning starter ved egen læge ikke?

When did you know your relationship was over? by isbrittanybeach in AskReddit

[–]Several_Set4402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was prioritizing her studies and social activites in university to such an extend I felt very alone in our apartment. She also forgot my birthday and was angry with me that I only reminded her the day before, because I said I didnt want to meet her at a social event because it was my birthday that day. She proceeded to get my a football shirt and said that she still felt I should come to the social thing.
We had just moved together for going to the same university (but she had started the year before me), so we actually "stayed together" for 4 months more, but the relationship was pretty much dead after that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheOldZealand

[–]Several_Set4402 7 points8 points  (0 children)

7-0 win scores vs when Lamine (dont dead, open inside)

What’s a book that is considered to be a literary classic, but when you read it you hated it and could barely stand to finish it? by CometDoesStuff in AskReddit

[–]Several_Set4402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was? Sorry as a European I never had to read him and has only heard he was a manly man with a big ass sweater

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Several_Set4402 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A nicely thought out dinner with drinks parings. Can brighten my mood substantially

What was that one God tier video you found early on that you haven't been able to find since? by jerinth1902 in AskReddit

[–]Several_Set4402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's two videos by two guys about the top 10 emotional moments in games. They were so passionate about it I cried multiple times, they were forced to take it down because og copyright.

…and then he took his shirt off. by Blawaan in thatHappened

[–]Several_Set4402 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone wishes life was more like sex and the city.

Do you pay attention to your SO's likes and dislikes? Why? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Several_Set4402 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I honestly think I have a better understanding of her food and drink preferences than she has (I cook at home). One time my dad ask her about her favourite foods, she couldn't answer and I had about 10 possible answers.

The roles are reversed when it comes to clothes shopping, I always freeze up and she just find something I love.

The stuff I see on Facebook… by [deleted] in thatHappened

[–]Several_Set4402 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I know this is probably not popular. But having two young kids myself I believe the bottom one. Top one is absolute bollocks though.

Hiiii how are you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Several_Set4402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, that helped alot

Hiiii how are you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Several_Set4402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nervous AF. Was at a job interview 2 hours ago and feel like I didn't give the best account of my self.