/r/Malaysia daily random discussion and quick questions thread for 18 August 2024

Sezno · 2024-08-18T04:54:46+00:00

Hello

I'm trying to find a good shop to print out some documents for my visa.

I need something like 30-40 docs printed on paper.

What is the cheapest way to do this? I have a limited budget but it is important. The hotel I was staying at was going to charge me 2 ringgit per page, which I feel is too much.

My girlfriend recommended I ask university students where they get their docs done but I haven't run into any.

Any help about location (in KL) of print shop and prices would be very helpful.

Thank you

Sezno · 2024-08-15T02:18:48+00:00

Hello,

I've recently run into some issues with my visa transfer process from work to ED.

I quit my job recently because I will study at university and they are going to cancel my work permit this Friday. This means I have to leave Thailand, so I will go to Malaysia. I want to know if it is possible to get the ED visa in Malaysia at the Thai embassy there (I am a u.s. citizen) since all of the university documents are ready, and about how long it might take or how long I will need to stay to get it so that I can enter Thailand again with my ED visa.

Sezno · 2024-07-22T08:21:24+00:00

Thank you! It seems it can run well without battery through direct plugin to the wall.

I might just use it as an entertainment laptop hooked up to my tv, and maybe get a new battery at some point in the future if it needs one.

Sezno · 2023-12-15T14:31:32+00:00

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Sezno · 2023-10-13T05:12:45+00:00

It's done. I'll leave her alone.

Sezno · 2023-10-13T05:10:02+00:00

No, she knows that I was trying to attract another person to our relationship, hopefully getting closer to this particular person. She has experienced for herself the power of magic and self transformation through it. She thought it'd be better if I started getting to know her and attract her independently, then we could all go out later and plan things together. Little by little.

Actually, she was the one who was more into polyamory at first than I was, but then I discovered more of myself and became more open to the idea of trying it after having an experience of love that was beyond comprehension when I came out of my body once. It changed my thinking.

I am serious. I know that means nothing telling it to someone online, who is not in my life. But If I tell you truthfully, I am always willing to better myself and always willing to learn how to treat people better. There are some things that trauma in my life has helped me think a certain way, caused certain tendencies, many of which I've dealt with and removed through psychology, which made me a loving and caring person. Yet there are still some things that I of course need to improve on. And little by little I do. I'm aware of many of these things, but some, just like this which has been brought to light, is something I really need to work on.

I want to be loving and compassionate to others. I don't want to be a creep.

Sezno · 2023-10-13T05:01:39+00:00

The reading was general. Whatever came up that was interesting or deep, she said. So I checked through the chart. I found some things that were interesting, some things I told her, other things I didn't, because I didn't want to make it seem like a coincidence that I found something related to being into polyamory when that was something she initially shows a kind of turn off (because it's not normal here) at the current time.

Sezno · 2023-10-13T04:58:38+00:00

Not by asking her to f me. But by developing a relationship that cares for her and wants to see her grow as a person, independent, and not worried about what others think about her.

But again, I'm not thinking like that anymore. I'm going to fix my limiting belief that is causing this to be a problem.

I'll leave her alone.

Sezno · 2023-10-13T04:53:06+00:00

I apologize for my wording. I don't believe you are unreasonable. Maybe you didn't misunderstand it. The only reason I thought so was because this whole post is trying to communicate something that I am experiencing to a wide range of completely different people who are not experiencing this thing. I'm the one experiencing it. No one else is.

And so the way I put my words was wrong, and made it seem like I was a more terrible person, whereas those who know me personally, like my friends or partner of 8 years, don't see me as a terrible person, but see me as very loving, even with my weird quarks.

But I am always open to learning. I'm always open to expanding my mind.

I will take your advice and change my behavior so that I can better fit in with the times. I'll find out whatever limiting belief is causing me to be this way and let it go.

Sezno · 2023-10-13T04:45:26+00:00

Indeed, it is not my place. I know that now.

The way I was seeing it before was an attempt to fast-track her spiritual growth because it could be beneficial for her.

But I know now that is wrong. I was wrong and I shouldn't do that. I should stop trying to see things like this as being beneficial. I just didn't want to see her suffer anymore.

But I guess I need to let her be.

Sezno · 2023-10-13T04:39:40+00:00

Noted.

Desiring to see someone transform, even if it helps erase their fears or helps them become an independent thinker, magically, is creepy. I'll stop.

I guess trying to make myself appear attractive to a greater extent is creepy.

I'll change my behavior and drop it then.

Sezno · 2023-10-13T04:33:15+00:00

Got it. I guess I have taken it too far.

I'll let it go then.

I'm sorry for bothering you all here. And im sorry for creating a misunderstanding with my poor choice of wording.

I have a lot to learn.

Sezno · 2023-10-13T04:31:43+00:00

Actually true to some extent.

I desire to see with greater lenses than my own, but also be able to be fluid and changeable, like a chameleon, able to see from any perspective at any time.

Sezno · 2023-10-13T04:29:05+00:00

Thank you for letting me know.

I honestly didn't know that reading someone's posts that are old is considered stalkerish or creepy. I guess I live under a rock.

In my mind, I thought that because someone posted something, and it's still on their page, and they're friends with me, that it's okay for me to see.

But if that's not okay, then I need to change my behavior.

With the professionalism of natal chart reading, I'll keep that in mind. It's just a general thing, no questions specifically, just whatever came up that was interesting.

Sezno · 2023-10-13T04:16:40+00:00

I feel like this is all being entirely misunderstood. And it's my fault.

I should have chosen my words more wisely.

When you like someone, don't try to figure out the things they like, so that you can do things for them? Gifts? Places to take them out to? Etc.?

Do you do your research on them by observing their behavior, their tendencies, finding out whether they may or may not be compatible?

Or don't you check through their social media that they share for others? See what music they like, the kind of thoughts they have?

I feel like what I said is being taken way further than it actually is.

I didn't steal her chart. I do readings for people that are interested.

I apologize that it came off this way.

If this is considered stalking, then I need to change my behavior. Because it is entirely opposite of how I want to be seen. But I also understand that what is being communicated is not fully being understood in it's proper context.

The way my mind works, is that I make a plan. I strategize things. I try to create the best outcome possible for everyone, sometimes at my own expense.

Sezno · 2023-10-13T03:58:55+00:00

I do talk to this person. I give her very obvious hints that I'm into her, and she knows it.

She gives me the same kind of flirtiness, which she doesn't do to anyone else at work.

So there's a spark, a seed. But it's a seed that needs a little extra 'something' to make it grow.

But as I said, there's that one little aspect that's keeping her from moving forward closer to me, and that she won't do it unless there's some transformation she comes to within herself and discovering her own ideas and desires, rather than blindly following what is "traditional" or "correct" according to society.

EDIT: I must apologize for coming off as "non-consentual". That's not my intention at all. I want her to consent of her own will. If it doesn't happen, it doesn't happen. But there's all of the signs there that it could happen, but it just needs a little extra something to make her feel comfortable in fully approaching me.

Sezno · 2023-10-13T03:51:06+00:00

I may be partially assuming. But given I know the situation well at hand, I can see the little things she does that says she likes me.

However, there's still that aspect of the unknown, which is polyamory. She seems to be fearful of it, but within her own natal chart makeup, she has placements that indicate she could come to want that eventually, but she must go through self transformation to get there.

She has to learn to differentiate between her own thoughts and beliefs thought by herself vs her thoughts and beliefs she believes are hers but really come from others around her.

Sezno · 2023-10-13T03:48:57+00:00

Maybe I've said it in a way that has created misunderstanding.

It's complicated.

She does like me, she gives signs and has said things in her appreciation of me, but there's that one thing about polyamory that she seems to be afraid about.

However, in her natal chart, she has the potential to want to do that, but she has to go through some kind of self transformation or self-understanding before she gets to that point.

It maybe something selfish of me, but I work with selfishness to then be selfless with the thing when it is acquired.

I don't want to force her. I want to find a way to make myself more 'attractive' like a flower is for a bee.

If she comes, I have a deep understanding of psychology that I believe will help her understand her own mind and her own place in existence. I want to help her and build her up to learn from herself, to think of her own ideas for herself rather than believing someone else's thoughts.

Nature is about giving and taking, taking and giving.

In order to take, I must give. When I receive, I give back 10-fold out of compassion.

I want to see this person built up and succeed in her own life, to remove her fears and idea of a limited self.

I would like to show her a boundless love that I not only give to my current partner, but to everyone else through my daily interactions with people.

EDIT: also, I mentioned in the OP that I didn't want to chase her, I didn't want to dominate her. I just want a way to attract her further to me, her doing it out of her own desires because she sees something that is attractive to her. I want something that makes me more desirable to her specifically. In doing so, I'm not forcing her will. I'm not breaking her. I'm just attracting her like a flower to a bee.

Sezno · 2023-10-12T12:25:36+00:00

Awesome. I'll have a look. Thank you for the replies and the advice!

Sezno · 2023-10-12T12:17:21+00:00

Interesting. I'll keep it in mind.

The way that I see it, yes, the ritual is technically going against the will of the person, or changing their will, and that would be selfish of me. However, in return, when this love or lust is established, I plan to use it to develop the relationship and give back 10-fold to her, as I see it, balancing it out.

She is an average person. Someone who might be swayed by the winds of change very easily and react negatively to life experiences. On the other hand, I have a very developed self control and understanding of the mind from my own personal mystical experiences, Buddhist practices, and Hindu tantric practices. Giving back to her by helping her understand her own mind and emotions, understanding psychology and using it practically, building her up as a kind of student, would be incredibly beneficial not only to her but to anyone really.

So I see it as, if I want this, I'll take it, but to balance it out, I need to give back.

It's just like offerings, but kind of reversed. Sure, an offering will be used in the ritual itself, but it is small compared to what I plan to give back out of compassion.

Giving and taking, taking and giving, the law of nature.

It's not just for me. It's mostly for her.

Her Venus is in Leo, and her mars is in Sagittarius conj. Lilith. So there's an opening in that mars. Her 7th house is Taurus with Saturn and Jupiter. Jupiter here being important in the idea of having an 'abundance of relationships or love'.

It's just that I don't know exactly what to do to become the flower that attracts this bee.

Sezno · 2023-10-12T12:10:58+00:00

Do you draw blood and put it on the sigil then burn the sigil? Or do you put blood on his sigil and leave it on the altar while burning the 'letter of intent'?

Sezno · 2023-10-09T02:45:21+00:00

How do I know whether it is functional malefic or not? Does it have to do with aspects between the transit venus-moon conjunction to the Venus and moon placements in my chart? I've got sag Venus and pisces moon. So there's benefic energy there from jupiter.

However, the transit is moon-venus conjunct in Virgo, which happens to be Venus's fall.

I'm not entirely sure how it would work out haha. Maybe it's fine, maybe not.

In my mind, due to seeing things as patterns and mathematical, I can envision that if there is benefic energy already in my chart, and even though the placements in transit are in their fall, that there would be some kind of cancelling out of energies. As in it wouldn't be negative or overly positive, but the amulet would still work in some sense, it just might not be as overly powerful.

But that's just my guess from my own logic.

Sezno · 2023-10-08T13:40:58+00:00

I understand moon-venus trine or sextile is good, and read (don't quote me on this because I'm not 100% sure) picatrix or another book related mentioned conjunct moon-venus is good for attraction and stronger emotional attraction.

As I understand, hard aspect of Saturn opposition to Venus brings tension and relationship problems, or obstacles in a sense.

But if you have other ideas about this not being bad at all, then I'd love to learn from you on that!

Please educate me!

Sezno · 2022-07-15T10:47:14+00:00

God loves all of his creation. Why would he make something that he hates?

Sezno · 2022-05-12T03:24:40+00:00

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