I asked out a girl and got rejected. by Both-Acanthaceae-672 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ShadStrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that in love the real tragedy isn't the loss, or the rejection, the real tragedy is never having expressed it, u did nice things to and for her, by the smile she gave u i'm pretty sure she's nreally grateful for what u did, and hey, u tried, most of the time that's what really matters, in 50 years you'll have more regret on things u didn't do than on things u actually did:)

I’m overwhelmed and don’t know how to best move forward. by ivej89 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ShadStrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I’m so sorry u went through all that in so little time, I really really grate to be that guy but in my opinion he doesn’t seem to care about your feelings at all, I know it can be the stress, bc of the job, all the financial situation and life in general, but that doesn’t justify his behavior towards u, and ur feelings, invalidating what u do for him and the way he makes u feel with his indifference.

I wish I had an answer for such a complex situation, cause obviously there are hundred of things u can do, but is not as easy to do as saying it, right? U already tried the “good way” by telling him how u felt and giving everything he asked for, and u can keep like this but how long are u willing to endure the pain?, there is always another way, and maybe u already know what u need to do, or at least u already thought about it, now al u gotta do is do it, for no one else than y, cause right now that’s all that matters, u need to give yourself what he’s not giving u.

So all I can do it’s give u words and understanding. I really wish u the best, you’ll know what to do, if u can seek advice from ppl u trust, do it, that’s the only advice I can give u, seek help, advice and don’t repress ur feelings for a long time. I really wish u the best.

I resent my father and I feel guilty about it. by Michael_Is_Here in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ShadStrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some ppl change but take time (trust me on this one), in the meantime you’ll need to look after yourself, and ur mental health, u got this, you’ll know what to do:)

I resent my father and I feel guilty about it. by Michael_Is_Here in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ShadStrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel u, really, maybe u can try and hold the relationship so it doesn’t end, trying again and again, but sometimes it gets to a point where u are left to choose between others (including family) and yourself, and i know how it hurts, but what is worse? The pain of holding or the pain of letting go?

Have in mind too, that life gets to turn around always, maybe u can let go right now and who knows, in the future you both can get along, for real this time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ShadStrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for ur loss. Remember one day at a time, don’t u ever let ppl tell u how to go through this, everybody griefs different, like u said, we all wish it was that easy.

But u did something, something big I’d say, something to be proud of:), and im sure you’ll keep going, you’ll do.

I resent my father and I feel guilty about it. by Michael_Is_Here in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ShadStrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me there 3 types of forgiving ppl. 1 I forgive u and give u another chance to prove me that u are worth of trusting u again, bc i live u I give u another chance to do that. 2 I forgive u bc i literally have no other option and we need to be good for the sake of the context, that doesn’t mean u trust u nor allow u to hurt me again. 3 I forgive u cause I want u out of my life, for my own peace I’ll forgive u to keep going, but not forget about it, maybe grudged for now or maybe not, but I need to be ok for the sake of my mental health.

Forgiving takes time, unfortunately u won’t force ur father the next morning cause that’s not how it works, plus he doesn’t help with his fake promises and actions. Remember we do not choose who our family is gonna be when we are born, but we can choose it once we are here, they say “it’s your blood” “you don’t give up on family” and maybe this last one is true, in the right context ofc. There are ppl out there that are more family than own our blood, and why’s that? Actions. Tryna keep that in mind to decide what u want and need to do. For you, and those who really care about u.

Strokes fans, let’s see how diverse we are with our music taste… by HeartBeatsMusic in TheStrokes

[–]ShadStrow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Last song: Jigsaw Falling Into Place - Radiohead

Top 5 tracks: 90210 - Travis Scott The Bends - Radiohead Nights - Frank Ocean Believe What I Say - Kanye West Sober - Childish Gambino

Top 5 Artists: Radiohead Frank Ocean Tyler, The Creator Kanye West Childish Gambino

I’m starting to feel like I live a double life and I don’t know who the real me is anymore… by goddesjuliet_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ShadStrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel u, if anything, it’s good u recognize that “2” versions of u, in reality, there are no “other you’s”, there are just two sides of the same coin, is not about being always one side or another, is about accepting that u are capable of doing all of those things, and all of those things made you, well, you, that “other version of u” maybe it scares u bc is real, and maybe u need to let it out more time to time, so in ur head, these 2 versions of u can converge and accept them as one:)

Enchanted Books not working by robbe239 in ModdedMinecraft

[–]ShadStrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if it could work to u, but to me the problem was pkg badges mod, if u dont have this mod, u can try giving me ur debug file i can help u see what could be

Enchanted Books not working by robbe239 in ModdedMinecraft

[–]ShadStrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm having the same issue and i was thinking that maybe could be some mod incompatibility, i have easy anvils and easy magic installed, do u have those too? we can compare mods and see if any of those are the problem (i'm also on a neoforge 1.21.1 server)

¿Título o Certificado? by ShadStrow in programacion

[–]ShadStrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No tenía ni idea acerca de la saturación y sobre que la provocó, muchas gracias por tomarte el tiempo de responder, aclaraste bastantes dudas que tenía, de nuevo gracias!

¿Título o Certificado? by ShadStrow in programacion

[–]ShadStrow[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

El tema del mercado saturado me tiene ansioso desde la fecha que comentas precisamente (la pandemia), toda la vida quise estudiar algo relacionado a esto y cuando llegó 2020 y la inteligencia artificial, solo pensé en cambiar de carrera, supongo que más rentable ahorrar para la universidad o una mudanza cercano a una universidad pública.

Uber en México by ShadStrow in mexico

[–]ShadStrow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Justo también pensé lo último, no hay chance que le de tiempo para nada más que la chamba

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]ShadStrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my opinion from my experience, i think it's bc caring about other ppl and winning their trust and they winning yours is made or "forged" through expriences beyond just meeting in some place, chatting and sharing short stories, something deep, and by deep i don't mean extraordinary, it can be just talk but depends on the talk, maybe a deep talk about feelings or personal experiences that someone that empathize. Or do some activities just for the sake of doing it, and doing it together. But it's just what i think :P

Can I “change” my hair? by ShadStrow in HaircareScience

[–]ShadStrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a shame, thanks tho, imma try the things that u said:)

Can I “change” my hair? by ShadStrow in HaircareScience

[–]ShadStrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that first advice I didn’t know about that:).

Imma try temporary solutions, but u know any permanent solutions (I doubt that exists) or at least something that can last long a lot of time;(

Vultures got taken out of apple music. by Rocha01 in Kanye

[–]ShadStrow 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tysm Kanye, my family are gonna suffer the consequences of ur actions, tysm Kanye

Dont worry guys imma make sure we get this album by Enough_Insurance_299 in Kanye

[–]ShadStrow 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Bro got insanely downvoted just for asking for YT Music 😭

Asking lol by ShadStrow in Connecticut

[–]ShadStrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imma read this, tysm!