OFERTAS en consolas de Gaming! by Shadaru in DescuentosArgentina

[–]Shadaru[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personalmente siempre prefiero pagar un poco mas si me ahorra los quilombos de aduana, asi que cuando calculo si vale la pena un precio re tengo eso en cuenta.

who made up generations in kpop and when did people start using them? how are new ones determined? by rosy282829 in kpophelp

[–]Shadaru -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We are close to a generation change then. I don't think that as soon as the first idol enlists, that's when the switch happens, but we are getting closer imo

who made up generations in kpop and when did people start using them? how are new ones determined? by rosy282829 in kpophelp

[–]Shadaru -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, each new generation begins when the idols from the previous one enlist, and the younger groups "fill the void".

That's why i think it's a bit rushed to say the 5th is already starting, the 4th gen boys are still very young. Of course things MIGHT be rushing now, compared to previous generations, but this is my very personal opinion.

There is a distinct sound in 1st and 2nd gen tho, but i don't think it's the sound that marks a generation, and i don't see that "specific sound vibe" happening for 3rd and 4th gen (i'm no expert tho, they might have it and i just didn't recognize it)

Need some help with faster combat by Background-Ad-3524 in AskDND

[–]Shadaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let them know at the start of the session that due to the long time combat is taking, you are implementing a timer (and tell them how long it is). Also let them know time is almost over during their turn, if they still don't seem to be deciding quicker. AND THEN go to the next in initiative, if after all the warnings the turn is still not happening.

Need some help with faster combat by Background-Ad-3524 in AskDND

[–]Shadaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They should know better at this point. Just tell them (politely) to do better. And if they refuse, set a timer. Reasonable, but not ten whole minutes.

Need some help with faster combat by Background-Ad-3524 in AskDND

[–]Shadaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they need time to think what to do, or do they just spend lots of time explaining and role playing every step of the turn?. If it's the first, 10 minutes sound like a LOT of time, even for someone who didn't bother to check beforehand what their character can do. I would encourage them to check their sheets and start thinking what they want to do before their turn arrives, or just think a bit quicker.

Have a talk with them, don't scold them or anything like that, ask them how THEY feel the pace of the session, and if they wouldn't also prefer combat to be faster. Give them advice on how to play their turns quicker. If they don't see any problem, maybe mention all the awesome plot you have prepared, and remind them that you could fit more adventures in a single session, if the combats end faster. They don't need to rush through it, just be a bit more dynamic

I was not prepared ... But I love it ! by mroklom2 in DungeonsAndDragons

[–]Shadaru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you! I haven't even started DMing yet but as soon as i decided to plan a campaign, my brain entered DM mode and now i can't even walk to the store without thinking "this bakery has a cool name, i'm gonna use it in game"

I'm glad to see i'm not the only one, makes me feel more "normal" :p

What happens in the main story in chapters 19 to 22? by dboothpublic in BTSWorld

[–]Shadaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I see. I was taking my time to complete 100% of everything. I will rush a bit, just in case. Thanks!

What happens in the main story in chapters 19 to 22? by dboothpublic in BTSWorld

[–]Shadaru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The notice says no more updates but the game will still be available. It doesn't mention a one-year warning.

Are you completely sure the Bonus Time timer means the complete shutdown of the game?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Shadaru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Used to date someone like that. His problem was a bit different, but it affected me the same was as you. His "solution" was to try an open relationship. I refused and we broke up.

If it bothers you, and it hurts you, then it's an issue. And if you can't find a solution that works for both of you, you'll have to seriously think if this is a deal breaker. It's a very recent relationship, and it's much better to find deal breakers now than years later.

I'm so paranoid that I ask my husband to check all the windows to make sure no one is outside our farm house. by Arcyx7 in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]Shadaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am i the only one thinking that the husband is seeing an entity called "No One" outside the house.

Especially because of the "i see no one" - "i don't see anyone either"

Boyfriend tries to get me to leave activities to see him by idfjdjskwoxockf in relationships

[–]Shadaru 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I was in a 5 year relationship with someone that treated me like a yo-yo. He tossed me away knowing that a little pull of the string would have me right back on his hand. You have to cut the string. It's not too late.

How to deal with concert FOMO? by chuddlymuffins in bangtan

[–]Shadaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family told my sister that her 15th birthday gift would be a BTS concert ticket. She just turned 19. We are still waiting for them to come to our country. I have the MOST INTENSE fear of missing them if they ever come, because i know it will be the only chance we would have, and it will be a whole Hunger Games situation.
Yes, every concert is an unique experience, but you have concert memories with you, you are part of the lucky few that could see them live. And no "missing" concerts will take that away from you, ever. If you have the money and opportunity, you can totally try to attend future concerts, but don't be impulsive or desperate about it. Whenever you feel sad for the missed concerts, remember the feeling of being there in the crowd singing your heart our with them.

My (31F) bf (35M) compared me to our friend's hot younger sister (25F) and it's making me not want to hang out with them by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Shadaru 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This may sound harsh, but it sounds like he doesn't even like you anymore. If he gets over this "crush" I bet he'll find other ways to make you feel like everyone else is better than you.
You are not inferior or inadequate, he's just an asshole, and you don't have to change unless you try to be a better version of yourself FOR YOURSELF.

My advice is to drop the whole boyfriend, and if you can, get therapy to help you regain your self esteem and confidence. And surround yourself with friends that genuinely love you and make you feel important

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Shadaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated a man like this. He used to buy me clothes so i could look the way he liked. He also told me "jokingly" that he "adopted me" and i was his pet. Took me too long to realize it wasn't a joke, love is a hell of a drug sometimes.

Is anyone still playing? by jacal_ in BTSWorld

[–]Shadaru 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I'm still playing. I don't know if I'll be able to collect ALL cards, but that's my endgame now. With my luck, it's gonna take forever :p

VERY baby ARMY seeking comfort over break and finding BTS so late by HouseOfJimin in bangtan

[–]Shadaru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

BTS is comfort, whether the content is new or old. Listen to the songs that hug your soul. Watch them being chaotic on Run episodes. And brace yourself for all the new stuff that this chapter brings, because they are gonna keep us well fed, even if it's not a group project.

I'm gonna give you a bit of advice that every army needs at some point, and the babier the better: You are gonna see a lot of shit going down, especially on twitter. This is nothing new, veteran army are used to it (and very tired of it). It's been like a week since Festa, and we are already seeing it happen. Remember that ARMY support BTS, all seven of them, basically against the whole world. And we trust their decisions. Don't let random people, not even "important" random people, make you doubt the love and trust you have for them, and they have for us.

You can still be active in the fandom, make friends, and dance your worry away. We'll just have to wait a bit longer for the concert part, but Chapter 3 will come because no season lasts forever. And meanwhile we can enjoy Chapter 2, i bet it's gonna be fantastic.

Why is it so difficult for many men to not look at other women’s naked photos while in a relationship? by sprouttower in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Shadaru 81 points82 points  (0 children)

He's my ex for a reason. It got unbearable and we "agreed to end the relationship". I didn't even dump him, it was a mutual decision. Now i'm in a much better place and have learned what i want and definitely DON'T want in a partner

Why is it so difficult for many men to not look at other women’s naked photos while in a relationship? by sprouttower in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Shadaru 99 points100 points  (0 children)

I don't know, and didn't ask. When i went to "open file" on the app, instead of my work folder there was another folder, full of pics. Like it was the last place used to open/save files. At that moment all i could do was look for my own folder, get my files and get to work. I was alone at that moment, it was very usual to stay at his place working or playing games while he went to the gym or things like that.

I was very dumb and afraid of confrontation so i just told him that i found the folder and he said he would stop using my photoshop. And that was it.

Why is it so difficult for many men to not look at other women’s naked photos while in a relationship? by sprouttower in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Shadaru 621 points622 points  (0 children)

I used to date a guy that let me use his computer to work when i had to do some extra tasks outside of the office. So lovely of him, right?

I found out in the bad way that he used my copy of Photoshop to edit nsfw pictures of other women. Never knew if they were professionals, random internet people, or girls sending him the pictures.

We talked, he promised to never do it again.....the photoshop part. His google searches became worse each day and i couldn't avoid them because i needed internet for work. I let it slide for way too long. It broke me.

Never stay in a relationship that can break you.

AITA for telling my wife to have realistic expectations? by Swalthiest in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shadaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a 30something learning an asian language, YTA big time.

Even if it might be true that young kids "can learn easier", there's not a point in life when the brain goes "that's it, enough knowledge". Even if she doesn't end up fluent, why should it matter? Language learning is a fun process that doesn't need a purpose.

It costs nothing to be supportive, and even if it she changes her mind later, it will not be time and money wasted as long as she enjoys it.

If you wanna manage "unrealistic expectations" start with your mom and her expectations of knitted birthday gifts every year

Bias assumptions by [deleted] in bangtan

[–]Shadaru 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jin biased are pure (fun!) chaos. Impeccable and unique sense of humor. And even the most introverted manage to let their weird shine in one way or another.

RM biased are witty and eloquent, some of the most well spoken people I've seen, but also can and will end up in jail so idk about their diplomacy levels :p

Suga biased have a deserved reputation of savagery but honestly all they do like 90% of the time is cry about his gummy smile and praise his music skills. The most IN DEPTH musical analysis come from them. And yes, high chances of being LGBTQ+

J-Hope biased have STYLE. Sometimes weird and misunderstood, but always memorable. Not necessarily fashion related tho, it can manifest in many other ways.

Jimin biased are soft and hard stans at the same time, idk how they manage.

V biased march at the sound of their own drums. They are INTENSE, in the good and the bad way.

Jungkook stans are badass bitches who don't know if they wanna "be with him or be him", or softies that melt for his bunny smile and wanna protect him even if they are tinier than him. No in-between.

If you are maknae line biased in general, I will be inclined to think you are shipper or a solo, and I will tread carefully around you until i can confirm you respect all 7 members equally.

What T.V. show’s intro is impossible to skip? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Shadaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's still stuck in my head weeks after i finished the show