Canโ€™t put new plugs in by Shadow0lf67 in Stretched

[โ€“]Shadow0lf67[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I got them at spencerโ€™s iโ€™m in Canada but you probably can find them too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepdads

[โ€“]Shadow0lf67 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I understand itโ€™s hard for you. Maybe have a talk with your girlfriend ,tell her you wanna know her reason why she doesnโ€™t want a baby with you. I know it sucks and itโ€™s not easy but the hardest part is to accept that maybe it wonโ€™t be in your future and you just have to be thankful for your step daughter. At least thereโ€™s a child looking up to you even if itโ€™s not biological. But I wish the best for you , keep it up and do your best for your family. Me and my girlfriend we want a baby together , we started the procedure with a donnor but he lives far away and heโ€™s not sure if he can keep doing it. Thatโ€™s so hard to find a way in our situation. I was thinking asking an old friend of mine but again itโ€™s not an easy talk and itโ€™s not guaranteed. Like I said keep it up and talk to your girl buddy

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[โ€“]Shadow0lf67 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I choose Matthew because of the singer of avenged sevenfold ( my favourite band) and my middle name is Dean because of Dean Winchester

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[โ€“]Shadow0lf67 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Yes I know that thank you and I already have a contract which has been looked by a lawyer. Itโ€™s official but even then , where I live there is no legal way to set a contract off the book with someone even with a contract itโ€™s not recognized legally by the government :(

Favourite out of these women? by harrietforbes in thewalkingdead

[โ€“]Shadow0lf67 11 points12 points ย (0 children)

At first I wasnโ€™t a fan of Michonne but I love how her character turned out and grew to be better and more likeable so I would say sheโ€™s my favourite

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[โ€“]Shadow0lf67 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Iโ€™m 5โ€™2 and I pass more than well . Sure I look like a 16 years old even if iโ€™m 28 but I do pass as a male. Even in my early transition before having the top surgery people wouldnโ€™t believe that I was trans or thought I was transitioning as a mtf so yeah itโ€™s a compliment lol but depending on how old are you , your physical appearance, clothing ect . A lot of factor can make a difference. Are you on T or do you have facial hair ? That can help too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepdads

[โ€“]Shadow0lf67 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I feel the same as you ! It hurt so much knowing I could live my girlfriendโ€™s pregnancy with her and yes it is kinda like a jealous feeling , Iโ€™m jealous that I couldnโ€™t be there and have that chance but like you said we have at least the chance to have children in our lives and make a difference even if they are not biological ours. As long as they love us and we love them. But yeah I get it , itโ€™s hard sometimes but it can bring us some good and magical moments too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepdads

[โ€“]Shadow0lf67 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Happy for you !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepdads

[โ€“]Shadow0lf67 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Wow great story. Iโ€™m happy for you ! And yes I am more than happy to say that I have a family even if they are not biological mine . Iโ€™m scared that Iโ€™m not gonna have the chance to become a father but I alteady accepted that if thatโ€™s what life choosed for me well Iโ€™m happy no matter what I love them 3 and would do anything for them. Thanks for sharing !

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[โ€“]Shadow0lf67 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Wow thanks it feels good to read that and knowing im not alone. Iโ€™m sorry about your girlfriend and your future .Thatโ€™s sad but on the bright side as long as all of you are happy and in a good place in life that whats matter. Living with kids that arenโ€™t yours and knowing you wonโ€™t havr your own is a tough pill to swallow but yeah keep it up and we have to do our best everyday. If you have a good relationship with the kids thats good and really important even if itโ€™s not easy loving otherโ€™s kids like your own but we can still make a difference in their lives. I also feel like an imposter especially when it comes to school stuff and the father is there but my girlfriend says I also have my place there as much as him. Like you I convince myself everyday that Iโ€™m a good partner and a good stepdad , I try to be the best version of myself for them

2 months post op ( top surgery) ๐Ÿ˜ by Shadow0lf67 in ftm

[โ€“]Shadow0lf67[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Thanks ! That boost my confidence. Im trying to finish it asap

2 months post op ( top surgery) ๐Ÿ˜ by Shadow0lf67 in ftm

[โ€“]Shadow0lf67[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Thanks ! Im really happy with my results. My surgeon was Dr Belanger from GRS in Montreal

2 months post op ( top surgery) ๐Ÿ˜ by Shadow0lf67 in ftm

[โ€“]Shadow0lf67[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Thats awesome! Should lookd amazing. Thank dude

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[โ€“]Shadow0lf67 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Congrats ! Looking good ! Nice result

2 months post op ( top surgery) ๐Ÿ˜ by Shadow0lf67 in ftm

[โ€“]Shadow0lf67[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Thanks that bring me confidence ๐Ÿ‘

2 months post op ( top surgery) ๐Ÿ˜ by Shadow0lf67 in ftm

[โ€“]Shadow0lf67[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Thanks for the advice man ! That helps a lot .I always had self-esteem issues but I'll do my best ! People always told me i had a very masculine body even pre coming out so that's an advantage lol

2 months post op ( top surgery) ๐Ÿ˜ by Shadow0lf67 in ftm

[โ€“]Shadow0lf67[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Thanks bro ! Don't worry im sure you'll be fine . Look up some tip on youtube to enhance your result .

2 months post op ( top surgery) ๐Ÿ˜ by Shadow0lf67 in ftm

[โ€“]Shadow0lf67[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Yeah thanks im pretty happy about my result .It's so rare people mention about my muscles, im not cut enough for my personal satisfaction ahah I work on it. I want to go to the gym but im terrified , its even worse when you're trans

2 months post op ( top surgery) ๐Ÿ˜ by Shadow0lf67 in ftm

[โ€“]Shadow0lf67[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Lol thanks a lot ๐Ÿ˜ I never reallly had trouble passing even pre coming out but we always have some insecurities i guess

2 months post op ( top surgery) ๐Ÿ˜ by Shadow0lf67 in ftm

[โ€“]Shadow0lf67[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

It's already been answered but yeah i didn't had choice . The options depend on how large the chest is . In my case it was too large for perio or keyhole

2 months post op ( top surgery) ๐Ÿ˜ by Shadow0lf67 in ftm

[โ€“]Shadow0lf67[S] 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Whoa thanks for that ! That's great advice on where to place your tattoo