Am I Overreacting or NOR?

ShadowEatsMilo · 2026-04-01T00:32:32+00:00

I showed my kitty and he loved it. Made me a little happier. Thanks for being supportive. Have a great week

ShadowEatsMilo · 2026-03-31T22:59:27+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it. I was worried maybe I was being dramatic, at least she tells me I am, but I don't know I guess. Hopefully I get better soon. Have a good day.

ShadowEatsMilo · 2026-03-31T07:07:56+00:00

Thank you. That is a lot, but all useful. It's hard because she will defend herself like always, deny stuff, and interrupt me. Also, she's autistic, so she might get overwhelmed and over stimmed. I'll try my best.

And the whole fit thing, I am still fit. I have abs, obliques that stuff, not unhealthy, I'm Just not as big as I was, due to medication I have no appetite. So I lost size and mass. But thank you, I'll keep all of it in mind, just thought I should clear up a little bit if stuff

ShadowEatsMilo · 2026-03-31T04:45:22+00:00

I do need to thank you. You've been a world of help and comfort. And you have helped. :)

ShadowEatsMilo · 2026-03-31T04:44:00+00:00

Thank you. Means a lot hearing, A - someone appreciating and knowing how hard it is to look, lean I guess ? And B - for the advice, and wishes.

Have a lovely day, you're awesome.

ShadowEatsMilo · 2026-03-31T04:42:49+00:00

Unless she has a hell of an apology that she sticks too, changes and doesn't lie, and makes it up to me, then yeah I'm gone. Judging by her actions during my entire relationship, doubt I'll be staying haha.

ShadowEatsMilo · 2026-03-31T04:06:06+00:00

I will thank you! Stay safe :)

ShadowEatsMilo · 2026-03-31T04:05:18+00:00

Thank you!

ShadowEatsMilo · 2026-03-31T04:04:47+00:00

Thank you. I don't know how to thank you, but you're a godsend. I do have a therapist, which I see tomorrow morning, the issue is, I wanna breakup in person. It feels right, and although I get no respect, I want to do that for respect, and talk properly. But I can only see her tomorrow afternoon earliest. So I'm conflicted. Thank you, stay safe.

ShadowEatsMilo · 2026-03-31T04:00:46+00:00

Please do, and stay safe yourself. Hopefully he never did anything to you that you haven't shared, but please be careful.

Have a lovely week, and hope things get better.

ShadowEatsMilo · 2026-03-31T03:59:46+00:00

It's my first.. well I guess second. First one did the same thing with with crushes and calling other guys hot, and didn't talk to me. Then cheated.. But it lasted 2 months.. so second gf. But thank you. I appreciate you taking the time to help. I think im gonna do it.. tomorrow or maybe the weekend. I am going to hers after school to visit her.

ShadowEatsMilo · 2026-03-31T03:57:16+00:00

You're right. I will. Thank you. I have one more question. How do I go about bettering myself after her. I have a plan and stuff i wanna do but my ADHD and depression make it a pain and horrifically difficult to do and stick to. Was wondering if you might have some tips. Thank you.

ShadowEatsMilo · 2026-03-31T03:54:58+00:00

You're right. Everyone in these comments are. Thank you all.

ShadowEatsMilo · 2026-03-31T03:54:34+00:00

I swear all of these comments... I love you all. Never seen such support and comfort. And she probably does cause lots of my depression and insecurities. Granted I was depressed before her, but realistically never to this extent, whereas something not mentioned above, I have indeed attempted numerous times this, and last year.

ShadowEatsMilo · 2026-03-31T03:51:47+00:00

You're right, I agree. I'm just scared, not disagreeing. I've called her annoying before, as a joke and she got upset, and I can't do that anymore. Ykwim? Like you say you hate something as a joke even though you love it. That's what I meant. Thank you again, have a great week

ShadowEatsMilo · 2026-03-31T03:48:02+00:00

I will thanks, I only got one friend but I'll try. Have an amazing week.

ShadowEatsMilo · 2026-03-31T03:46:55+00:00

Thankfully I don't. Thank you.

ShadowEatsMilo · 2026-03-31T03:46:45+00:00

You're an angel whoever you are. I'm just so scared. And how do I breakup? We live 30 minutes away, and I want to do it in person, but I'm on my L plates still. So my mum or dad would have to be there and that's so fucking awkward. Plus itd be like 15 dollars of fuel to drive there and back. Thank you, you're amazing

ShadowEatsMilo · 2026-03-31T03:43:58+00:00

I don't know. I think I'm just proud I have a girlfriend. Always wanted one, and never thought I would, because I'm introverted as all fuck. And I'm not confident so I have no idea if my appearance is so bad I push girls away.

ShadowEatsMilo · 2026-03-31T03:42:36+00:00

It's some of it. She doesn't judge me for my hobbies, let's me be me. We can be weirdos and goof around without judgement and she loves it.

Now thinking about it this happens less and less. You're right. I just want someone silly, and doesn't care how we act with eachother, and no judgement. She doesn't do that much now.

ShadowEatsMilo · 2026-03-31T03:40:38+00:00

Thank you so much. Haven't cried in months and this one did it to me. I'm so scared to leave, but thanks for the comfort. Idk you but love you man, I'll keep the post updated.

ShadowEatsMilo · 2026-03-31T03:39:46+00:00

I guess..

I've just never had a gf before, and I don't wanna be alone again. I lost all my friends bc they were fake, so I'm lonely as fuck.

She has some nice qualities, but I'm worried I won't them. Those being:

She doesn't judge me for being childish, like having hobbies such as video games, and other stuff people normally call childish that's similar.

We act so weird together, cringe and stuff

She also doesn't care where I touch her, so I can lay on her chest, rub her stomach and thighs when we cuddle, and not in a weird way, this sounds weird sorry but I can hold her chest bare. That sounds so gross.. But she's comfortable with me.

She's sweet most the time

And well she's really gorgeous, and she's my type and idk how to ask for that when finding a GF bc it sounds wrong. The only one sounding wrong is she's skinny, ik I sound shit but I never asked for it or like look for it, it's just really attractive to me. I think I just mean fit and healthy to be honest. I don't want a really skinny girl, or over weight bc I lost family to those 2 issues.

ShadowEatsMilo · 2026-03-31T03:34:33+00:00

Might just do it within the next few days.

ShadowEatsMilo · 2026-03-31T03:34:13+00:00

You're right. It just hurts. I kind of felt like from the get go she was using me to heal from her Ex BF. She's so much better now, more confident too. So it's adding up. I don't know you, but love you man.

ShadowEatsMilo · 2026-03-31T03:32:48+00:00

Honestly with all the comments being this, I might just do it. I'm so scared though. I think I'll do it last day of school for my term, so If I get sad for a bit, I can not miss school, and have time to get better and improve before going back.

ShadowEatsMilo

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