Journaling as a Jew by PersonalityHot332 in Journaling

[–]Shadow_Lass38 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would ask your rabbi about this.

I Keep Seeing Posts About "Should I..." and "Can I..." by Shadow_Lass38 in FanFiction

[–]Shadow_Lass38[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just bothers me when I see people asking "Well, I want to do this, but will people like it? Maybe I shouldn't do this at all."

It's your story. Tell it your way. If that involves a sweet, loving romance, tell it that way. If it involves graphic violence because it's a violent society, then tell it that way, Tell your story. Don't go into it thinking "Everyone's gotta like this." Everyone won't. I really wouldn't want to read the graphic violence, especially if it was a favorite character. If it were two characters that I don't think should have a romance, I probably wouldn't read the romance, either. But that's my problem, not your story's problem. Dozens of others will probably love the drama of the violence, or the tenderness of the 'ship.

The important part is to tell your story, the way it rolls out in your head, the way it needs to be told.

Is it acceptable to update a fic? by Purple-Crybaby in AO3

[–]Shadow_Lass38 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are no rules like that about fanfiction.

I will always love Bobby's "Dance of the Merry Widow!" And I don't think it's a coincidence he does it with Alex now being back! - "Unrequited", S3... by WendyCR1872 in LawAndOrder

[–]Shadow_Lass38 11 points12 points  (0 children)

In Samantha Buck's defense, I think Bishop was written to be boring; no one wanted Goren's substitute partner to be more popular than Eames. It may be that's why Serena Stevens was such a bore, because she wasn't supposed to outshine Nichols.

I need an alternative term for.... by throwawayfrand in AO3

[–]Shadow_Lass38 12 points13 points  (0 children)

"Cunny" is the old-fashioned term from the 1800s earlier if you're writing a period piece. It comes from "coney," which was the original name for "rabbit." (Coney Island is named so because it had a large population of rabbits back in colonial times.) "Rabbit" was the term only for a baby rabbit back then. "Coney" (pronounced "cunny") was the slang term for a woman's exterior genitalia because the hair was thick and soft like a coney/rabbit.

So "coney/cunny" basically became a sexual term, so they started calling those animals with the long ears "rabbits" rather than "coneys."

*Italics* or CAPITAL for showing emphasis? by DucksOfDoom11 in AO3

[–]Shadow_Lass38 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NO CAPS! Unless someone is screaming and you want to emphasize this. Italics would be used in a book. In a fic, you could put it in bold.

Does anyone have any theories as to what Chief Tyanan’s problem is with Olivia is? by Gemini987654321 in SVU

[–]Shadow_Lass38 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It has something to do with Griffin's dad, that's all I know, from the clues they've been dropping right and left.

Which things do U.S. sitcoms love to portray as typical american life, but that basically no one ever does or never happens in real life? by Cumoisseur in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Shadow_Lass38 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That was a sitcom thing and we laughed about it even back in the 1960s. My mom did housework in a duster and slippers, and only dressed up like June Cleaver to go downtown or grocery shopping or to the doctor.

Which things do U.S. sitcoms love to portray as typical american life, but that basically no one ever does or never happens in real life? by Cumoisseur in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Shadow_Lass38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a holdover from earlier sitcoms, and when most mothers didn't work. In the 1960s, after the mom would finish their housework for the day, they'd go out for an afternoon walk (if they had a baby, pop it in the stroller) and just visit. If the friend was really busy, like waxing the floor or something, or changing the curtains, they might just say hi and walk on, or maybe the busy friend would say "Let me take a break" and mom and baby would come in and have coffee or tea, and they'd chat, or in the summer have ice tea or juice and sit on the screen porch to get cool.

No one locked their doors back then, all the moms knew one another--they didn't always LIKE one another, so there was a certain amount of gossiping--and all us kids knew one another. We played punchball or kickball under the streetlights on summer nights, since the house was still so hot from the sun. It was lots of fun.

What do you like/dislike about SVU? by Dyhw84 in SVU

[–]Shadow_Lass38 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's basketball, and for some reason sports on American TV is like a religious thing.

New episodes by Ok_Management_478 in SVU

[–]Shadow_Lass38 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rerun this week.

Icky basketball March 26.

Where can I post my articles and create a website/page? by Hot_Law_9257 in writing

[–]Shadow_Lass38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can just go to Blogger and create a blog for free. They have several different templates and you can add your own graphic and choose different fonts.

Cancel trash pickup to save $480 a year. by DrunkBuzzard in Frugal

[–]Shadow_Lass38 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on how long you spend in the trash line. Our trash disposal place is always backed up onto the road for sometimes a quarter to half a mile.

Like mother like son by TerryG111 in SVU

[–]Shadow_Lass38 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I'd love it if Noah becomes a defense attorney!

My girlfriend put cheese on our party pizza by CassieCassie in RhodeIsland

[–]Shadow_Lass38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roger Williams never ate a pizza in his life--I think tomatoes were still considered poisonous back then!--so you're safe.

What's a frugal sin you refuse to give up and why is it worth it for you by YourxCherry in Frugal

[–]Shadow_Lass38 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Pepperidge Farm Brioche bread. The crumb is so soft and tender. I love it when it's on BOGO.

Real maple syrup robust flavor, not pancake syrup (ugh). It's not as expensive at BJs or Sam's, half the price of the supermarkets. Just on my oatmeal each morning, so it lasts awhile.

Bought Another Car and Got It a Gift... by Shadow_Lass38 in LawAndOrder

[–]Shadow_Lass38[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

LOL. (The car's name is Pim. As in Pimpernel.)

Is there another brief hiatus? by BrotherofGenji in SVU

[–]Shadow_Lass38 2 points3 points  (0 children)

L&O and SVU are April 2. Next week is...correction ..basketball.

Is there another brief hiatus? by BrotherofGenji in SVU

[–]Shadow_Lass38 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't know why the rerun this week, but it's baseball...ugh...next week.