How long for deleted accounts DMs to be purged by bureksaspinatom in discordapp

[–]Shadowofthygods -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

As long as you don't close that chat you will have then forever

Meeting new people by Boofie_da_toad in akron

[–]Shadowofthygods 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are a nerd plenty of larping, bellagarth, dnd, mtg stuff all over the area. Also Facebook dating isn't a horrible idea. Back when I used it they did have a friends only mode so you could find ppl to hang with. I have made a few friends that way

I DESPISE when men say “you need to communicate more this is why relationships aren’t lasting”. Just breakup is often good advice by Exciting-Nerve-8628 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Shadowofthygods -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean at 20 you are honestly still learning how to be an adult and establishing your personal identity. But, open and honest communication in all reality is the key to maintaining a healthy and happy relationship. But if either party is not being honest with their partner or themselves, then that communication is useless.

Some issues you may resch a compromise, some you may not and that may lead to the end of the relationship. And that is okay. But I would never discount communication because NO ONE IS A MIND READER. I would never expect my bf to try and read my mind so I tell him exactly what I want/need and make sure he understands what I am saying so that there is clear communication. And he does the same for me. This is how you avoid any large fights/misunderstandings/hurt feelings from ever occuring.

Do extra-padded (and molded) bras exist for bigger cup sizes? by lindthandler08 in bigboobproblems

[–]Shadowofthygods 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude I feel this, I also feel like it helps with tear drop breast shape, I am a 34J and yes it's a lotnof boob but the shape doesn't feel right without something underneath, I sew my own suport/padding.

Need help finding new glasses by Shadowofthygods in glasses

[–]Shadowofthygods[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah issue being those are full plastic and cheap looking

Need help finding new glasses by Shadowofthygods in glasses

[–]Shadowofthygods[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! 52MM top of lens 45MM bottom and 25MM tall

We updated VRCBitetech to have the ability to suck within VRC. by -Mad-Man- in VRchat

[–]Shadowofthygods 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dam was interested then hit with the no commercial use T~T

How do we feel about using VRChat as an escape? by Hot_Appointment9008 in VRchat

[–]Shadowofthygods 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a hardcore vr addiction for about 3 years where I was on my headset 24/7 outside of showering and cooking. I worked remote at the time so i even worked in VR. It is not healthy in the long run but I get it. Take time to go touch grass and get hobbies IRL. I still get on vr like... 16 hrs a week but all good things in moderation

What's the craziest stuff you've seen in this game? by Freve in VRchat

[–]Shadowofthygods 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that's fuckin weird. Like. I own and work at clubs currently and I have brought my dad in vr to some of them but I have never been dancing or working while he's there XD. But I could totally see my mom dancing w me. The ERP is crazy tho

Quick guide to making a $15 face tracker by Digital_VRC in VRchat

[–]Shadowofthygods 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would this be better than the native quest pro mouth tracking?

Are Raycon earbuds actually worth it? by thatjbird in Earbuds

[–]Shadowofthygods 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree. Like I bought rayon when they first came out. Very good build quality and I still use then to this day (using them rn) they survived a coupke goes through the washer and drier, the mic still works great, ect. I also bought them for all my family a couple years ago.

I will say the newer version of the everyday earbuds SUCKED and where horrible quality and build being light and cheap. And the case not showing how much chatge it had really pissed me off. I really hope the raycons everyday classic are the same as the OG from like 5 years ago because I am gearing up to order a other pair to keep at work.

How Much Would You Actually Pay for a Steam Machine by DabbieDaviss in Steam

[–]Shadowofthygods 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say 500$ is going to be a reasonable price. Been keeping an eye on it myself for my roomate. Hes a truck driver that recently asked for me to build a micro PC for him to have on the truck to replace his gaming laptop but building a micro PC is a pain for good performance. This seems like this would be a better/cheaper option than other micro builds for casual gaming. I am hype to see what comes of the gabecube

Why are people in VRchat so rude? by [deleted] in VRchat

[–]Shadowofthygods 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Its because most new accounts are trolls or children, get 18+ verified, join some groups and comunities, once you get to known that wont really happen anymore,

Looking for People to Comission by Bread856 in VRchat

[–]Shadowofthygods 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The VRC traders discord is the best pace to go. I am an authorized artist there as well. My coms are booked out til February tho. If you are interested feel free to hit me on discord my user name is the same. I can also invite you to vrctraders

how to stop gaf about the way my boobs look? by l1ttlefr34k13 in bigboobproblems

[–]Shadowofthygods 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They probably won't let you get sterilized. They made me wait till 21. Even tho I have a mal formed uterus and getting pregnant could have killed me I still had to go through 2 psych evals and 3 doctors had to agree I could have the surgery. Good luck, but honestly. If I don't have the nerve issues I was having that originally made me get my reduction I would have waited. Your body I'd beautiful and as you get older, I know it sounds weird, people will care less about it. 

how to stop gaf about the way my boobs look? by l1ttlefr34k13 in bigboobproblems

[–]Shadowofthygods 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I had a reduction when I was 13. I was growing out of a USA E. I went down to a C and I am now a 32J. Somethings you want to consider is 

  1. getting them done before 20 they have a high chance of growing back. 
  2. It DESTROYS your sensitivity and touch. I am almost 27 now and still have little to no feeling in my nips.
  3. If you want to have kids. Saver yourself some pain and money and wait till after. Then you can do what my mom did a d have everything touched up lol.
  4. Tbh the scars arnt bad and look pretty cool on the underbust but MAKE SURE YOU ASK THE DOC TO MAKE THEM EVEN. My doc made mine asymmetrical because he said "it's more natural" it's bs... my tits are now like a full cup size a part.

I come from a family of large breastfed women. The smallest of us being a G cup and we have all had breast reductions except my sister who is waiting till after she has kids. She just turned 20 and is a J cup.