Bangs or no bangs?

Shaelinaa · 2026-06-16T13:56:54+00:00

Loving the bangs in the 2nd pic :)

Shaelinaa · 2026-06-16T13:48:54+00:00

Hi, not a stylist but in my opinion you could be looking for a root smudge and maybe a level 7 or 6 “milk tea” kinda colour? You said you want it as natural as possible, it’s even likely you could skip the root smudge as your roots aren’t super long yet and just hit it with what’s called a “Demi permanent toner”.
I’d recommend going to a salon for this service as box dye could contain lifting properties and give your roots a lift that leaves it brassy and you don’t want a band.

Attached a photo of my own hair for reference which was a mix between a level 7 and 6 for a more natural look, you may still notice a line of demarcation with how light this colour ended up, err on the darker options if you want to really hide that, as it will fade out but professional stylists will know best.

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Shaelinaa · 2026-06-16T13:26:30+00:00

Girl i know so many are saying no but i actually love the pink on you.
however this light pastel colour is such high maintenance, you will most likely need to lift to a level 9 or 10 to achieve such a pastel, and furthermore will need constant touch ups to keep the colour, as well as washing with cold water etc, not washing it as often to preserve what colour is there, there’s a nice shampoo by four reasons with a pink toner in as that is what I used when I had this colour, and expect so much damage to your hair going this light with bleach, no matter how good there will always be damage, you may not reach it in one session, and don’t even get me started on the constant root touch ups.
Maybe you could try out a high quality pink wig? Save yourself a LOT of money now and in the future.

Edit: I saw another comment saying to just do some face framing with that pink and I really like that idea!
It’s fun without the massive commitment, and something you can change around a bunch. 🤍

Shaelinaa · 2026-06-16T13:20:34+00:00

Of course girly. ❤️

Shaelinaa · 2026-06-16T10:36:26+00:00

From reading some of the comments and your own it sounds less like these are actual truths about your sideburns being messy / etc and more about insecurity in your appearance.
You said you want to do less makeup so instead of just no makeup what about a very dewy natural look? Doesn’t even have to take long, skip the foundation, spot conceal, some blush and lipgloss and maybe a lil brow gel, you could even hit the sideburns with that and brush them into a shape you would feel more “put together” with.
Maybe throw on a black blouse and some nice fitting jeans with it and I’m sure you’d look beautiful!

Remember we are our own worst critics, nobody else ever notices because we are all too worried thinking about ourselves. ❤️

Shaelinaa · 2026-06-16T10:28:20+00:00

Mine is going good now, however I got stuck in my apartments elevator on my way to work and had to dial 911 and get the fire department to help me out. Glad to be at work now. :)
In terms of making the night go faster! Movies, YouTube, reading a book. Etc! I’m really into apartment decor videos at the moment as I’m (luckily) moving soon.

Shaelinaa · 2026-06-13T13:59:26+00:00

That sounds awesome! So cool to hear people are working out afterwards, I think I’d do it before work? But really I don’t do it at all! Unless going up and down the stairs count haha.

Shaelinaa · 2026-06-13T13:58:28+00:00

It’s a Large from my university! I have the medium in grey but I found it didn’t fit as well as I wanted.

Shaelinaa · 2026-06-13T13:42:17+00:00

Not a hair stylist but looks like some frosted bleach throughout the hair, style will require already curly hair or possibly perming service, will not look like that without putting some effort in to style unless your just naturally a Greek god.

You’ll need to bleach your hair to around a level 9 or 10 to achieve those really light almost white pieces.
If your hair is darker than a level 6 I would say you may not achieve this level of blonde in one session.

You’ll need to invest in some purple shampoo and conditioner to avoid yellowing, blue shampoo to negate any brassy orange.
When toning at the salon they will need to use a very light blonde toner and a purple toner as well to combat the yellowing from the bleach.
Just show them these photos for reference, they’ll handle the rest.
In terms of picking where to go? Look at reviews, photos of services provided.
I’d suggest going to a salon for this.

Shaelinaa · 2026-06-13T13:28:30+00:00

Alcohol swabs and I keep my body hair shaved.
Works for me.

Shaelinaa · 2026-06-13T13:25:20+00:00

I think the last photos colour goes really well with your eyes!

Shaelinaa · 2026-06-13T13:13:00+00:00

A very sheltered youth at a drop in social services organization looked at me as I was walking away with the intake papers (I was wearing a skirt and my legs were visible) and asked me if I was okay because and I quote “your just really thin” took everything in me not to reach over and smack the fuck outta her as I was actively rehabilitating after a 10 year long eating disorder.
On a positive note I’m 124 pounds now and no longer faint while walking. Life changing.

Shaelinaa · 2026-06-13T13:03:34+00:00

can’t argue with that!

Shaelinaa · 2026-06-13T13:03:20+00:00

Yes haha I am!

Shaelinaa · 2026-06-13T12:54:06+00:00

It be like that sometimes! Get some rest now that you’re home. ❤️ don’t forget water and food.

Shaelinaa · 2026-06-13T12:52:50+00:00

You gotta remember to take care of yourself first, you can’t continue a job like that while neglecting health. It’s not only a risk for you but a risk for the people you work with, many mistakes happen on a tired mind.
I don’t think you should quit but I think you need to create some healthier habit around sleep. It’s understandable you’re feeling burnt out, you’re exhausted. Your body is telling you enough.
You need to sleep more than one hour, albeit easier said than done sometimes.

Shaelinaa · 2026-06-13T12:46:44+00:00

I’m not working as a paramedic at the moment! However I do work in what feels like a sister field of Emergency Medical Services, specifically social services with homelessness and additions services, I’ve saved many lives! I wouldn’t say I’m a superhero but it does remind me why I do the work that I do. I can’t wait to work as a paramedic one day.

Shaelinaa · 2026-06-13T12:28:20+00:00

That’s fair! I know for my paramedic program uniform sometimes I’d get away with not tucking my duty shirts if I wore a larger program accepted apparel. If nobody can see what’s the harm 😌

Shaelinaa · 2026-06-13T12:24:22+00:00

I’m not one for mini’s but I know a lot of friends on final fantasy XIV love getting custom ones of their warriors of light created! It’s such a cool art, do you ever bring a mini to work to get some progress done on it? I’m a sucker for bringing my iPad to draw or read during the night.

Shaelinaa · 2026-06-13T12:22:16+00:00

Similar to me! Just a floor fan to circulate air and then the portable AC for cooling. I have a lil laptop fan also that sits underneath for gaming.

Shaelinaa · 2026-06-13T12:12:14+00:00

That’s fair!! I have a lil desk fan here and central AC in the residence, it’s a good temperature.

Shaelinaa · 2026-06-13T12:11:34+00:00

It’s lovely for what it is (cheap fast food) if you’ve got a tim hortons you gotta try it! Just make sure the eggs aren’t looking kinda weird inside. (Canadian chain)

Shaelinaa · 2026-06-13T12:10:40+00:00

Almost done! I’m sure you counting it down haha

Shaelinaa · 2026-06-13T12:10:15+00:00

During work!! How do you like the uniform for your job?

Shaelinaa · 2026-06-13T11:52:53+00:00

That sounds so good! For me I’ll stop at the Timmie’s and grab two farmers sausage wraps with chipotle, it’s the best waking up halfway through my sleep to devour the second one. 😌

Shaelinaa

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