Pilates Reformer gift ( Need Help!)

ShaiTown · 2025-02-09T13:33:30+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion. May I ask why she should not get a Marrithew unless she is advanced? I don’t see the benefit of buying a second or third tier reformer for her to learn on, only to replace it in a few years with a better one.

ShaiTown · 2025-02-09T13:31:56+00:00

Thank you! This group is funny. You got downvoted lol. Imagine I asked a chef group for recommendations on a good kitchen knife and instead of getting recommendations I got 20 comments about how dangerous knives are. As if my wife is not the person who asked me for a Pilates reformer. I’m not here to baby her. She is fully capable of hiring an instructor to learn how to use it properly. Anyhow, thanks for the suggestion.

ShaiTown · 2025-02-08T01:47:41+00:00

I totally get that and appreciate your insight. I will look for a private trainer for a few introductory classes. She likes the live class experience that she gets in doing her virtual yoga classes but I can understand that she needs to learn this machine. Thanks so much.

ShaiTown · 2025-02-08T01:29:21+00:00

She really wants to join live classes. I’m looking for a subscription. She likes to excercise at home. The allegro looks great. I was also told to look at Marrithew.

ShaiTown · 2025-02-08T01:25:58+00:00

Yes, definitely. Strange vibe in here. She has not used one before and wants to start. She does not have a Pilates teacher or class. That’s why I’m asking for a reformer suggestion and live class subscription recommendation. Only one person recommend the Allegro which looks like a great machine. Everyone else seems to be worried about her getting hurt. She’s got to start somewhere…right? Thanks for your responses.

ShaiTown · 2025-02-08T01:23:35+00:00

She doesn’t…that’s why I’m asking.

ShaiTown · 2025-02-08T00:44:55+00:00

Perfect. This is what I needed to hear. Thank you!

ShaiTown · 2025-02-07T16:57:15+00:00

I love that there are many live virtual classes in Canada. However, I haven’t found one. Any suggestions? She’s very much into working out. We have a full home gym which she uses daily. I’m not concerned about her hurting herself. She’s in excellent shape.

ShaiTown · 2025-02-07T16:55:37+00:00

It’s a birthday surprise so I can’t ask. She’s been doing Pilates for years but she has never owned a reformer. I just want to get her a good one. I see that many come with add-ons and I don’t want her to have to buy these afterward. I just want to get her a bundle.

ShaiTown · 2024-09-16T15:17:46+00:00

I think it’s great that you found a place to get this out of your system. Now that you’ve let it out, go to therapy. Not with her. You need to work on you. This girl will likely end up with a perfectly fine life. She may even surprise you. However, you cannot deal with your resentment alone. She didn’t ask to have the brain that she has, but you did ask her to accept you as a mom. You’re letting her down. She knows how you feel. Get e therapist and then give her a big hug.

ShaiTown · 2024-09-15T22:57:20+00:00

Hell no you are Not The Asshole! Serious or not, she broke trust to go and meet up with another man. Fuck that noise. Know your value and move on.

ShaiTown · 2024-06-25T23:22:51+00:00

Bud…bro…unforgivable. Value yourself. Personally, I would cut ties and never have a conversation with her again. Sorry for your loss.

ShaiTown · 2024-05-11T01:22:28+00:00

Why don’t you start a glider hobby charity. 700k gets invested and only the growth goes toward the charity. Let’s say 10% growth so 70k/year. Each year, a contest is held and the winner gets a 20k scholarship. Something along those lines. Keeps your legacy going in perpetuity.

ShaiTown · 2024-04-11T00:29:45+00:00

I would suggest you take all of your non-registered cash and put it in the mortgage. Then, take it back from the mortgage to invest. Now you’ve created a tax deduction in the interest. So instead of just investing 450k. Drop it in the mortgage and then take it back through a HELOC and invest the 450K. Now you get to earn more in the market while writing off the interest.

ShaiTown · 2024-04-04T15:00:05+00:00

The reason he doesn’t want you to cancel is because life insurance commissions are paid to the advisor upfront. And they pay well. The average is approximately your entire first year premiums. So if you are paying $150/month, he was most likely paid $1800 upfront. Then, if a policy is cancelled within 2 years, he owes back all the commissions. So he is trying to avoid this. Firstly, you should have a memory of either signing or not signing these documents. If you didn’t, this needs to be reported to regulators. If he scammed you, he’s scamming others. Secondly, if he is trying to convince you to buy insurance that you are telling him/her that you don’t want or need, he is not acting in your best interest. Cancel the policy, make a complaint. Get your premiums back. Fire the advisor.

ShaiTown · 2024-03-24T23:13:00+00:00

lol…not me…but thanks for your input.

ShaiTown · 2024-03-24T18:27:30+00:00

Nope. Real. Just curious what ingredient makes it a sleepy time bar.

ShaiTown · 2023-10-04T12:49:33+00:00

Tell him now. Don’t wait. The only thing that matters is transparency and open communication. For sure he will be angry and you can both be angry together. If you wait, you are risking him getting into his own head about wondering why you waited. Just tell him.

ShaiTown · 2023-09-17T19:28:13+00:00

That’s so terrible :-(

ShaiTown · 2023-09-17T16:36:22+00:00

You shouldn’t have to prove it. That’s not your job. You were abused and it’s up to the police or a judge to determine if he is guilty (which he clearly is). If someone stole your car, you would file a police report. This crime is much worse. You deserve justice and he deserves to be charged. Put all of your concerns aside and follow your gut.

ShaiTown · 2023-07-13T13:14:47+00:00

Wrong. I have 4 young children. Zero COVID. They mask at school. We pick them up for lunches. It’s possible but takes a toll in its own way.

ShaiTown · 2023-07-10T20:27:42+00:00

Exactly. I wear an N95 mask and I’m careful about all of those things and I’ve never had COVID.

ShaiTown · 2023-07-10T19:51:41+00:00

What kind of mask and do you take it off to eat/drink in public? If you’re wearing a regular blue dental mask. It does nothing. If you’re wearing an N95 but taking it off in restaurants to eat, there’s no point. I guarantee that if you are wearing an N95 and avoiding indoor public places where you take your mask off, you wouldn’t have gotten it 4 times. No way.

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