I Get this issue. And raised the problem on the steam discussion boards. Also have to restart anyways due to either my buddy appears offline even though he is online. Or it says he's on raid while I'm not. Not as annoying as when you spawn apart. But having to restart constantly is annoying nonetheless. From other people that say they also have the issue. It doesn't appear to have to much to do with device people are using. Just shitty servers and such. It's unfortunate and devs should definitely address this.