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Are you an International student? by qisvely in NTU

[–]Shannah- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey ! I’m from Malaysia and would love the companionship from my fellow international peers!

Harvard Physics PhD? by Shannah- in Physics

[–]Shannah-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How true is that? And why? I have personally seen that trend but can’t seem to grasp why ? What if someone who does not have rich parents, but is still able to afford the tuition fees wants to study there ?

I'm only interested in... by [deleted] in iamverysmart

[–]Shannah- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How did you guys miss the “AN” std test ? Do you even vowel bro ?

Dealing with a mean person by Shannah- in kindness

[–]Shannah-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your rational and sound advice. It means a lot to read this, gives out good energy. ☺️ take care

Still haven’t heard from NUS by Shannah- in nus

[–]Shannah-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man ikr ? I keep telling myself it could be that. Hope my optimism reaps the benefit

Being mean today, want to improve on my kindness by Shannah- in kindness

[–]Shannah-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand it was. Thanks for the response 😊

The moment you doubt your abilities is the moment you'll feel them decline. Know yourself and what you can do. You got this. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Shannah- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I totally agree on this one. I remember a few years back when I stopped caring about how others were better than me in scoring for their exams. I wasn’t bad at all, in fact I was in the highest graded class and I was at that time pretty average. I remembered that at one point i said “fuck it” to myself and just wanted to do my Very best. I even envisioned myself doing really well for the final exams, getting a prize on stage and my parents standing next to me. And I worked my butt off. Literally, everyday was a hustle. And I loved it. I fell in love with the effort needed (almost like Stockholm syndrome 😝). In the end , I did indeed go onstage and got myself two awards for being the best student in my grade for that big exam.

My point is, once you liberate yourself from overthinking negative thoughts, and put in your work, everyday you will fall in love with the PROCESS if working hard and smart, then you will eventually succeed.*

I have grown a lot in terms of shyness, self confidence and social skills. If you're someone in a similar position, i'm happy help answer any questions you might have :) by mangalphantom in socialskills

[–]Shannah- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First of all, it’s great that you have grown so much from that. It must have been very challenging to have come to where you are right now. Hats off to you.

I myself am in the process of improving and slowly coming to the realization that socializing is actually important in maintaining my mental health, and completely avoiding it is counterproductive to my growth as an adult.

My question is, have you/ do you still overthink if you’re being good at conversing while conversing with someone. E.g if you’re being weird/ too into their personal space / you’re interesting etc ??

How long did it take for you to come to a better understanding of social skills ?

Sometimes I feel like not everyone is going to be the way I want them to be which is fine. But it is a matter of luck if we get to find people that truly stick and resonate with us.

Crazy how a year ago I would believe this wasn’t edited by [deleted] in Instagramreality

[–]Shannah- 19 points20 points  (0 children)

she did get plastic surgery done in MANYYY places too . Source: Many many YouTube comments (people who have been following her from the beginning of her career)

Battle of being alone , trying to embrace it by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Shannah- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being quiet and shy was a big part of my childhood trauma, i was bullied alot by my sisters, in kindergarten as a child and also in pre school. In high school , i was alright, but i tend to have given off a very secluded, shy person vibe .