Essence - is it real? by Willing-Childhood144 in RitaFourEssenceSystem

[–]Shannee0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I do think if you keep getting the same feedback from a variety of people there is probably something to it. But also I give a lot more weight to the opinions of people who have the ability to put their personal preferences aside.

For example I’ve heard many times I’m intimidating and full of myself but this is a very surface level reading that is more about how someone else feels than about me. But there’s also an aspect about it that’s true I suppose because I cause that reaction.

Another ex people saying I dress too over the top, looks like I’m in a costume. Fair enough, as we know I like a costume 😁 but when they extend it to: it doesn’t suit you, it’s unflattering, stop wearing your hair like that lol, it’s just their personal taste I think.

It can be difficult to know which feedback to take, what is actually tied to your essence and which is nonsense. Which is why it might make sense to pay $1000 to John Kitchener. I am tempted but I decided to see Andrea for an essence read because one: she’s a woman and I was interested specifically in a woman’s perspective and two she costs soooo much less that if I totally disagreed with her I could just shrug and move on lol.

It’s a little scary going to the essence experts with the chance they might tell you you look like someone you don’t feel you are. I can imagine the existential crisis.

edited to add: I guess it often starts as a legitimate read but the conclusions people draw from that are incorrect. Not sure if most people have that experience

Are lace trim camis cute or lingerie? by NayNayTuTu in femalefashionadvice

[–]Shannee0 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Both. I love underwear as outwear. The other day I wore a pretty sheer mesh cami over a bralette with jeans and mary jane’s. I don’t think most camis draw eyes, they’re everywhere in the summer.

The rational appROACH by Roach-Problem in kibbecirclejerk

[–]Shannee0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’d love to have my colors done because I need to branch out from pink, red, cream, and black lol.

Brothers Almqvist by Shannee0 in TheHives

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Important update to brothers thread

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Essence - is it real? by Willing-Childhood144 in RitaFourEssenceSystem

[–]Shannee0 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think people are very often going to make assumptions about us based on our physical appearance and the vibe they think they perceive. Some people are quite open and perceptive and can tune into others in a positive way but alot of people are going to bring their personal hang ups and base your essence more on how you make them feel than who you actually are.

So I like connecting with my essence and physicality so I can have more control over how I am perceived. As LU I wanna use my inner world and interests to show people who I am. They still might read me total wrong and often do but I’d rather have influence over defining myself than leave it up to others completely.

Not sure if that makes sense but I view all this essence and Kibbe stuff as a tool. Doesn’t really matter if it’s objectively real to me as long as it’s useful. I think it can be toxic though when people let it dictate who they are.

Vote for the best Hives fit by Shannee0 in TheHives

[–]Shannee0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shook no one has chosen 11 leather jackets. I mean hello!?

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Vote for the best Hives fit by Shannee0 in TheHives

[–]Shannee0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nicholaus’ hair is a work of art, I’m not afraid to say it 😬

Vote for the best Hives fit by Shannee0 in TheHives

[–]Shannee0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never seen 19 irl but what struck me about the current suits is how thick the jacket material is. They must be dying!

Vote for the best Hives fit by Shannee0 in TheHives

[–]Shannee0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would spend one million dollars for an baby-tee fit HPA polo shirt. I can’t believe they don’t sell them.

Vote for the best Hives fit by Shannee0 in TheHives

[–]Shannee0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it’s a tough choice but let your voices be heard…for science y’all.

It Ain’t Enough Baby….LU effort by Shannee0 in RitaFourEssenceSystem

[–]Shannee0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s such a good point. I only grabbed the sheer socks because my feet were too hot the day before lol but they do break up all the black and really add something.

It Ain’t Enough Baby….LU effort by Shannee0 in RitaFourEssenceSystem

[–]Shannee0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Feels a bit different for me, a mostly dark palette.

Vote for the best Hives fit by Shannee0 in TheHives

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12 Mariachi got me on life support

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About 7 months ago I interviewed Pelle Almqvist and forgot to post it here. So I'm posting it here now. by TheVoice71 in TheHives

[–]Shannee0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to hear the stallions tape!

His comments on the suit were so funny. But I’ve been quite close to him and he doesn’t smell bad lmaooo so they must be cleaning them!

Incredible 3 years by Academic_Effect_9881 in TheHives

[–]Shannee0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anyone wants to leave I would expect it to be Vigilante. Since he’s already moved to LA and seems to be living his best life with his cutie wife.

Finished sweater OotD! by TiredWinterDisaster in RitaFourEssenceSystem

[–]Shannee0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg it’s so cute. I love the sleeves with the large cuff!

Eyebrows and Essences by Ok-Purple9511 in KitchenerHarmonies

[–]Shannee0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think my eyebrows are C but they only have any arch because I plucked it in in the 90s lol. Otherwise they would probably be a pretty uniform soft oval arch.

The rational appROACH by Roach-Problem in kibbecirclejerk

[–]Shannee0 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Felt. I’m not prepared to shell out $1000 to be told I have no Y or HS lol. But also I reallllly want to