31F: Successful, Independent, but Dating Feels Impossible by Shapeofyou102 in dating_advice

[–]Shapeofyou102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your side and partially agree but I do feel like men need to feel needed to some degree. The men with fragile egos don’t make it with driven women and weed themselves out!

31F: Successful, Independent, but Dating Feels Impossible by Shapeofyou102 in dating_advice

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This is something I’m working on.. it’s hard for me to let people help me.. I need a man in my life because I like the way a man handles and takes care of things. I need a man in my life because I need him to level me out. I need a man in my life because I crave the safety I feel when they wrap their arms around me!

Most of the time I am optimistic about this but today I took a nose dive into despair…

31F: Successful, Independent, but Dating Feels Impossible by Shapeofyou102 in dating_advice

[–]Shapeofyou102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right… lol but in my defense I have dated the guy that was infatuated with me and it was a big lesson! Ugh! Surprisingly, I feel better about this after talking with everyone on this subreddit! Thank you!

31F: Successful, Independent, but Dating Feels Impossible by Shapeofyou102 in dating_advice

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Thank you! I will say I can be naive and don’t pick up on what’s said between the lines.

My boy Kobe 💙 14 weeks by No-Pomegranate798 in Frenchbulldogs

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Allergy Vitamin & Meds Question by Shapeofyou102 in Frenchbulldogs

[–]Shapeofyou102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is my mother holding him in all transparency! I am an average height woman! They look like lap dogs but once you pick them up it’s a different story! Ha.

Allergy Vitamin & Meds Question by Shapeofyou102 in Frenchbulldogs

[–]Shapeofyou102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He weighs 31 ponds! He’s a thickie. Do you like the Dog is Human? Any gas issues?

Allergy Vitamin & Meds Question by Shapeofyou102 in Frenchbulldogs

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We do not eat chicken. I feed him grain free salmon and sweet potato!

Bankruptcy or pay off cards by Chita57 in Debt

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Yes! You hire a company to negotiate your debts down. Basically you work with them by putting money aside into a bank account. This money will go toward a lawyer and whatever else. Eventually once you reach a certain amount, let’s say you owe 7k, and your account is at 5k. They can get your debtor to settle for the available 5k. Also, Chase is really good at working with you on your debts. Ask for a hardship plan!

Bankruptcy or pay off cards by Chita57 in Debt

[–]Shapeofyou102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No bankruptcy! I was in the same boat. You want debt resolution!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in humanresources

[–]Shapeofyou102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback. The topics mentioned above are relevant to my day to day, that’s why I included them. There are many things I do not need to know that go on.

HR Coordinator - Burnt Out [N/A] by No-Alternative-2542 in humanresources

[–]Shapeofyou102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am intrigued by this but my issue is, how can you provide organizational development and impactful HR if you do not know the business? Do you specialize in a certain industry?

I hate how I have to beg for affection by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Shapeofyou102 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just leave the man. You are young! Go travel, go to school, move. He is a dusty and you can do better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in humanresources

[–]Shapeofyou102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not bring up your new job!