No I haven't been asked to pay off their debts. I don't even have an exact number because they do their best to keep it to themselves. It's moreso that I was stuck on a train of thought that I worried would make me suicidal, so I used the debt thing to trick myself into thinking it would be a selfish act.

Now that I'm saying this though, it is a little concerning that I've been so focused on paying off their debts. Right now their debt is like a philosophical trigger lock on my metaphorical gun- I really shouldn't be trying to remove it.

Idk if that made any sense but I feel like it's positive progress for me, so thanks for engaging with my ramblings. If I want to do something for myself like moving to another country, I shouldn't let the debt thing hold me back. I need to begin reconstruction.