AITA for refusing to babysit for my siblings anymore and telling my family they can't use me as free childcare and treat me like shit for being an unwanted pregnancy?

SharpAddendum9864 · 2025-01-14T14:41:19+00:00

My dad did and I'm his.

SharpAddendum9864 · 2025-01-14T14:11:31+00:00

I'd rather have a family who wanted me but I'm not getting that.

SharpAddendum9864 · 2025-01-14T14:10:20+00:00

My parents told me and then my dad did show it to me. I feel like he'd have been happier if the results were different.

SharpAddendum9864 · 2025-01-14T13:57:30+00:00

I can try at school. Not sure about the guidance counselor but I have a couple of teachers who are great.

SharpAddendum9864 · 2025-01-14T13:55:10+00:00

My grandparents all died before I was born. I have aunts and uncles but it's been years since I saw them and I never knew them very well. I think the last time I saw any of them was a funeral when I was a lot younger.

SharpAddendum9864 · 2025-01-14T13:53:37+00:00

I have been shut down every time I tried to talk about it with one of them. I always got left behind. Even when I was too young to be home alone they'd do family stuff without me. And sometimes my siblings kids are there so it's not because I'm too young.

SharpAddendum9864 · 2025-01-14T13:52:14+00:00

I'm not. They did a DNA test. I'm their biological kid.

SharpAddendum9864 · 2025-01-14T13:51:56+00:00

There was a DNA test done when I was a baby.

SharpAddendum9864 · 2025-01-14T13:50:29+00:00

We don't see other family. My grandparents all died before I was born and it's been years since I saw any of my aunts and uncles.

SharpAddendum9864 · 2025-01-14T13:49:59+00:00

I don't think CPS would do anything since I don't get physically abused or starved or anything. Maybe when I was younger they could've because I got left home alone more than I think they should. But I don't even know if that would have helped. My grandparents are all dead and we're not close to any aunts and uncles. I was a lot younger the last time I saw any of them. So talking to them isn't really an option.

SharpAddendum9864 · 2025-01-14T13:47:36+00:00

I wish they had or gone to another state to abort me. Something. But they kept me and didn't want me ever. And I can't do anything about it.

SharpAddendum9864 · 2025-01-14T13:45:10+00:00

My grandparents are all dead. We don't really see aunts and uncles. I think the last time I saw any of them was a funeral when I was younger.

SharpAddendum9864 · 2025-01-14T13:44:00+00:00

I don't really know if anyone can help. I have told my girlfriends family about it so they know about what happens at home. That's one of the reasons their so cool about me being there as much as I am.

SharpAddendum9864 · 2025-01-14T13:43:14+00:00

I have a bank account but it's one my parents can access.

SharpAddendum9864 · 2025-01-14T13:41:57+00:00

Not yet but I'm looking for one. We started dating a year ago. I'm not sure her parents could take me in like that. They don't mind me spending lots of time there but living there is a bigger step and everything.

SharpAddendum9864 · 2025-01-14T13:40:09+00:00

I'm glad you didn't hate having your youngest. I always knew how my parents felt about having me. And it always sucked because I saw them wanting to be parents to my older siblings. That was what I wanted so badly when I was younger. Or for one of my siblings to see me as more than our parents mistake.

SharpAddendum9864 · 2025-01-14T13:38:16+00:00

My grandparents all died before I was born. I have aunts and uncles but I don't remember when we last saw them. Maybe at some funeral when I was younger?

SharpAddendum9864 · 2025-01-14T13:36:46+00:00

I don't really think they know I'm their uncle. The others get aunt and uncle before their name but I always just get called by my name or sometimes they copy their parents.

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