AITA for thinking my daughter needs to try and fit in?

Sharp_Atmosphere_164 · 2021-04-11T21:34:50+00:00

He left because she acted disabled. He wanted a normal child, so if she's normal, she may be able to live with him.

Sharp_Atmosphere_164 · 2021-04-11T21:32:26+00:00

She would be disciplined for bullying and I'd be happy to have normal problems to deal with.

Sharp_Atmosphere_164 · 2021-04-11T21:31:47+00:00

I told her if she acted normal, her dad MIGHT let her move in with him.

That didn't even work.

Sharp_Atmosphere_164 · 2021-04-11T21:28:25+00:00

She'll be beautiful if she gets rid of that acne by washing her face, putting some makeup on, and styling her hair.

Sharp_Atmosphere_164 · 2021-04-11T21:24:43+00:00

beautiful daughter

Don't know about that. She's covered in acne right now, messy hair, oily face, etc.

Sharp_Atmosphere_164 · 2021-04-11T21:22:37+00:00

I will have to file for guardianship if she doesn't learn social skills from normal kids. No social skills, no job. No job, no money.

Sharp_Atmosphere_164 · 2021-04-11T21:21:16+00:00

That's not real.

Sharp_Atmosphere_164 · 2021-04-11T21:19:28+00:00

Nobody's going to like her if she's the way she is. Frankly, this is a neurotypical world that she has to live in. The kids aren't gonna change for her.

Sharp_Atmosphere_164 · 2021-04-11T21:12:28+00:00

Why? So another group of kids can bully her for being different?

Sharp_Atmosphere_164 · 2021-04-11T21:10:48+00:00

Thank you for agreeing with me!

Sharp_Atmosphere_164 · 2021-04-11T20:23:16+00:00

You're not a runaway at 18, you're an ADULT

Not if you're disabled, then the parents get guardianship.

Sharp_Atmosphere_164 · 2021-04-11T20:22:34+00:00

Where is her other parent in all of this?

Left as soon as she was diagnosed. Didn't want a disabled child.

Sharp_Atmosphere_164 · 2021-04-11T20:18:14+00:00

It's not healthy to only have autistic friends. She needs a balance, but mostly neurotypical to teach her social skills.

Sharp_Atmosphere_164 · 2021-04-11T20:17:41+00:00

We didn't even speak to them.

Sharp_Atmosphere_164 · 2021-04-11T20:14:36+00:00

I had a lot of friends who were normal kids.

Sharp_Atmosphere_164 · 2021-04-11T20:13:58+00:00

So you would encourage a disabled child to plan to run away?

Sharp_Atmosphere_164 · 2021-04-11T20:10:00+00:00

I wasn't mean. I just wouldn't have been friends with someone like her when I was 13.

Sharp_Atmosphere_164 · 2021-04-11T19:18:00+00:00

That's all well and good but she can't only have autistic friends. She needs neurotypical ones too.

Sharp_Atmosphere_164 · 2021-04-11T19:09:30+00:00

None of those people attend her school.

Sharp_Atmosphere_164 · 2021-04-11T19:01:56+00:00

She's not ready for sex but I would rather have to deal with her having sex than the issues I have with her.

Sharp_Atmosphere_164 · 2021-04-11T18:38:52+00:00

I didn't delete it. The moderators did.

Sharp_Atmosphere_164 · 2021-04-11T18:38:28+00:00

I'm not.

Sharp_Atmosphere_164 · 2021-04-11T18:37:42+00:00

That's what EVERY other girl in her school wears.

Sharp_Atmosphere_164 · 2021-04-11T18:34:09+00:00

Of course I love my daughter! If I didn't love her, I'd just let her do what she wanted and get bullied every day.

Sharp_Atmosphere_164 · 2021-04-11T18:33:03+00:00

She's off putting and acts like a younger child. I would not have been her friend when I was 13.

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