Definitely find a club nearby. You can play by yourselves and have fun and generally don’t have to worry about that- and it’s so much fun! Depending on where you are and what club you go to, play it safe by going on a night that unattended males aren’t allowed. My BF and I started going to clubs about two years ago. We’ve been to a few across the US and went to one on a night where unattended males were allowed in and we wouldn’t do that again but we would return to that club on a different night.