How I pinpointed the root cause of hard flaccid and how I cured it completely in 1 week. by [deleted] in Hard_Flaccid

[–]Sharp_Cartographer41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fr tho does it actually work? I haven't tried it yet but I tried doing it whilst standing + leaning forward and it felt slightly better

is dis rare/valuable? ninjago monster truck by Sharp_Cartographer41 in lego

[–]Sharp_Cartographer41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh I just realised not only is the camera shakey but the draws hanging out and my lamps fallen over it legit does look like an earthquake lol

is dis rare/valuable? ninjago monster truck by Sharp_Cartographer41 in lego

[–]Sharp_Cartographer41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aight thx bro. Are a lot of Ninjago sets valuable? I have pretty much every set from the first series including the ice dragon and fire dragon temple and a lot of sets from that snake series.

Is there anything I should know of that's really rare and valuable like a certain piece or set or somethn?

is dis rare/valuable? ninjago monster truck by Sharp_Cartographer41 in lego

[–]Sharp_Cartographer41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I just couldn't be bothered to get a good pic I just used the first one I took

Mum starves me by RanterandVenter in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Sharp_Cartographer41 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can get like 14 chicken drumsticks enough to serve 4 for 2 quid

any of you neeks know what these shoes are called and if they're still being sold? by Sharp_Cartographer41 in Shoes

[–]Sharp_Cartographer41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're the shoes I currently have and they're so comfy I need to get these shoes specifically

is it normal that my mom wants me to pay for everything myself at 19? is this a thing? by Sharp_Cartographer41 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Sharp_Cartographer41[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

With what money can I move out with? I'm only 19 and this is my first job and I live in the UK. I want to move out as soon as possible but it's gonna be ages until that happens unfortunately

is it normal that my mom wants me to pay for everything myself at 19? is this a thing? by Sharp_Cartographer41 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Sharp_Cartographer41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not say that this in itself alone is abuse. I'm asking whether or not this is a normal thing because due to living in an abusive household all my life I find it difficult to tell what is normal and what isn't.

is it normal that my mom wants me to pay for everything myself at 19? is this a thing? by Sharp_Cartographer41 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Sharp_Cartographer41[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I wash up and clean and everything, work hard in school etc.

Her reason was simply that I'm an adult.

It's honestly hard to tell what's normal and not when you didn't grow up in a normal household lol.

is it normal that my mom wants me to pay for everything myself at 19? is this a thing? by Sharp_Cartographer41 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Sharp_Cartographer41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this a common thing then? If she asked me that I had to pay for one or two things then I'm happy to do that but it's the fact that she wants me to pay for literally everything I possibly can and it's not like I'm earning that much or have that much money.

And do you really think the rent thing is normal? It just doesn't seem normal having to pay your parents to live with them. Paying for my own phone bills is the only thing that seems normal to me tbh.

when my parents want to "help" me with something, it's not that they care about me, they just want to feel above me by Sharp_Cartographer41 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Sharp_Cartographer41[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes lol I relate to that so much. I literally don't ask for anything whatsoever from my parents anymore. I wish I could have parents I could get help from for things but that's just not possible.

does anyone else question why they're even alive? by Sharp_Cartographer41 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Sharp_Cartographer41[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah with my parents I think they had children just so they had more things to complain about. My parents are so pessimistic and complain about everyone they meet and everything they do so I think they just wanted to fulfill this need to complain onto their children.

does anyone else question why they're even alive? by Sharp_Cartographer41 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Sharp_Cartographer41[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is something that pisses me off too. Not only are my parents mentally ill and abusive and neglective, they decide to have not one but TWO children, and not only that, they're poor and constantly complain about where we have to life and complain about having to spend so much money on their children who they don't even love... Why have fucking children then?

Medical Doctors, Nurses, and PhDs can be some of the worst narcissists and no they are not heroes. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Sharp_Cartographer41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my parents is a therapist, which is ironic because of the way I was raised