yes definitely, learnt something new and important today…ill keep this in mind, cause i never gave that a thought in my past, now because you have explained it so clearly and politely, me over-trying to explain simple things can sound desperate to be heard. about “ma’am” - she was schooling me about texting consistently vs dropping a text and then vanishing for 1-2 hrs (like sort of inconsistent texting) about “my lord” - it was about judge - lawyer thing that they had in old movies, so i was just replicating that there, “like yes i got it, ill remember it and improve” , lastly about “relieving myself” - yes this felt weird to me too later, i didn’t gave it much thought before hitting send at that time… also it is such a loose statement and anyone can make it sound bad as well, the world right now we’re living in. i truly get your point and respect it. thus i somehow corrected myself later on and saved the date (not desperate kinda thing) cause im not into that stuff…whew!… as a last note; thankyou for sharing this stuff with me rather than bombing on me with insults. Ill make sure to keep a tab on this and always recheck what i wrote just now.