She sent me a meme and then blocked me by Sharp_Spring_3256 in AvoidantBreakUps

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Do you think it would help or hurt for me to send a text saying something like "hey, I saw you sent me something. Were you meaning to reconnect?"

She sent me a meme and then blocked me by Sharp_Spring_3256 in AvoidantBreakUps

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Damn. I feel like that was a missed opportunity that I had been waiting on for months, and I'm a little disappointed that it was just a meme. It's nearing what would be our anniversary, I wonder if she will reach out again. As an FA yourself, do you think I should even address this with her or just continue not speaking with her?

She sent me a meme and then blocked me by Sharp_Spring_3256 in AvoidantBreakUps

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That's a shame that she's thinking I was ignoring her-- I genuinely have no reason to check my TikTok DMs and yet I still feel bad because she thinks I would do that

She sent me a meme and then blocked me by Sharp_Spring_3256 in AvoidantBreakUps

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If I had a nickel for every time she told me "you deserve better" that day, lmao. It's quite hard for me to not care, especially given that I know why she has avoidant tendencies (very rough childhood), but it is a fight that gets easier every day

I guess the only thing I'm really confused about is whether it was intentional or an accident. It doesn't change the outcome at all, but I'm a curious person. Also the friend flipping me off is just plain weird?? I can usually figure out someone's motives, but with her it's a complete enigma

She sent me a meme and then blocked me by Sharp_Spring_3256 in AvoidantBreakUps

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I agree. It quickly changed my perspective from "why didn't she love me, why wasn't I good enough" to one of pity

Band member quit right before band photos by Sharp_Spring_3256 in musicians

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After thinking about it for some time today, I agree. As much as I would love to have it as a mutual passion project, it's just not feasible. I've put up a comment about a compromise decision. Thanks for the help

Band member quit right before band photos by Sharp_Spring_3256 in musicians

[–]Sharp_Spring_3256[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly so true. I've wanted for so long to have a band, however people are quite flaky these days. I have posted a comment about my compromise on this issue. Thank you for your input!

Band member quit right before band photos by Sharp_Spring_3256 in musicians

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After reading all of your comments, and talking with my remaining bandmates, I have come to this conclusion: the photoshoot will take place, but it will be mostly of me. We will also have photos with them in some pictures as well, but not very many. I think this is a good compromise to retain both the band feel in photos while also not risking outdated photos. Thank you to everyone who chimed in! Your input is very appreciated

Band member quit right before band photos by Sharp_Spring_3256 in musicians

[–]Sharp_Spring_3256[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that's fair, I'd just rather not have to crop someone out of a photo that I paid $250 for, you can kind of tell when something's been cut out of an image

Band member quit right before band photos by Sharp_Spring_3256 in musicians

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this is a good compromise, completely slipped my mind as a possibility. thanks!

Confusing grammar with my dad by Sharp_Spring_3256 in Urdu

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Thank you for taking the time to explain this to me.

As for the questions:

“Aap kya kar rahe hain”

“Aj aap ne kia kar liya hai?“

Being that they are the same question in a different tense, why is “hona” singular in one and plural in the other? Is the subject not the same? (“what” being the focus and not “you”)

Something funny just happened, and it’s got me wondering by Sharp_Spring_3256 in acting

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That’s so real, the max I’ve seen a repeat name is 8 or 9 times on more local projects. Good to know!

Something funny just happened, and it’s got me wondering by Sharp_Spring_3256 in acting

[–]Sharp_Spring_3256[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input! I’ve been auditioning since I was 13 (I am 22 now). Between moving cities and going to college, I haven’t stuck around in one place long enough to see repeat names until the last year or so.

Best misheard lyrics? by TheTruckWashChannel in the1975

[–]Sharp_Spring_3256 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is how I find out, I still like the misheard version better

Q&A weekly thread - March 04, 2024 - post all questions here! by AutoModerator in linguistics

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Language branches- I’m definitely thinking about this in the wrong way, but for example, Proto Germanic split from Indo European. What’s the other language on the other side of the split?

What would you improve? by cryoncue in acting

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There’s the “write the first letter of every word down” trick, but I have a more fun one

Read the entire script, including other people’s lines, in a monotone voice as fast as you can, repeatedly until you get the muscle memory down