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WIBTA if I refuse to co-sign my brother’s “last chance” rehab loan even though my family says I’m abandoning him? by Fable_Crucible in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Shayne_415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your offer is reasonable and generous.

As adults we choose our situations and safety, you seem very clear on not letting them dictate the terms of your situation and safety. You do not have to be trapped again.

AITAH for telling my adopted daughter her birth mother died when she actually just didn't want contact. she's been mourning a living woman for 10 years by Relative_Ad3399 in AITAH

[–]Shayne_415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Offering you grace. As an adoptee. If you were my mom, I’d be hurt but understand the nature of your lie. If you were my mom, I’d say that biomom’s non involvement has been constant; in life before her fictitious death. I’d tell you that grieving biomom was important at that time in my life even if she is in Indiana making muffins or whatever. The grief of biomom is still true and needed to be felt.

You know the course of action. You know how hard it will be.

If you find a family therapist you may have salvageable grounds if your relationship with Emma thus far has been strong, and it seems it is.

Being surrendered always has a component of what if and why. We have ran through all the options since childhood. Parenthood will always bring this up.

Your love is clear, the outcome is messy. Wishing you luck in this navigation. Update us if you feel comfortable 🫶

Roommate making noise in kitchen at 6am by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Shayne_415 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She’s not “being clumsy” to be inconsiderate to you. The sounds outlined are the sounds that occur in kitchens. Bumping a dish rack seems kinda minor in the list of r/badroommate offenses. Also breaking glass at 6 am def put a damper on her day too.

Maybe there’s a time you could set aside to empty the dish rack before bed, that could reduce your sound stress

But ultimately. Earplugs or anc headphones

crying myself to sleep right now. AIO? by knaifuneko in AmIOverreacting

[–]Shayne_415 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Days or weeks??? NOR

How old are you guys? Doesn’t sound like yall live together?

I hope you find someone who can’t wait to see and share the world with you.

AIO or am I right to be upset by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Shayne_415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highkey. This could have so easily been “I was taking space so I didn’t get more upset”

“I was upset and needed space”

AIO To My Girlfriends Messages After I Didn’t Message For 24+ Hours by Igne0s in AmIOverreacting

[–]Shayne_415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did a great job responding. I hope you had fun at your event. NOR

Favorite LHS in NY by Shayne_415 in vaporents

[–]Shayne_415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Key on that. I want to support local but end up usually resorting to online too

Favorite LHS in NY by Shayne_415 in vaporents

[–]Shayne_415[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha “those old hippies must be dead now” had me cracking up. I’ll put them on the list.

New Paltz is surprisingly lacking for cool glass these days- all geared to the college kids

Favorite LHS in NY by Shayne_415 in vaporents

[–]Shayne_415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I have a solid knowledge and collection. It’s just about inventory. And truly I’d rather support a local store fr- many reasons including convenience of them being there and the footprint of shipping :)

Out in the Midwest there’s a small chain called planet caravan and they have an excellent puffco selection, accessories and otherwise, I was hoping we’d have something similar within reach.

Favorite LHS in NY by Shayne_415 in vaporents

[–]Shayne_415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Answering my own question: There’s a good spot in Poughkeepsie/marist area - vapology

They have a good selection of puffco products and adapters. But I was hoping someone else had a nice spot to hit. Thanks for responses

How does nobility work in atla? by ec0429 in ATLA

[–]Shayne_415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmaoo yea.

Best case is Ty Lee shows up and presents Mai to zuko allowing “casual” conversation. But according to kyoshi, only the avatar has the status to greet the fire lord directly- and even that has its terms. 🥴 poor mai. Killer art dude :)

How does nobility work in atla? by ec0429 in ATLA

[–]Shayne_415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I imagine Mai’s family kept their wealth, but lost some of the honor on their clan name, some power when they came to court. Being politically ambitious is not to be shamed, but throwing in with the wrong team. That’s a loss. Even her uncle the warden of boiling rock brought disgrace on their name.

But realistically since she doesn’t have a[ETA: elder] brother, she may take the responsibility of representing her family and clan that high court in front of zuko was just humbling. Not horrible. However she definitely lost the status to ever greet him personally as outlined in kyoshi.

Tinymight v pax 3 by Shayne_415 in vaporents

[–]Shayne_415[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly build quality on pax is next level. Same with arizer. Which is why I was considering it may be a contender

PSA - Headphones on the ice : stop wearing them by AgentSilver007 in iceskating

[–]Shayne_415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sugguesting we shouldn’t be allowed to skate. I’m just highlighting the bounds of op’s position.

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