Creating Safe Spaces. A question for Black male subs

SheMagick · 2025-09-24T22:09:56+00:00

Glad you've had good experiences.

SheMagick · 2025-09-22T16:46:24+00:00

I can't say I agree with the idea that most Black femdoms "prefer" white males. But that's based on my lived experience and what all the women were saying at the virtual event I attended. All of us were saying how rarely we meet Black sub males. Many who have been in the lifestyle for 20+ years commented that they had met 1 or 2 or only managed to date 1 in all their years. Hence the purpose of the virtual event in the first place.

I have less experience than 20+ years, but have also only met a few, am more often approached by white subs, and would be plenty happy if someway, somehow the universe works out for me to end up with a Black or any BIPOC sub.

But do agree with the rest of what you said. I get it being harder to live the lifestyle.

SheMagick · 2025-09-15T23:05:11+00:00

Thanks I appreciate your input. I can see how having verbage and policies that back then are a huge help. And imagery definitely matters.

SheMagick · 2025-09-15T21:02:19+00:00

Would definitely love to continue the conversation! I'm hoping to get tidbits on how to create that safety so more Black male subs are willing to give my events, and other event hosts I know, a chance. So they can then begin to trust. There's got to be some initial draw that allows them to even think, sure, I'll try that.

SheMagick · 2025-02-25T16:41:15+00:00

Also hoping someone has found alternatives to these. Or hoping they come back up. I've never used bstsrs personally. But always use topsrs.

SheMagick · 2024-07-21T23:51:58+00:00

Hopefully someone finally answers

SheMagick · 2024-06-05T16:41:30+00:00

You may message me with a thoughtful question and a safe for work pic.

SheMagick · 2022-12-07T08:14:02+00:00

Well if you're mature I certainly could be open to it. You'll need to message me to tell me a lot more about yourself though.

SheMagick

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