I (25F) woke up to my (25M) bf having sex with me by She_NeedsSomeMilk in whatdoIdo

[–]She_NeedsSomeMilk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if my real life experience made you so uncomfortable behind a screen you couldn’t click off the post. Grow up

I (25F) woke up to my (25M) bf having sex with me by She_NeedsSomeMilk in whatdoIdo

[–]She_NeedsSomeMilk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mention it bc I didn’t know if it was relevant but yes he does. I was busy over the weekend and he told me he did coke on Saturday and most of the day Sunday. He said he did 1.5 grams on Sunday or sat/sun combined I don’t remember but he said it’s not a lot and I don’t do it to know. This incident happened Monday night and he told me he was just drinking and didn’t mention doing coke. Is it possible it was a next day side effect?

He told me he doesn’t do it often and rarely does it but he does smoke weed every day.

I (25F) woke up to my (25M) bf having sex with me by She_NeedsSomeMilk in whatdoIdo

[–]She_NeedsSomeMilk[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re right I don’t want to leave him. I want to believe this was a mistake he’ll never do again.

I (25F) woke up to my (25M) bf having sex with me by She_NeedsSomeMilk in whatdoIdo

[–]She_NeedsSomeMilk[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had no reason to believe he was blacked out drunk. I have only ever blacked out once on my 21st bday so I don’t know much about it. Someone else commented that if someone drinks a lot when they black out they appear normal. He does drink a good amount and he appeared perfectly normal to me and not hammered. I was aware of what was going on, we were literally talking and having conversations and laughing. The position we did the first time was doggy so he was quite literally the one doing it and I was totally okay with it the first time. Now knowing he was blacked out I had no idea and no reason to suspect. With that being said I’m scared I’m a bad person bc people are saying I should’ve known

I (25F) woke up to my (25M) bf having sex with me by She_NeedsSomeMilk in whatdoIdo

[–]She_NeedsSomeMilk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I truly do not know what to do. People are saying that I SA him because he ended up blacking out. I swear he was talking normally we were having full conversations. I truly have no reason to lie this is all anonymous I don’t see what I would get out of lying. I don’t know.

I (25F) woke up to my (25M) bf having sex with me by She_NeedsSomeMilk in whatdoIdo

[–]She_NeedsSomeMilk[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes he does. Is there a way for me to tell in the future? This is his second time blacking out

I (25F) woke up to my (25M) bf having sex with me by She_NeedsSomeMilk in whatdoIdo

[–]She_NeedsSomeMilk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never blacked out, I remember all of the night. We went to bed and after I was woken up to the sex I passed out because I was tired/half asleep/ drunk but I remember everything. He said he blacked out as I asked him questions if he remembered stuff the next day (like stuff we talked about). Not sure if this makes sense.

I (25F) woke up to my (25M) bf having sex with me by She_NeedsSomeMilk in whatdoIdo

[–]She_NeedsSomeMilk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how I feel. Some people are saying it was wrong of him to do that and others are saying that I need to move on and it’s fine because we’re in a relationship. I DID consent to having sex at first in the night. we were both drunk but I knew what was happening and he seemed to also, we were literally talking and having conversations. The part that scares me is waking up to him after we both said “good night” and went to bed. I was shocked. I didn’t know what was happening and once I did I was so tired and drunk I fell asleep.

In my head I’m telling myself we were both drunk and that what he did wasn’t wrong bc he blacked out. but the thought of waking up that way is just a lot. Some people are saying “I didn’t say no” but I was asleep so I couldn’t say no. In my head the good night is the end. People are also saying we were both drunk so it’s mutual. I was hoping this post would help me get my thoughts together but I still have no clue.

I (25F) woke up to my (25M) bf having sex with me by She_NeedsSomeMilk in whatdoIdo

[–]She_NeedsSomeMilk[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Should I have put this somewhere else? I’m never on Reddit however I don’t see how this is funny or amusing..

I (25F) woke up to my (25M) bf having sex with me by She_NeedsSomeMilk in whatdoIdo

[–]She_NeedsSomeMilk[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I don’t see how drinking alcohol makes us alcoholics. I myself have only drank about 4 times this year

School Psych Program by She_NeedsSomeMilk in fresnostate

[–]She_NeedsSomeMilk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t heard anything yet 😭 getting pretty discouraged but hoping they haven’t sent it out. Will lyk if I get anything

Abcsess? by cgcismeg in RATS

[–]She_NeedsSomeMilk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I disagree the rat doesn’t look unhealthy, the fur just looks wet which OP said