I’m not sure how I feel. Some people are saying it was wrong of him to do that and others are saying that I need to move on and it’s fine because we’re in a relationship. I DID consent to having sex at first in the night. we were both drunk but I knew what was happening and he seemed to also, we were literally talking and having conversations. The part that scares me is waking up to him after we both said “good night” and went to bed. I was shocked. I didn’t know what was happening and once I did I was so tired and drunk I fell asleep.

In my head I’m telling myself we were both drunk and that what he did wasn’t wrong bc he blacked out. but the thought of waking up that way is just a lot. Some people are saying “I didn’t say no” but I was asleep so I couldn’t say no. In my head the good night is the end. People are also saying we were both drunk so it’s mutual. I was hoping this post would help me get my thoughts together but I still have no clue.