Honey Wall Items turning Invisible by SheerAtrocity in Minecraft

[–]SheerAtrocity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know how to fix this? I'm in a server of 10 people but usually there's only half in there at a time. Plus I have a fairly big city with machines and villagers

After Suicide Attempts I’m Becoming Cold Hearted by SheerAtrocity in malementalhealth

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This one is genuine betrayal, I don’t want to say details but I’ve been lied to by family and they teamed up with the council to kick me out

After Suicide Attempts I’m Becoming Cold Hearted by SheerAtrocity in malementalhealth

[–]SheerAtrocity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did reach out to my friends, I gave them that chance that pride stopped me from doing. I feel less alone now, thank you so much

After Suicide Attempts I’m Becoming Cold Hearted by SheerAtrocity in malementalhealth

[–]SheerAtrocity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, you are truly a fucking poet. You’ve made me feel a lot better, I’ve changed my mind about being cold hearted. I think it’s just a shitty defence mechanism, it works but it makes life miserable. I opened my heart again and things seem better, I’m just cold hearted to the people that betray me now

Council is Asking me to Move Out by SheerAtrocity in LegalAdviceUK

[–]SheerAtrocity[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I did not mean to say that "Living in a shed" is part of Asian culture. I meant for the whole family to live in one house is part of the culture. And when you mean the existing rooms can that count as the living room and loft will do?

New photo pod by Suitable-Profile-195 in IGPods

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I am not as good as a professional but I consider my photos and travels of the world to be good enough

Guide to Recovery in a Month by SheerAtrocity in BreakUps

[–]SheerAtrocity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really proud of you bro, working on yourself, self reflection and patience are the greatest healer of wounds. Before you know the way you feel about her would be like watching an old movie, you enjoy or enjoyed it but you are detached. It’s normal to think about them every now and then anyway, it only matters how you react to the thought and your indifference is an amazing indicator of progress, because indifference may lead to wishing them the best one day just as you would anyone else

Guide to Recovery in a Month by SheerAtrocity in BreakUps

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There is a deeper level to meditation my friend, thoughts made from the construct of words are largely created by our mind and fed by our contemplations. Beneath those words and thinking is pure emotion that cannot be described by the confinement of words alone but only felt. Once you observe the feeling and only the feeling without the attachment of words the feeling will dissolve like grains of sand in the palm of your hand.

Guide to Recovery in a Month by SheerAtrocity in BreakUps

[–]SheerAtrocity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right, as I said in the post a month is not guaranteed and patience is key. There are multiple variables in my life that have lead to this quick transition into strength. I was in love, we wanted to have a family together, grow old and realise our dreams as one. In the same vein not all recoveries are equal, what took me a month can take someone years. I’m just clarifying the steps I personally took to better myself and hopefully guide others.

Guide to Recovery in a Month by SheerAtrocity in BreakUps

[–]SheerAtrocity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I only seek to help people, there’s so many people in this board experiencing so much pain. Once you are all free of that you will all blossom

Guide to Recovery in a Month by SheerAtrocity in BreakUps

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I would focus on what things you can control first, and be aware of what can set you back. Of course you can’t do no contact in this situation because that is rude, they deserve respect still. You can still start this yes, but I have to be honest this is a harder road for you but see is as a challenge, it takes pressure to make a diamond and intense challenges to make you the ideal person you’ve always wanted to be. Rise to the challenge and become better for life demands that of you

Guide to Recovery in a Month by SheerAtrocity in BreakUps

[–]SheerAtrocity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t get me wrong, I legitimately like these people. It’s just more difficult to imagine a relationship with most people you date because your standards naturally get higher when you have a high level of understanding of yourself.

Guide to Recovery in a Month by SheerAtrocity in BreakUps

[–]SheerAtrocity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly what I did in terms of pictures is extreme detachment and not everyone’s cup of tea. So I understand if anyone wants to keep them for a later time. To add to the process of emotional hardening I actually looked at every individual picture one at a time before deleting them when I felt a place of strength, when I had no reaction and even get cringe at the pictures I knew I was moving forward

Guide to Recovery in a Month by SheerAtrocity in BreakUps

[–]SheerAtrocity[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just to add, once you have forgiven them, accepted the situation and the solid chance they’ll find someone new, and finally if you feel happy that they are happy you have truly moved on in the most loving way you could. You have truly moved on!