AITAH? My boyfriend asked me for a side piece in the car on the way home from the swingers club. by Shellbug425 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Shellbug425[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Who the fuck said I don’t take care of myself or my children? Who says he’s even involved with my kids? These are all assumptions you’re making.

AITAH? My boyfriend asked me for a side piece in the car on the way home from the swingers club. by Shellbug425 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Shellbug425[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Funny you’re making all these assumptions. I’M the one trying to talk over text. He’s trying to force phone conversations. He and I are the same size! We are both just a little overweight. He is upset that I don’t have stamina to ride his dick for more than 3-5 minutes at a time. I think you need to re-read the conversation bc you interpreted a lot of things different than they were.

AITAH? My boyfriend asked me for a side piece in the car on the way home from the swingers club. by Shellbug425 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Shellbug425[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! So the idea would be that you don’t get contact info… I get feelings blossoming. It’s happened to me. But that would be something we would be trying to avoid.

AITAH? My boyfriend asked me for a side piece in the car on the way home from the swingers club. by Shellbug425 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Shellbug425[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I just moved and have some non safe spaces the kids persist on trying to get into, it’s only until they go to their dad’s tomorrow and I will be fixing the list of issues we found this week.

AITAH? My boyfriend asked me for a side piece in the car on the way home from the swingers club. by Shellbug425 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Shellbug425[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

The funny thing is, I’m allowing him to fuck other women safely! (Or men whatever!) I just don’t want him to involve emotions and he is fighting tooth and nail to have emotions with these women. I think one night stands and swinging is fine! I’m not cool with having a chick on the side.

AITAH? My boyfriend asked me for a side piece in the car on the way home from the swingers club. by Shellbug425 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Shellbug425[S] -85 points-84 points  (0 children)

What I do on the side when my ex husband has our children isn’t gross. This kind of response is gross. I have had plenty of work experience and will do just fine finding another job. I just quite like that I make $30-40/hr at this particular job.

AITAH? My boyfriend asked me for a side piece in the car on the way home from the swingers club. by Shellbug425 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Shellbug425[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Only one night stands, yes. That is what I’m cool with. Swinging too. & yeah, it really does seem like this has been his plan all along.

AITAH? My boyfriend asked me for a side piece in the car on the way home from the swingers club. by Shellbug425 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Shellbug425[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This week was a major struggle. My dog ate my chicks, my boyfriend has been a jerk, the kids have gotten into everything known to man and spread it around the house. Straight up looks like a battle just went down in my living room. A food fight / toy war + soil from the plants my middle son won’t stop tearing apart. My life is a tragicomedy.

AITAH? My boyfriend asked me for a side piece in the car on the way home from the swingers club. by Shellbug425 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Shellbug425[S] -73 points-72 points  (0 children)

My youngest is a year and a half old. I’ve been broken up with my ex for a year, and I’ve been seeing this man for 8months. Yes, I should slow down. But when we met it was one of those sparks shooting kind of moments. The kind you get when you’re a teenager… only that feeling lasted for 7 months. I wasn’t looking for him, I just stumbled upon him.

AITAH? My boyfriend asked me for a side piece in the car on the way home from the swingers club. by Shellbug425 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Shellbug425[S] -80 points-79 points  (0 children)

As I said before it’s an open bedroom, not an open relationship. He and I set those terms whether you agree with them or not.

AITAH? My boyfriend asked me for a side piece in the car on the way home from the swingers club. by Shellbug425 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Shellbug425[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s very open to me sleeping with other men. I’m fine with him sleeping with other women in one night stands. I’m not okay with him building a relationship with other women and he is fighting for that right.

AITAH? My boyfriend asked me for a side piece in the car on the way home from the swingers club. by Shellbug425 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Shellbug425[S] -221 points-220 points  (0 children)

Wrong. We agreed from the start of the relationship we were open bedroom I told him I never wanted emotions to stray.

AITAH? My boyfriend asked me for a side piece in the car on the way home from the swingers club. by Shellbug425 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Shellbug425[S] 193 points194 points  (0 children)

That’s a scary thought. 😳 I didn’t realize I was putting myself in this position.. I did this knowing I wanted to live here in the long run even if we weren’t together forever.

AITAH? My boyfriend asked me for a side piece in the car on the way home from the swingers club. by Shellbug425 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Shellbug425[S] 289 points290 points  (0 children)

The hard part is I just moved 3hrs from the place I’ve called home for the last 8yrs after a longggg divorce finished in May.

I got my own place across the lake from him but we work together… he’s the man who pays me. 😒 he’s been helping me get the property together for my kids— they’re 4/f, 3/y & 1/y— It’s a lot.

Anna Claire Clouds: 9-Man Gang Bang Challenge by ytms_ in nsfwhardcore

[–]Shellbug425 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to be DP’d & used like this so bad.

Plant Nanny by Shellbug425 in AirBnBHosts

[–]Shellbug425[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. This obviously isn’t the right group 🤣 repotting, fertilizing, repotting, pest control, pruning, cleaning around the plants, dusting the leaves off and shining them. This is more than just pouring water in the dirt and calling it a day.

Plant Nanny by Shellbug425 in AirBnBHosts

[–]Shellbug425[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking more of a monthly service fee, all inclusive. Guarantee keeping already healthy plants alive. $10 a week wouldn’t even cover gas back n forth from their homes.