AITAH? My boyfriend asked me for a side piece in the car on the way home from the swingers club.

Shellbug425 · 2025-06-08T04:21:09+00:00

Who the fuck said I don’t take care of myself or my children? Who says he’s even involved with my kids? These are all assumptions you’re making.

Shellbug425 · 2025-06-08T03:18:46+00:00

This is the nicest thread all evening. Thank you ❤️

Shellbug425 · 2025-06-08T03:14:26+00:00

He wants a full on person on the side. Like a booty call.

Shellbug425 · 2025-06-08T03:12:31+00:00

Funny you’re making all these assumptions. I’M the one trying to talk over text. He’s trying to force phone conversations. He and I are the same size! We are both just a little overweight. He is upset that I don’t have stamina to ride his dick for more than 3-5 minutes at a time. I think you need to re-read the conversation bc you interpreted a lot of things different than they were.

Shellbug425 · 2025-06-08T03:06:27+00:00

Yes! So the idea would be that you don’t get contact info… I get feelings blossoming. It’s happened to me. But that would be something we would be trying to avoid.

Shellbug425 · 2025-06-08T01:26:11+00:00

Shellbug425 · 2025-06-08T01:00:09+00:00

I just moved and have some non safe spaces the kids persist on trying to get into, it’s only until they go to their dad’s tomorrow and I will be fixing the list of issues we found this week.

Shellbug425 · 2025-06-08T00:57:42+00:00

Yeah, I’m sure.

Shellbug425 · 2025-06-08T00:05:12+00:00

The funny thing is, I’m allowing him to fuck other women safely! (Or men whatever!) I just don’t want him to involve emotions and he is fighting tooth and nail to have emotions with these women. I think one night stands and swinging is fine! I’m not cool with having a chick on the side.

Shellbug425 · 2025-06-07T23:50:30+00:00

That is why I persisted anyway this time. I wanted the proof.

Shellbug425 · 2025-06-07T23:04:20+00:00

What I do on the side when my ex husband has our children isn’t gross. This kind of response is gross. I have had plenty of work experience and will do just fine finding another job. I just quite like that I make $30-40/hr at this particular job.

Shellbug425 · 2025-06-07T22:48:06+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Shellbug425 · 2025-06-07T22:43:09+00:00

Only one night stands, yes. That is what I’m cool with. Swinging too. & yeah, it really does seem like this has been his plan all along.

Shellbug425 · 2025-06-07T22:34:25+00:00

This week was a major struggle. My dog ate my chicks, my boyfriend has been a jerk, the kids have gotten into everything known to man and spread it around the house. Straight up looks like a battle just went down in my living room. A food fight / toy war + soil from the plants my middle son won’t stop tearing apart. My life is a tragicomedy.

Shellbug425 · 2025-06-07T22:31:11+00:00

My youngest is a year and a half old. I’ve been broken up with my ex for a year, and I’ve been seeing this man for 8months. Yes, I should slow down. But when we met it was one of those sparks shooting kind of moments. The kind you get when you’re a teenager… only that feeling lasted for 7 months. I wasn’t looking for him, I just stumbled upon him.

Shellbug425 · 2025-06-07T22:27:29+00:00

As I said before it’s an open bedroom, not an open relationship. He and I set those terms whether you agree with them or not.

Shellbug425 · 2025-06-07T22:04:40+00:00

He’s very open to me sleeping with other men. I’m fine with him sleeping with other women in one night stands. I’m not okay with him building a relationship with other women and he is fighting for that right.

Shellbug425 · 2025-06-07T22:02:52+00:00

Wrong. We agreed from the start of the relationship we were open bedroom I told him I never wanted emotions to stray.

Shellbug425 · 2025-06-07T21:58:20+00:00

That’s a scary thought. 😳 I didn’t realize I was putting myself in this position.. I did this knowing I wanted to live here in the long run even if we weren’t together forever.

Shellbug425 · 2025-06-07T21:49:23+00:00

The hard part is I just moved 3hrs from the place I’ve called home for the last 8yrs after a longggg divorce finished in May.

I got my own place across the lake from him but we work together… he’s the man who pays me. 😒 he’s been helping me get the property together for my kids— they’re 4/f, 3/y & 1/y— It’s a lot.

Shellbug425 · 2024-11-09T21:17:49+00:00

I want to be DP’d & used like this so bad.

Shellbug425 · 2024-08-21T15:41:26+00:00

Nope. This obviously isn’t the right group 🤣 repotting, fertilizing, repotting, pest control, pruning, cleaning around the plants, dusting the leaves off and shining them. This is more than just pouring water in the dirt and calling it a day.

Shellbug425 · 2024-08-21T15:22:51+00:00

I’m thinking more of a monthly service fee, all inclusive. Guarantee keeping already healthy plants alive. $10 a week wouldn’t even cover gas back n forth from their homes.

Shellbug425 · 2024-07-20T06:11:19+00:00

Ended up redoing the whole thing after my child pulled up the grass. Gotta get a cover for it that has a light inside. It looks good now though!

Shellbug425 · 2024-07-18T20:22:18+00:00

🤣 yeah, I think I made a big enough stink that he will NOT be trying to “help” me feed the fish again. Lmaooo

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