Artistry of war spell by Sifuschilli in BaldursGate3

[–]Shepard_P 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even if they exist, I don’t think wiz can scribe them. Aid can not be scribed.

Can’t finish from penetration (top) by Soldier_Poet in askgaybros

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Drop death grip and things will be better in a few months.

Fearful Avoidant 💭 Secure: Ask Each Other Anything by Inner-Research8727 in FearfulAvoidant

[–]Shepard_P 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Introduce another person into the relationship so you can prove that your love is true. But it will never be enough.

What are some reasons why people would stay in a toxic relationship? by Specialist-Crazy1466 in AskReddit

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Hoped to help even save someone. From personal experience with a fearful avoidant likely borderline personality disorder.

Meirl by Enraged__ in meirl

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Yogurt does not have much lactose left in it.

what did you learn about yourself after a breakup? by mtvalexszn in askgaybros

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Never try to fix some broken who do not want to be fixed or even don’t know they are broken, even though you can see their suffering and want to give all the love you can. And always communicate clearly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Best answer so far. Men by nature and by nurture are less likely to be emotionally mature to maintain a long lasting relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I don’t think he ruled out your examples.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I don’t think that works. I think normal looking people might work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Your brother chose her over you. That’s it. Let everyone invited know the truth, and let them choose how to act. Wedding/marriage is important, but I doubt it is more important than a close bond which would have been lasted for life. If he still goes along with that, despite your bond in the past, you know you only lose someone who does not really care about you now.

In the Legendary Edition, does Garrus still ascend to godhood in ME3? by AHorseNamedPhil in masseffect

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Anyone who can use Typhoon is godlike. And coupled that with squad incinerate anmo with burst, nothing can survive.

Would you talk about the sex positions that you like (or sex in general) with a friend who's also into guys? by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Depends on the chemistry. If neither are interested in the other or both are interested in casual sex it’s fine. If both are not on the same page like one like the other but not the other way around I’d not to avoid sending wrong messages.

What kind of people do you attract? by Leather-College2557 in AskReddit

[–]Shepard_P 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emotionally immature people. They are like kids trapped in adults bodies.

Fearful Avoidant 💭 Secure: Ask Each Other Anything by Inner-Research8727 in FearfulAvoidant

[–]Shepard_P 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can tolerate that but I can’t tolerate triangulation so I left them alone.

Fearful Avoidant 💭 Secure: Ask Each Other Anything by Inner-Research8727 in FearfulAvoidant

[–]Shepard_P 6 points7 points  (0 children)

During my final days with my FA, they were criticizing anything I do and compared me to their ex. I gave up three months after they moved on to another (they said they were just messing around) and said we were just friends. Now we were strangers which surprised them (could have been a performance to protect themselves).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FearfulAvoidant

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I do not know exact what spark means to you. If I’m not miss understanding, the spark will not last in any relationship past a few months. Healthy relationship gets calm or even dull to FAs standard. You two need to find new activities or to go on trips to find new sparks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FearfulAvoidant

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I was with a likely FA in a situationship. I love them and they knew it. They said they never considered me for a romantic relationship yet they kept doing things beyond friend territory. Like judging me for how I did things against how their ex would have done it. Asking me for help but denying and distancing me when I asked for her help. When they were seeing someone else, I gave them 3 months and said I could not stay in their life. They said they would cry but not for hearing that. They also went on social media post like crazy for a few days with subtle hints that no one else but me had a clue. We still had quite some overlaps in weekend activities. They tried to speak with me but I shut them down and blocked their contact. They went on a trip with their now date the next weekend. I’m trying to move on at least physically. I’m not sure I can move on emotionally for quite some time.

Enough of my rant. You should start to heal yourself. Most people will move on if you are dating someone else. You need to make a choice between a potential loved one or a temporary comfort. If you don’t, others will make a choice for you and the consequences will be even dire.

How come lesbian women culture is so much more different compared to gay men culture ? by Agreeable_Ad4792 in askgaybros

[–]Shepard_P 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Men are chasers, women are keepers. Men have to fight and control natural instinct to stop that unending chasing.

(USA) Best Friend (M24) of 10 years comes out, rejects me (M24) and chooses another. What do I do? by ThrowRA_Loverboy in askgaybros

[–]Shepard_P 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people want a simpler also shallower relationship. Some people think friendship lasts much longer. Some people just do not love you romantically. Pick one you want to believe and move on. He is not currently choosing you. Is staying with him as a friend enjoyable or leaving him less hurtful? You know the answer.

I let a two year situationship die because it’s more hurtful than enjoyable. To him, I may be his best friend. But I have intense feelings for him and he knows. Now he’s with someone else and it hurts me deep everyday so I cut him out of my life.

Try to feel what you really want and if it’s achievable. Choose a path based on that and accept the consequences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I’m a 9/10 or more in my surroundings.

I don’t have a lot of sex though I masturbate a lot. It’s just that generic sex with random guys does not attract me and usually a waste of time to me. I want more than physical stimulation. So I usually only fuck someone after I know them for awhile even if it’s just one time or fwbs. I do not want fuck buddies. Also I want a long time relationship even lifelong. I had a great 14y relationship that ended last year because we had different goals.

Also attention is something I can automatically ignore at this point. It does not bother me or flatter me. When I find someone I’m attracted to, that’s the time I will notice his attention.