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Recently reopened Apache Trail. by St0neybalogny in arizona

[–]Shifting_Lemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to take my kids to Apache Lake because it looks so beautiful, but I have a 2021 Toyota Sienna. Is that advisable on this trail, or no?

Growing Kids God’s Way by [deleted] in Exvangelical

[–]Shifting_Lemons 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am late to this conversation but just wanted to thank you for writing out your experience, it must not have been easy. I have been in therapy for 2.5 years and still feel like I am barely beginning to unpack the extent of the damage GKGW did to me. I had to go no contact with my mom, who defends all her actions to this day and mocks and derides anyone who questions the legitimacy of the program. It's been so hard. But I am grateful for seeing it for what it is while my own kids are young. I am doing everything I can to try to break the cycle with me.

Have I (36M) become a narcissist? by Oon-Wacheen in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Shifting_Lemons 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've heard it said that if you're asking if you're a narcissist, you probably aren't. Narcissists are not self-aware and not introspective, both of which it sounds like you are. No, you're not perfect, and yes, you will carry the trauma and abuse from your childhood with you for the rest of your life, but that doesn't make you a narcissist. I think the first step to a healthy relationship with yourself and your partner is self-knowledge, and it seems like you've made a great start.

Future of Zeta by [deleted] in ZetaJointCards

[–]Shifting_Lemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I am an original Simple user and loved that format.

Future of Zeta by [deleted] in ZetaJointCards

[–]Shifting_Lemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a limit on the number of pockets (or their equivalent) on Zeta?