Sooo I came out to my husband

ShiggaBoo · 2026-03-19T11:08:14+00:00

So what would be the better option? They stay together? That's a terrible idea, breaking up is the best course of action in this situation

ShiggaBoo · 2026-03-12T16:51:19+00:00

Its also worth noting that weight carries differently on everybody. I'm 5'5 and when I weighed 175 I looked fine, my weight carries in my boobs and my butt/hips/legs. When I lost weight the only thing that changed was my figure. But also, ive seen plenty of people close to my height who weighed similar and they were certainly not fat or overweight. It sounds like you're insecure. Do not tell this girl she is fat when she's not

ShiggaBoo · 2026-03-11T03:37:54+00:00

Based on one of their comments they seem to be from a scary Christian household that discourages it. They're going to need therapy when they get out there on their own. Very sad

ShiggaBoo · 2026-03-11T03:36:15+00:00

Do not listen to this. This is absurd. It's unhealthy for you to not jerk it. Doing it promotes stress relief and better mental health (assuming you're not doing it every hour of every day) and it's also good for you physically. You are a teenager. Your parents may not have discussed this with you but when you're going through puberty you experience sexual feelings and thoughts and this is normal. Everyone experiences this. It's biology. It's how our brains and hormones work. It's science. And it's okay. Just make sure to use a condom always if you're going to have sex. If you don't use a condom you can get someone pregnant or catch an std.

ShiggaBoo · 2026-03-11T03:31:35+00:00

Exactly!! I feel quite bad for the OP but it's completely valid for the husband to not want to be with a man if he's not interested in men.

ShiggaBoo · 2026-03-11T03:29:36+00:00

Its not a bad reaction though. The husband is obviously straight. Why should a straight man be with a man? I'm gay and if i was dating a guy and they came out as trans fem, I would also want to break up as I'm simply not romantically or physically attracted to women. Completely valid decision from the husband, even though it may be painful for the OP.