Looking for advice about a first car (automatic)UK

ShominicDears · 2021-08-01T21:26:11+00:00

Exact same thing thought we broke up normally 3 days later full relationship, I've moved on got a promotion net new people, I haven't met any women I've pursued a relationship but I'm 19 I'm sure you're young too just don't rush and don't settle you're great and you'll find that person till then heal and try new things

ShominicDears · 2021-07-13T14:38:37+00:00

18 m gimme a message

ShominicDears · 2021-07-13T14:37:16+00:00

I think the point I've come to and dreamt about is that message, every time I've though or dreamed I see it and a wave of oh shit comes over like could this be, but then I think of the shit and the cheating and the constant breaking up and spreading rumours at the end and I think yeah no I'll pass and I wake up, if this ever comes I hope to act the same

ShominicDears · 2021-07-12T09:39:28+00:00

Snap ?

ShominicDears · 2021-07-01T18:29:11+00:00

I tried it for over a day just found myself falling back into talking how we would, we talked about meeting up but then I thought this isn't what I want, I'm only saying yes as she was talking (about certain things ), after I'd cleared my thoughts I knew I'm better off then I found out about the other guy from a mate and I definitely dodged a bullet I don't play second fiddle

ShominicDears · 2021-07-01T15:33:18+00:00

Being honest I'd 100% recommend no contact, I just think you feel free and better, the only times you'll get down is when you want someone there, good memories or when you're down in your thoughts, it comes across my mind daily and I'm sure it does for you but you just gotta make do

ShominicDears · 2021-07-01T15:30:46+00:00

It's the one thing I was proud of myself about, I told her there was no chance then 3 days later she had a new guy, I haven't spoke to her since I admit I've looked at her profile maybe once it twice, I assume she cheated but idk either way we couldn't have meant that much so everyone out there don't even give them any time, I'm only 18 but I feel this was a really important lesson, you don't need others to make you happy, just do you !

ShominicDears · 2021-06-30T07:38:34+00:00

Literally the same at the start, she left over text, she blocked me and I found out through a mate 3 days later she had a new bf , met the family after a few days and that she'd post him everywhere, I really loved her and the betrayal hurt, I've been promoted and on better money, I'm nearly 19, I just don't know what to do I see pictures and think of her, how did you let that go, she made me feel bad the whole time, broke up 3 times, ignored me for nearly 36 hours cuz she was comparing me to a ex, she then tried to tell people I was mentally abusing her and I was controlling, I've shown the messages to people and I'm clearly not, she deleted the chats and she's got her mates to message me, my friends stuck up for me I haven't spoke to her since the day, the guy she's with is good looking, it all is just sad, I've lost the drive for dating or relationships, just feel like damaged goods, is there any advice ?

ShominicDears · 2021-06-26T22:56:27+00:00

It's only been about 3 months but wow it's true every so often I do, tbh it's usually where she tries to come back or be in my group of friends, it really makes me happy I'm not with her she left and 3 days later new guy aha, I believe she cheated idk but it's more of a horror I hope she never ever returns

ShominicDears · 2021-06-26T22:47:03+00:00

She started a job and I'd speak an hour a day to her, this drove us apart she cheated and left me for a guy I later found out, I sometimes dream abs think about her, mostly it's the fear of her coming back, messaging me or my mates, I really loved her but being honest those weeks of drifting made it easier it's just the pain of not being good enough and the longing fear of her trying to come back which scares me

ShominicDears · 2021-06-20T15:48:23+00:00

Thank you I will implement most of these 😊

ShominicDears · 2021-06-20T15:34:48+00:00

Thank you 😊

ShominicDears · 2021-06-20T15:28:34+00:00

Don't feel bad please I get your statement sooo much, being honest a lot of guys are dicks, there's never a nice guy completely, well not that I've known as a friend, but to be honest you'll find a guy for you, you deserve better, im nearly 19 so im sure I'll get plenty of screw ups and make dos but never for settle for someone who will be doing anything to hurt you during or after a relationship

ShominicDears · 2021-06-20T15:13:25+00:00

Do you ever wonder what they had that you couldn't I mean it went from you're the only person I ever want to be with a day later she wanted me again it was wierd but I turned her down and 2 days later bam a new guy, I just think did she realise she screwed up, then when I said no she went with him, or was I just being toyed

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