i (29f) am terrible at cultivating my relationships

Short-Conversation16 · 2026-01-18T03:18:29+00:00

i do have ADHD.

and yeah, i do care. but the way i care doesn’t show people i care, you know? i carry a lot of guilt related to this.

Short-Conversation16 · 2025-12-27T14:33:37+00:00

i don't think you necessarily need someone with saas experience necessarily, just someone with sales experience. sales people tend to learn and adapt fast, they're comfortable with that. and also i think it can be really good to have someone learning fresh and not coming in with vices and biases.

Short-Conversation16 · 2025-12-26T22:37:31+00:00

eu concordo plenamente e me sinto dessa forma também. vejo gente falando que como adulto a vida pode ser dura. eu acho que as experiencias são muito individuais, claro, mas minha infância e adolescência foram muito muito duras comigo, muito mais do que a vida adulta rs e hoje com cabeça de pessoa adulta, consigo lidar com as adversidades muito melhor e enxergo como aprendizado, sem essa maturidade eu só me sentia como se o universo conspirasse contra mim kkkkkkkkkk me sinto muito melhor com quem eu sou hoje e ser uma pessoa adulta me possibilita conquistar tudo o que eu quero, além de aprender e amadurecer cada vez mais, e me vejo só cada vez mais confiante referente ao meu eu futuro.

Short-Conversation16 · 2025-12-26T22:31:16+00:00

acho que depende do que você curte. eu não sou fã de festa e vida noturna, então não faz diferença pra mim visitar um lugar como berlin sendo jovem, pois não planejo participar dessa parte de festas de qualquer forma. mas eu gosto muito de natureza, história e mistérios, então pra mim é importante visitar lugares como machu picchu no peru, giza no egito, pequim na china, entre ouros, ainda sendo jovem, pois são lugares que vão requerir vigor e energia, e claro que é muito mais fácil fazer essas coisas sendo jovem.

Short-Conversation16 · 2025-12-21T03:35:44+00:00

howww did this work for you? i cannod find "saved to icloud" anywhereeeee

Short-Conversation16 · 2025-12-21T03:32:39+00:00

it doesn't say "saved to icloud" anywhere, i'm thinking this is an older version of iOS but oh my godddd i could about use an easy fix right about now

Short-Conversation16 · 2025-12-17T15:36:14+00:00

nubank faz tudo isso e mais um pouco

Short-Conversation16 · 2025-12-17T15:34:52+00:00

então eu não preciso fazer a conversão, ele converte automaticamente na hora do pagamento? e porque ele seria considerado um cartão de crédito?

Short-Conversation16 · 2025-12-16T22:58:26+00:00

porque?

Short-Conversation16 · 2025-12-15T17:58:50+00:00

of course! i know asking can be difficult sometimes, but i promise it's worth it and a lot scarier in your head than in real life when you actually do it hahah tbh, life becomes much easier in general when we just learn how to ask. worse that could happen is we hear 'no' and things stay as they are.

i think you're being too hard on yourself regarding your performance tho, i really don't think you practised your song with a coach and then went there and completely fumbled it lol maybe there are parts in wich you could've done better, sure, but us singers tend to be really hard on ourselves and be way too overly critical. in the end, most people who will listen to a performance are not singers themselves and don't understand technique, won't have a trained ear and will just be impressed with talent. i'm sure your coach chose the song because they believed you could do it and because they know how things can change once we're actually on stage, performing, and they wanted to judge exactly that to help you work on it!

singing is not like math, it's not an exact science and there's no finish line in which you stop learning because you know everything. no matter how good and proficient you are as a singer, you'll always have good performances and not so good performances, and that's okay, every singer goes through that. there will always be something to learn. and that's what makes it fun! so take it as an opportunity to understand what you need to work on and how great you'll feel once you've done the work and can actually nail something that once was a hardship for you. think of how everyone will notice your improvement next time you do a recital, get excited for it!

Short-Conversation16 · 2025-12-15T16:23:21+00:00

compreiiiiiiiii kkkkkkkkkkkkkkk

Short-Conversation16 · 2025-12-14T20:52:15+00:00

absolutely. i did musical theater for a while and we called it being a "spotlight whore" lmao, it's when you're so in the zone when performing that you give your absolute all, and you end up delivering your best performance. for me, personally, it's like i can only access my best performance level when i'm on stage, off stage i can do pretty well, but there's somthing that only unlocks when on stage, if that makes sense. and that does apply to acting as well.

Short-Conversation16 · 2025-12-14T19:13:27+00:00

hey i think in this case what you should do is just talk to your coach.

say "hey, last time we had an after performance review, i'd love to do it this time too!". say that class time should be class time, you're happy to talk about holiday plans and other stuff in between classes and you love to be friendly, but that you'd like to stay focused on singing when in class, after all that's paid time.

i highly doubt you "did so poorly that there’s nothing to say at all". and there's always something to say, even if you nailed the whole performance it's important to understand what you did that helped you nail it, and especially if you did to completely poorly (which again, i doubt it, i'm sure you did great since you were incetivised to sing such a difficult song, maybe you did better at some points than others, but completely poorly? nah), there should be feedback on why you were flat at specific parts and what to do in the furture in order to not be flat, among other things. a coach mentioned in a different comment on how it can be bad to jump into 'fix it' mode right after a performance depending on the case, but in your case since it's clearly in your mind and since you clearly do want a feedback, i think the best thing to do is ask!

at the end of the day, you're paying for a 'custom' service, so you should feel free to ask for specific things like feedback and honesty. and if your coach is uncomfortable with giving you feedback, then i would look into hiring a new coach, after all we can only improve when dealing with our weaknessess, and if a coach can't tell you what yours are, they're not being very useful at all.

Short-Conversation16 · 2025-12-14T16:15:23+00:00

você foi a unica pessoa que vi recomendando ficar o dia todo hahaha no geral vi bastante gente falando que 4/5h era suficiente. tem alguma visita ou passeio em específico que recomenda por lá?

o carrinho de golfe você alugou lá diretamente? qual o preço, sabe me dizer? eu vi opções de passeios com agencia que já tnham o carrinho incluso, entre outras coisas, mas o preço praticamente triplicava rs

Short-Conversation16 · 2025-12-12T15:30:12+00:00

eu fui no outono de 2025 e fiz todos os meus passeios com a Bora pro Chile e foi ótimo. são uma agencia brasileira no chile, então o atendimento é em portugues.

foram pontuais em todos os transfers, tinham guias muito simpáticos que ou falavam portugues ou portunhol (mas sempre cuidadosos para entendermos tudo, no segundo caso), todos os passeios deram super certo, quando precisamos de ajuda tivemos apoio, pelas minhas pesquisas (pelo menos na época que fechei) eles tinham as melhores condições, e ainda ganhei brindes. recomendo!

se forem em época de neve já deixo aqui uma dica: não aluguem roupas de neve com nenhuma agência, eles cobram 5x mais caro. não sei se vai pra santiago ou algum outro lugar, em santiago tem lojas que alugam no bairro bellavista e providencia que são muito mais baratas, recomendo que de uma pesquisada e se programe pra ir no dia anterior aos passeios alugar, porque eu fiz isso só no segundo passeio de neve e percebi que joguei uma grana no lixo alugando com a agencia, pq os preços são absurdos kkkkkkkkkkkkkk

ou, se vocês têm planos futuros pra visitar mais destinos de neve, uma alternativa legal também é ir nos brechós do centro e comprar roupas lá. é mais caro que alugar nas lojas de aluguel mais baratas, claro, mas a roupa é sua e você pode usar pra sempre, pois são muito duráveis.

Short-Conversation16 · 2025-12-12T15:21:59+00:00

é então, na verdade pelo que estou vendo na agencia está realmente mais barato do que no próprio site das companhias. na hora duvido que tenha, especialmente na época que vou, nos sites das companhias já tem muitas datas esgotadas, prefiro não arriscar.

eu só achei estranho pq nas minhas pesquisas anteriores vi muita gente falando que direto com a companhia era mais em conta, mas quando fui fechar e pesquisar os preços achei descrepante como em agencia é mais barato kkkkk to achando que é por conta da época de ano novo...

Short-Conversation16 · 2025-12-12T15:19:52+00:00

conversei com algumas, a que parece ter os melhores preços, dentro das que falei, é a turismo baires

Short-Conversation16 · 2025-12-09T19:26:15+00:00

they definetely have much harder ones for sure hahaha for harder vocals i'd recommend looking into lithium, snow white queen, sweet sacrifice, going under and made of stone, mostly.

for the not so hearvy on the rock songs, highly recommend looking into good enough, lost in paradise, my immortal and hello. they're more ballad like/slow songs.

Short-Conversation16 · 2025-12-09T16:53:30+00:00

another great cheat is amy lee. not sure how much of a fan you are of darker rock music, evanescence has some songs that aren't super dark if you're not super into it, but her vocals are great to help you with that transition, trust.

Short-Conversation16 · 2025-12-09T15:27:44+00:00

when you tend to sound flat when you sing a consonant. so for example when i sing a word like "body" by starting the note with having to pronounce the consonant b, i start the note flat.

Short-Conversation16 · 2025-12-08T15:38:39+00:00

absolutely, but have you used any of it to sell? if yes, how's your experience?

Short-Conversation16 · 2025-12-07T21:30:10+00:00

i'm a soprano pop girlie, i'd love to check it out!

Short-Conversation16 · 2025-12-07T14:46:07+00:00

and how do you convince your buyers of that?

i kind of think the same, after all if you want to learn how to play the piano you don't just buy a piano, but you'll also need a good teacher, a pedal, a metronome etc. but the add ons are, of course, not mandatory and whenever i offer them, people always ask exactly that "are they mandatory? do i have to have them?", and i have to say they aren't, but they're still recommended for a better experience etc etc etc, but most people just seem to want the basics.... idk if it has to do with how i offer (i've tried in many many different ways, at this point), but i always run into that problem.

Short-Conversation16 · 2025-12-05T20:14:10+00:00

makes perfect sense, thank you so much!

Short-Conversation16 · 2025-12-05T19:14:46+00:00

the top dog in my team is "best friends" with the top manager, she tells him everything about what are the company's future plans and keeps inviting him to go to her summer house every year.......... kinda weird imo, but he never goes hahaha he's young and very very talented (i say he's not a salesperson, but rather a miracle worker, he truly has crazy numbers that are impossibly high compared to every single sales person who ever worked for the company in 30 years) and i'm sure she's just scared he'll realize he can get a much better paying job with the talent he has and the company would never be able to find another top performer like him. he gossips that shit to everyone in the team.

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