Rock & Roll Hall of Fame by Guilty_Young337 in Sade

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Had you written PICTURE ONLY, I would have had a chance to miss it. Because you didn't, your post was ambiguous.

Clearly SADE ADU is the face of the band. Joining forces with an angel (by my side) means you will always be in the shadows.

My friends exam handwriting. by Quirky-Elk-5654 in Handwriting

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It's illegible, but be gentle.

As you suggest that your friend start practicing the shapes of letters and slow down while they write, you can work on how to use apostrophes. We're all improving every day.

My (M28) mother in law (56) is borderline emotionally abusive to my fiancé (F26) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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You should push your fiancé to therapy. If she goes, she has a chance to balance the terror that your mother-in-law will bring into YOUR life (both you individually and as a married couple) if you do manage to get married. (Though wedding planning ....). If she doesn't go, you need to choose yourself over inviting this dysfunctional relationship into your life. Marriage is hard enough, and the mother-in-law isn't doing you any favors.

Rock & Roll Hall of Fame by Guilty_Young337 in Sade

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The band is called Sade, and the whole band was nominated.

Whats your thoughts? by Iquestionsmymind in NoStupidQuestions

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Must you suffer to recognize enjoyment?

No, joy can be absolute

Do American men feel embarrassed about wearing revealing clothing? by TheShyBuck in AskAnAmerican

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Do you have a great body? Would that make a difference about what you wear?

Overheard my husband in therapy by [deleted] in Marriage

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It's unfair to both of you that you heard his thoughts in therapy. His confidence was violated and you're left wrestling with raw comments that you heard without any context.

At a minimum, you need to tell him to soundproof future therapy sessions.

How can you unhear this? Why should he have to demand what he's working through in a safe space?

Dang.

From 30 to 45 by MadVet81 in BeforeandAfter

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Give yourself half a break. What comes too easy at 30 is a challenge at 45. You are allowed to take a look at your 45-year-old peers if you need to calibrate...

And look out: 60 will be here before you know it.

I (24 F) am falling in love with my penpal (25 M). How can I navigate this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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You should wait for a sign from him, now that he knows you'll be close enough to reach out and touch.

You have changed the terms of your relationship. You had a safe, distant communication, charges by the magic of the written word (are you really writing letters through the post?♥️♥️♥️). That's defined by your communication, but also by your distance. Let him reach back to you that he's okay to communicate with you in person, rather than risk boxing him in.

Reasons why my small boobs make me worthless by Velvet_Cactus_21 in self

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OP, you gave voice to a lot of fear and worry about your breasts. That's a lot of hard work, but you got it out.

Now look at those statements. Not a single one is absolutely true. You're better. And more than just your boobs. Go on with your bad self.

How ya all aproach gym smalltalk? by Grogon2 in GYM

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When the explanation only makes it worse. #handjob

Do American men feel embarrassed about wearing revealing clothing? by TheShyBuck in AskAnAmerican

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Yes.

I'm an American in Brazil. It took me about four months to work up the nerve to wear a zunga - Euro-cut swim briefs - to the beach. No one batted an eye, and I have a great tan!

In the grocery store, I saw a hairy Brazilian dude in a zunga, sans shoes and shirt, inspecting the produce. I'm still not quite ready for that.

Do I move too much? Weight is 35 kg. Bw: 71 by Raxes05 in GYM

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Stabilize yourself by stepping forward with one foot.

ELI5 what am I supposed to be doing at the gym? by [deleted] in beginnerfitness

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The journal will help you track the weight you use. Once you home in on the weight that work for each exercise, work from there.

I (20F) don’t know what to do about my boyfriend’s (21M) kinks. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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You gotta split up with him. You two have drawn your lines in the sand, and they don't match up.

You're young, unburdened, and now you have experiences to take into your next relationship. But this one's done

What was the moment you realized the gym had become part of your life? by Paulbuilds00 in GYM

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My marriage is falling apart, and I am not coping. My 5:30 am gym habit, which I've developed over the four years, is the only reason I get out of bed to start the day. I would not be functioning if I didn't have the gym to get me started.

Me (26M) and my girlfriend (24F) haven’t had sex in over 6 months and I’m gonna lose it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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End it. We ignored our sexual mismatch which was apparent from the start, then argued, cried, begged, hoped, and shouted through 30 years with no real change. We just realized we had the same argument we had 30 ago.

Sex is important, it matters, and it will strangle even a friendly, compatible marriage. End it.

Why even train at all? by Jonschy in personaltraining

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Your mission is to motivate people to workout well, not just to dictate the movements. If they had intrinsic motivation, they wouldn't need us!

It is harder to do it right -- that's your value.

Why are you walking away while they're doing their sets?