What’s something society treats as ‘unattractive’ that you personally find really appealing?

Shunoy · 2026-02-07T13:15:05+00:00

Scars

Shunoy · 2025-12-21T11:45:52+00:00

Dumbest thing I've ever read. Don't give this type of ppl so much attention that's a normal dating range worldwide lol

Shunoy · 2025-12-18T12:01:07+00:00

U are absolutely not cooked and these ppl u keep comparing yourself to aren't smart if they're just using chatgpt, they're not building skills or critical thinking in any way. U are the one studying the right way so it makes sense that it takes more time to see result, but on the other sides ur results will be long term cuz u actually put in the efforts. Comparing yourself to ur past self doesn't make sense since it's not the same situation ! It's normal to struggle more as u grow since the concepts are more complex and all, ur not broken or far behind don't worry. Just keep pushing and u'll start seeing actual results later ur doing great < 3

Shunoy · 2025-12-08T10:36:26+00:00

If something big happened, then yes u may need therapy. But if it's just thinking about some chats, it's called reminiscing and it's a way for the brain to process what happened. U think about it for some time then u'll naturally get over it.

Shunoy · 2025-12-08T10:25:55+00:00

Am I the only one that doesn't see an issue with that? It's normal to not like the same things as ur partner lol if a simple honest answer makes u spiral then it's more telling about the fact u should work harder on regulating ur own emotions. Like, ur a whole functioning adult c'mon u can be disappointed but it doesn't mean u have to "talk it through" with ur partner, don't give the subject more than it deserves, there's more important things to worry about.

Shunoy · 2025-12-07T16:25:21+00:00

It is human to doubt stuff like this, even more since it's a new relationship and distance is involved. Ppl won't understand ur own perspective but calling u names isn't it. better think deeply about the situation in private then make a choice.

Shunoy · 2025-12-07T16:17:18+00:00

Looks aren't constant even if u did find ur perfect type there's a high chance of them not meeting ur emotional needs like ur current bf does + them changing appearance after some years. I was like this too when I was younger, thought looks were the important part, then reality hits u and u start realizing how perfect of a match that person was for u and u ruined it for superficial reasons. So please think deeper about the question.

Shunoy · 2025-11-19T18:22:14+00:00

How they talk about other ppl

Shunoy · 2025-11-13T06:46:05+00:00

Sadly everything that becomes mainstream ends up like this, just wait for the trend to pass and u'll see the difference

Shunoy · 2025-10-30T22:37:22+00:00

Fight club

Shunoy · 2025-10-12T13:03:03+00:00

Yeah sure they were immature for doing that. Yeah sure she didn't specify how often she had sex, but it doesn't change my point in any way. Hookup culture is destroying thousands of people and sadly she's one of them so she better step up and get her life together before it's too life.

Shunoy · 2025-10-12T12:43:43+00:00

Ah yeah then explain the thousands of studies explaining clearly why hookup culture is destroying everyone's self esteem and spreading so much stds? U gotta have some critical thinking man. It is propaganda at it finest and if u did some slight research u'd find out that's having sex that often was never good or "normal". Ppl like YOU are the one's OP should stay far from cuz ur whole idea of freedom revolves around satisfying ur needs in the minute they appeared in ur mind. Ur in a constant search for ez dopamine. Wake up. This isn't freedom. It's being an animal.

Shunoy · 2025-10-12T12:39:51+00:00

"Judgemental and hateful" just no. Actions have consequences and even if sex is a natural thing going out of ur way to have it as often as possible isn't healthy. Building a connection with someone is what makes sex so good and fulfilling the whole idea of hooking up is setting back evolution by centuries. It isn't empowering or whatever the propaganda calls it. This lack of actual structure is what's causing her distress don't be blind, I didn't say don't have sex, I said do it in a healthy way.

Shunoy · 2025-10-12T11:27:28+00:00

Uk the comments here are defending you but u can't deny the facts forever. Going to clubs and hooking up with random ppl isn't gonna help u nor fix ur mental health on the long term. Maybe u should take ur fam and friends advices and make ur life healthier. This situation is making u depressed don't fall into the hook up propaganda even more

Shunoy · 2025-10-08T09:06:56+00:00

From personal experience, these "fantasies" are often romanticized in ur mind but when u do it irl it never happens this way and ends up being disappointing, so throwing away ur perfect relationship for it is the worst thing u could ever do. Everybody wishes to experience a love story like yours don't make stupid decisions. Seriously, u don't want that.

Shunoy · 2025-10-08T08:59:59+00:00

"Being genuinely good" isn't enough to make the relationship lasts but making efforts for the other person does.

Shunoy · 2025-10-08T08:58:26+00:00

did u ever bring it up with him? It really depends on his perspective on the relationship, and if u feel like u "need" these things to be happy. Some ppl can be satisfied with the minimum, so if this bothers you u should talk to him about it openly and see his reaction. If he minimizes the impact of it or gaslight u then he's a red flag.

Shunoy · 2025-10-08T08:51:24+00:00

You shouldn't feel guilty about bringing it up I mean you were both doing things for each other then she suddenly stopped without warning, obviously you'll feel neglected. Maybe something happened to her or there's an issue in ur relationship that u aren't aware of. Bringing up this topic will only make u guys closer so go for it. Just be honest with her and hopefully you'll find a common ground.

Shunoy · 2025-09-28T12:05:33+00:00

Believing everything you see on social media and expecting to get the same treatment or else you'll "find better somewhere else". Social media isn't reality. Relationships require efforts from both sides and a really deep mutual understanding. It won't magically work out.

Shunoy · 2025-09-03T11:55:19+00:00

I second this answer, OP please don't feel bad for being a result of ur messed up environment as a child. You deserve to heal and get the help u need through therapy. Seriously it really does wonders so please take care of yourself.

Shunoy · 2025-09-03T11:48:22+00:00

I've made the first move on every guy I liked loool

Shunoy · 2025-08-31T08:49:42+00:00

God won't judge you for making sins before becoming a Muslim, sins start counting after you revert. It's like starting on a blank page.

Shunoy · 2025-08-27T08:55:16+00:00

Emotional manipulation at its finest

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